Before I was married, I worked as a secretary and was in my mid 20s. I lived with some roommates near the valley (LA).
We would got out with co-workers some times, and I did not have a serious BFs during that time.
One of those nights, I started talking with some guys at the Red Onion we were at, and agreed to follow them to a small bar. My other GFs left and I stayed and did shots and tried to play pool. One of the guys was a black man that I remember being really interested with each other.
I went back to his apartment and first gave him and his room mate BJs. I ended up having sex with just him, even trying my first and only anal. It was the first time I had sex with a black man.
He drove me back to the home I shared and the next morning, one of my roommates drove me to pick up my car.
We casually went out a few times over the next year.