How chastity can really help

[curious28]

After a super hot weekend with my lovers I decided to give Michael the first physical tease in 18 months or there about. It will likely be months or even a year before I do this again. No orgasm. Just a couple of minutes teasing. He barely got through it. What a cuck!
J
Xoxoox

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Ohh god. I am going to pass out

 

[curious28]

Hi,
These are tough questions because I can only speak for myself and Michael. For us it was not a completely easy decision. It certainly wasnt organic and it took a long time to discuss and for me to learn about the lifestyle. Ours did not manifest in the form of a kink. When back in the states, before i met Michael, I had experience with a few black guys in college. michael did not learn that until far later in our relationship. We had watched some porn and one of the scenes was a cuck type deal with 3 big guys and i got very very wound up and ended up telling michael about my experiences. I guess the califnornian in me opened up and he then began discussing teease and denial. We did that for a while and it was very hot, but then he wanted or suggested we take it forward. Your wife will think that you maybe cheating on her, she may question your comittment and your love for her. She may think that you are suggesting cheating so you can end the relationship, like you are making an excuse. I had all of these problems and it took nearly 2 yrs of discussion and to be frank, arguing.
Each couple is different and then I decided to at least consider this after learning that Michael did love me vbery much and he was just giving into a kink.
I have detailed this before so wont go into now, but we decided to try it as long as I controlled the way the lifestyle played out. If I wanted out early on that would be what happened. Yes it went the completely other direction but that is his fault not mine. Don't rush her and if you love her and she does not want to try it, dont push her. Not everyone is cut out for this and even though so many guys on this site desire a permanent lock and key the fantasy isnt the same as the real world and i think many guys here would not be able to handle it. So consider things, very very carefully.
J
xoxoxo

Well explained. Thank you

 

[curious28]

Yeah Jess is a friend who I work with. A few months back we got talking in a bar and I let slip that we were in a cuckold relationship. Or I hinted as much. She then a month or so later came into my office and asked me to elaborate on what exactly I meant. So I told her and she just blurted out that her hubby had actually discussed a similar fantasy with her hubby. At least her hubby had told her he had a serious fetish about tease and denial. She automatically recalled what I said and she wanted advice. Her hubby is a far more submissive man and wanted the works. We have now played together several times and she I initially watched. But she has now taken part and both Gregg and Dan have been with her. She is a serious hottie and she is bringing a guy with her this weekend and I am bringing my guys. Her hubby I'll watch and so will Michael. If he chooses to watch. I love being with her it's so hot.
J
Xoxooz

Oh my. So hot

 

[curious28]

He chose to watch and he was allowed to watch for about 30 minutes and he has not watched for a long time so he was surprised by whatmi acted like lol. I can't get enough sex with my guys. If I could have them every single day I would. I love being dominated. Its just incredibly hot for me to have Michael watching while being essentially treated like a whore, thrown around and leashed with a leather collar wearing a very skimpy lingerie set. In pretty certain Michael was leaking in his cage for the entire time but he doesn't get to touch himself. My cuck can look but not touch, either me or himself when I am being pleasured.
J
Xoxoxo

Love it

 

[curious28]

. Try massaging his prostrate with a vibrator in his ass when he is caged with hands tied too. Dont stop even when he is begging you to stop.

 

[curious28]

I'm pretty certain Michael could orgasm just using my vibrator on the underside of his cage and balls. I love making myself orgasm while he is locked up. Exactly what i did last week, allow him to prod me and I will use the vibrator etc.. To make myself come.
J
Xoxoxo

 

[curious28]

 

[curious28]

Once you remove your man's ability to ejaculate then his focus is you. Hence he will do what he can to please you and he will make you come over and over with toys, tongue, fingers or even his caged dick. What's not to love?
J
Xoxoxo

 

[curious28]

Well chastity has changed him quite a lot and made him submissive but he has not given in yet. But I have another play to make and that is my girlfriend Jess, who is now in this lifestyle with her hubby. She and I have played with the idea of playing together, girl on girl when with our bulls. Now I think Michael may give in to my demands for cleanup of he got to see me play with Jess. He thinks she is hot. She actually have him a lap dance on the weekend for his birthday.
J
Xoxoxo

 

[curious28]

Well I can promise you that I have passed on all of your comments over the weekend. I think he will give in. The reading I did with him on his birthday has really turned him on. I have told him that he can expect that kind of teasing a little more often if he gives into me. Perhaps Jess will tease him too. I think that he may just do it. If he wants to stay involved with me sexually then it will only be his tongue and mouth on my pussy. His dick stays in the cage.

You are a Goddess

 

[curious28]

At the start when we first used the cage, before I had taken lovers, I used to suck Michaels dick slowlynfor around 20 minutes until he was very close and then stop. I would then get the cage and wait for him to go limp, using ice and lock him back up. By the time he got tomorrow it was like a flood. I used to peg him until orgasm but not any more. You're right, regular orgasm or milking is needed but he always comes in his sleep. If he doesn't he tells me so I do let him jerk off. His health is very important. But I prefer him to be healthy but without orgasm. I discussed with him last night my intention to involve him more. More teasing etc. I did emphasise that this new teasing will now involve intercourse for him and it will likely mean more for me. Jess is happy for us to play together but she wants to try it without any of the bulls first. So this weekend, Saturday night me and Michael will be going to thier house for drinks. When ready me and Jess will go play and if we are both into it We may invite the cucks to come and watch. But as always, strictly look but don't touch. They are our husbands yes but that doenst mean they can touch.
J
oxoxox

 

[curious28]

When your wife loves to tease and deny you and remind you that Locktober is coming...but you aren't...

