How chastity can really help

Sounds great ! When my wife started denying me she mentioned how it was alot more exciting that if she was horny she had to go out and get it. It made her feel young again hooking up with different guys and not just having " old faithful" at home.

Now that she's been exclusive to large cocks for the past year she's told me she has zero interest in my little guy and I'm totally fine with that!
Do you "eat the pie"? Providing wifey with seconday cunnilingus afterwards? You really should you know!
 
This is a good example of good communication. As long as you communicate, and be sure that there is something in it for both, then you will be fine. Keep in mind that if you do not have sex with your boyfriend at all, you will lose the chemical connection with him. If you then have a steady bull, then you will bond with him. But that is all up to you both what you want.
I agree with you on the “chemical connection” or DNA bonding between primary lovers. The more black seed DNA that I absorbed into my body the more that I craved. I noticed a huge difference in my cravings when my two black bulls stopped using condoms and began to fill me regularly with their potent black seed. My desire for my husband’s white seed faded away and I stopped having bareback sex with him altogether (bulls request granted). Whether it is a chemical or biological reaction, my desire for potent black sperm is becoming stronger than ever. This is a deep craving that I cannot resist.
 
That is exactly right in my experience. Its about control. Michael is much bigger in stronger than me. The power I have over him now is complete. I like him wound up and on edge and he loves it. His attitude is far better and he works hard to keep us happy. He has joked so many times that hemis married to a pornstsr because I am pretty nasty when it comes to sex but am now far more naughty than before. So he does have a pornstsr as a wide but he's just not allowed to have me himself. I likewise joke that I would have sex with him several times A day of he dick was much bigger and a different colour. Lol. He will a good show tonight.
J
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. And what is your next step beyond pornstar ?
 
I agree with you on the “chemical connection” or DNA bonding between primary lovers. The more black seed DNA that I absorbed into my body the more that I craved. I noticed a huge difference in my cravings when my two black bulls stopped using condoms and began to fill me regularly with their potent black seed. My desire for my husband’s white seed faded away and I stopped having bareback sex with him altogether (bulls request granted). Whether it is a chemical or biological reaction, my desire for potent black sperm is becoming stronger than ever. This is a deep craving that I cannot resist.
. The potent black seed is stimulating your natural need and desire to procreate as is natures intention for most females. More seed more passion more desire.
 
Yeah I think you misunderstand the dynamics of a cuckold relationship. This is something he asked for and it took me nearly 18 months to come round to it. He asked for me to take control. Chastity isn't for all couples but for us it has worked and we are both incredibly turned on my his denial, restriction and power change. I love my husband and THAT is why we engage in this. End of.
J
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. For the added spice and stimulation to enhance your sex lives.
 
well done and courageous to go the distance. Sometimes cuckies cling to their male delusions and have to be trained to accept themselves as feminine beta bois subservient to the Wife and her Bull(s). Training can be strict but it provides the most satisfactory and satisfying results. Period. you go MichaelandJamie! Well done!
Personally it has been a tough thing to get through for Michael but he came through it and now knows his place in a sexual sense. And I think chastity as a link can work on several scenarios. Yes it adds a real tangible benefit for cuckold couples but even in normal circumstances it is great for tease and denial.
My hubby is a great guy but sexually speaking he can't compare. It's like the difference between a rubber mallet and a sledgehammer. The latter means I don't miss tender love making, I just Fuck.
J
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This is crazy talk. Why can't couples have fun sharing every now and then? For us its a fun kink.Why does it have to be man caged, no sex and humiliation?
How can a couple have a real relationship when one has zero intrest in the other? A marriage definitely will not survive in the long term. IMO there wasn't a good marriage or relationship to begin with. Sex is what brings a man and woman together its nature, if that does not exist then its not being together. My opinion.
The sense this makes is a gust of fresh air blowing through all the ridiculousness.
 
The sense this makes is a gust of fresh air blowing through all the ridiculousness.
Nope. For us THIS is complete nonsense. Our lady wants him to be caged so that he can't ejaculate when she's not around. That you can deeply love someone without having sex at all is proved by all couples with a paraplegic or impotent man. And if a better endowed lover lives near you or even moves in with you, you don't need to have VAGINAL sex with hubby anymore. Which doesn't mean you will have no more sex at all – sex is so much more than vaginal penetration. And not every permanently caged cuck is a sissy. Period.
 
Dear Jamie,

I'm new to this site and posting for the first time. My girlfriend of 8 years and soon to be wife recently agreed to lock up my tiny cock and hold the key when we go out. I deliberately bought the smallest size cage which made her laugh when she tried it. Last night she used a black dildo for the first time while I masturbated. We both came like crazy and there was a confidence in her this morning that I haven't seen for years. She still says she doesn't want other men but she's becoming more hot as we try new things. I'm writing because your posts have been an inspiration to me in pursuing this, and have given me ideas on how to encourage her to become a hotwife.