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Ohh my. So hot

 

[curious28]

Very happy this evening with his brand new cage. It's far more snug. He went from a 50mm O-ring at the start of the year to a 45mm about 3 months ago. As mentioned previously he managed to get out over the weekend and give himself a treat. But today the 40mm ring and a new cage arrived. Told him to shower when home from work (he finished 1 hour earlier than me today) and shave as I have him the day off and the moment I got home I locked him. I've just tested warm soapy water and baby oil. Ice and simple tugging and manipulation. He cannot get it off. I'm happy.
J

Xoxo

Oh god.

 

[curious28]

Do what she says. Don't question her, ever.

Yes

 

[curious28]

I just began in chastity, it having been a desire of mine for a number of years now. My Goddess and I live in different towns and have played with chastity for the odd day or two in the past but this morning I was instructed to put my Looker 02 on in the knowledge that I would not see her again until the weekend (and even then she says there's no guarantee she'll unlock me).

My Goddess allowed me to keep one of the keys and I'm under strict instructions to only use it in an emergency and with her permission.

My Goddess also knows about my fantasy of seeing her taken by a younger, more skilled, and better endowed black guy but has signalled that she doesn't see it actually happening for real.

It has been 10 days since I last had an orgasm (honour system) and in that time Goddess has teased, edged, and denied me numerous times. I now have the Looker 02 with urethral tube in (an exquisite experience) on for the next five days.

During those tease and denial sessions she would get me to detail my fantasies else she would stop touching me. I admitted I wanted to be tied to a chair while she was fucked by a big black guy and then released in order to clean up her cum filled pussy.

The last time I was allowed to orgasm it was whilst Goddess gently massaged my balls and bit down on my pierced nipple with resultant excruciating but erotic pain. I came so hard and with no penile stimulation whatsoever.

My Goddess is an amazing woman. I am so blessed.

 

[curious28]

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That is absolutely true. It takes a guy a little time to get used to it. Michael will often get hard in it whilst sleeping and will need to sit in a cool room and think unsexy thoughts for it to go down. He sometimes gets "familiar" with me when he's half asleep, I then have to wake him and remind him that he is caged for a reason, it's inappropriate for him to start playing with me sexually.
J
Xoxoxo

 

[curious28]

Typical white cuckie boy in chastity. Tiny, effeminate, inadequate, premie and useless dick.

I recomment letting only Bulls inside. Let cuck hubbies tongue inside for cleaning and fluffing only. Allow him to wank when you feel generous and merciful.

Also, he is shaved and hairless

 

[curious28]

ahhh hes aching for some orgasm. dont let up

 

[tomtomjim]

So, me and my boyfriend have been active on this site for a couple of months and we've been having a lot of fun with this lifestyle.

About a month ago my boyfriend asked if I wanted to try and put him in chastity. I was kind of hesitant because we're not much into this humiliating thing, and I kind of felt that it would be like I was bossing him around too much. But we thought it was worth trying.

Now he has been in chastity for a month. We wanted to really give this a shot so we didn't want to do it for just one day or two and then give up. I have let him out a few times, but we haven't had sex. He wants to do this so I'm certainly not forsing him in any way.

After this month, I can only say WOW... We wanted to dig deeper into this lifestyle and this has helped us so much. My boyfriend is now more focused on my satisfaction and helping me to hook up with black guys. And he likes it.

And for me, this has really sparked something inside me. Now that we have decided to keep my boyfriend in chastity for a while, my focus too, has changed. Instead of just letting the steam off with my boyfriend, like I usually do, I now have to meet my bull, or hook up with some other guy. It has made me much more horny and active in this lifestyle. Now I see my regular bull at least twice a week, and I have been more eager to try and meet other guys.

The sex is amazing, and neither me nor my boyfriend misses having casual sex with each other. We are not going to stop having sex completely, because we love having sex in a more emotional way, but perhaps we will do it less often, at least for a while.

My boyfriend fantasizes about me going "black only", but I'm not sure about that. . I love him and I think I would miss the more tender sex that I only enjoy with him.

Anyway, just wanted to say this, because it's been such a great experience!

eventually another woman will steal your boyfriend and fuck his brains out and you will be waiting for the studs to visit you when they have no other pussy

 

[agent]

You are part way to full cuckoldry. Do not stop now! Now that cuckie has accepted chastity. You should make him wear lingerie. Tell him that is heightens your pleasure seeing him dolled up in chastity. Increases the passion between you and your Bulls. Explain how it is his place to do whatever you ask so as to provide better satisfaction for you, and the Bull(s). That is true cuckoldry. Explain it all nicely and how happy it will make all of you, but, insist. Once you sissify him, your sexual satisfaction will increase dramatically. You will have freedom to have sex with any Black Men while you control cuckie and keep him caged and in panties and stockings like the beta he truly wants to be. It works, wish I could watch! Good luck and good sex! And I assure you, cuckie wants this deep down where he keeps his greatest desires.

I agree. I love the sissy role. It heightens the sexual experience for me. Not all women like this. But it makes sense. The more you treat your penis like a limp clit. The less you think about penetrating a girl. I have leaked so hard in chastity without even touching my cage. Being pantied and locked gave me the visual experience I needed to release myself. And orgasming like this I was still horny. Unlike cumming and thats it.