Hugs, A
Such flattering comments. I am grateful. Just make sure you don't go too small. You want the right fit otherwise it will cause pain and irritation. That isn't fun In such a sensitive place. Look after yourself. We made a mistake early on with size and Michael got a bad rubbing and it blistered and caused a lot of pain. After around 4 or 5 months we got a smaller cage and again after about another 10 months we went smaller. It a gradual. Don't rush. He is on cage 3 now as we went smaller and he will likely need another soon. Time is the biggest kink in this.
J
Xoxoxoxo
 
Such flattering comments. I am grateful. Just make sure you don't go too small. You want the right fit otherwise it will cause pain and irritation. That isn't fun In such a sensitive place. Look after yourself. We made a mistake early on with size and Michael got a bad rubbing and it blistered and caused a lot of pain. After around 4 or 5 months we got a smaller cage and again after about another 10 months we went smaller. It a gradual. Don't rush. He is on cage 3 now as we went smaller and he will likely need another soon. Time is the biggest kink in this.
J
Xoxoxoxo
Hi Jamie, how can I contact you? Would like to share experiences... Love, the Cuck
 
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Nope. For us THIS is complete nonsense. Our lady wants him to be caged so that he can't ejaculate when she's not around. That you can deeply love someone without having sex at all is proved by all couples with a paraplegic or impotent man. And if a better endowed lover lives near you or even moves in with you, you don't need to have VAGINAL sex with hubby anymore. Which doesn't mean you will have no more sex at all – sex is so much more than vaginal penetration. And not every permanently caged cuck is a sissy. Period.
Well, that's a mixed bag of bric-a-brac at best, though certainly there's truth to some of what you post. sex is indeed a whole lot more than penetration, and a man who can't perform whether from an injury or a medical condition obviously isn't exempt from love... or sex, even great sex. But I'd wager most married men -- or men in a relationship who wear a cage -- end up taking it off and fucking their wives or gf in that same session. couples play at denial, do it for fun, for the arousal. Don't know for sure but I think it would be a huge turn-on for both of us to try caging and watch my wife have sex with another man.

But I'm sure few folks in a thriving, loving relationship who can fuck, don't ever fuck each other......at least sometimes. I have to think that goes for nearly every cuckold couple too. the sissy thing is hard to address. As with most more extreme things, while it's a vocal and demonstrative group, I think it's a tiny one and exists mainly in the realm of pure fantasy of single men...and probably men who are interested in/ attracted to men at least as much as the are to women.
 
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If you meet the right black lover, as we did, you don't need hubby anymore for tender sex. A good black lover can fuck you tenderly or roughly, just as you both like it.
This is absolutely true. I and hubby have been Black owned by our Black Master for over 18 months. Our sex evolves all the time. At the beginning husband = tender sex and Master = rough sex. Now husband = no sex and Master = tender, rough, passionate, love making and all other kinds of sex we can imagine. The decision to step into that was taken by both of me and husband. It was conscious and thoughtful decision with no pushing. We do not regret that decision! We are happy of that decision! :) Kisses from Poland. Kasia and Chris
 
So, me and my boyfriend have been active on this site for a couple of months and we've been having a lot of fun with this lifestyle.

About a month ago my boyfriend asked if I wanted to try and put him in chastity. I was kind of hesitant because we're not much into this humiliating thing, and I kind of felt that it would be like I was bossing him around too much. But we thought it was worth trying.

Now he has been in chastity for a month. We wanted to really give this a shot so we didn't want to do it for just one day or two and then give up. I have let him out a few times, but we haven't had sex. He wants to do this so I'm certainly not forsing him in any way.

After this month, I can only say WOW... We wanted to dig deeper into this lifestyle and this has helped us so much. My boyfriend is now more focused on my satisfaction and helping me to hook up with black guys. And he likes it.

And for me, this has really sparked something inside me. Now that we have decided to keep my boyfriend in chastity for a while, my focus too, has changed. Instead of just letting the steam off with my boyfriend, like I usually do, I now have to meet my bull, or hook up with some other guy. It has made me much more horny and active in this lifestyle. Now I see my regular bull at least twice a week, and I have been more eager to try and meet other guys.

The sex is amazing, and neither me nor my boyfriend misses having casual sex with each other. We are not going to stop having sex completely, because we love having sex in a more emotional way, but perhaps we will do it less often, at least for a while.

My boyfriend fantasizes about me going "black only", but I'm not sure about that. :qos:. I love him and I think I would miss the more tender sex that I only enjoy with him.

Anyway, just wanted to say this, because it's been such a great experience! :):)
it looks like you both got what you wont him in a cage that hes wonted and craved for longer than you know ,is he small by the way ? as small guys love being in a cage and a man looking of wife girlfriend . keep us up dated
 
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