How chastity can really help

Misscurious said:
So, me and my boyfriend have been active on this site for a couple of months and we've been having a lot of fun with this lifestyle.

About a month ago my boyfriend asked if I wanted to try and put him in chastity. I was kind of hesitant because we're not much into this humiliating thing, and I kind of felt that it would be like I was bossing him around too much. But we thought it was worth trying.

Now he has been in chastity for a month. We wanted to really give this a shot so we didn't want to do it for just one day or two and then give up. I have let him out a few times, but we haven't had sex. He wants to do this so I'm certainly not forsing him in any way.

After this month, I can only say WOW... We wanted to dig deeper into this lifestyle and this has helped us so much. My boyfriend is now more focused on my satisfaction and helping me to hook up with black guys. And he likes it.

And for me, this has really sparked something inside me. Now that we have decided to keep my boyfriend in chastity for a while, my focus too, has changed. Instead of just letting the steam off with my boyfriend, like I usually do, I now have to meet my bull, or hook up with some other guy. It has made me much more horny and active in this lifestyle. Now I see my regular bull at least twice a week, and I have been more eager to try and meet other guys.

The sex is amazing, and neither me nor my boyfriend misses having casual sex with each other. We are not going to stop having sex completely, because we love having sex in a more emotional way, but perhaps we will do it less often, at least for a while.

My boyfriend fantasizes about me going "black only", but I'm not sure about that. :qos:. I love him and I think I would miss the more tender sex that I only enjoy with him.

Anyway, just wanted to say this, because it's been such a great experience! :):)
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Well said , no doubt it’s about focus for us cucks . My chastity has been liberating, no more selfish jerking off for me it’s all about her . ?
 

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Misscurious said:
So, me and my boyfriend have been active on this site for a couple of months and we've been having a lot of fun with this lifestyle.

About a month ago my boyfriend asked if I wanted to try and put him in chastity. I was kind of hesitant because we're not much into this humiliating thing, and I kind of felt that it would be like I was bossing him around too much. But we thought it was worth trying.

Now he has been in chastity for a month. We wanted to really give this a shot so we didn't want to do it for just one day or two and then give up. I have let him out a few times, but we haven't had sex. He wants to do this so I'm certainly not forsing him in any way.

After this month, I can only say WOW... We wanted to dig deeper into this lifestyle and this has helped us so much. My boyfriend is now more focused on my satisfaction and helping me to hook up with black guys. And he likes it.

And for me, this has really sparked something inside me. Now that we have decided to keep my boyfriend in chastity for a while, my focus too, has changed. Instead of just letting the steam off with my boyfriend, like I usually do, I now have to meet my bull, or hook up with some other guy. It has made me much more horny and active in this lifestyle. Now I see my regular bull at least twice a week, and I have been more eager to try and meet other guys.

The sex is amazing, and neither me nor my boyfriend misses having casual sex with each other. We are not going to stop having sex completely, because we love having sex in a more emotional way, but perhaps we will do it less often, at least for a while.

My boyfriend fantasizes about me going "black only", but I'm not sure about that. :qos:. I love him and I think I would miss the more tender sex that I only enjoy with him.

Anyway, just wanted to say this, because it's been such a great experience! :):)
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If you meet the right black lover, as we did, you don't need hubby anymore for tender sex. A good black lover can fuck you tenderly or roughly, just as you both like it.
 
wing1521 said:
Dear Jamie,

I'm new to this site and posting for the first time. My girlfriend of 8 years and soon to be wife recently agreed to lock up my tiny cock and hold the key when we go out. I deliberately bought the smallest size cage which made her laugh when she tried it. Last night she used a black dildo for the first time while I masturbated. We both came like crazy and there was a confidence in her this morning that I haven't seen for years. She still says she doesn't want other men but she's becoming more hot as we try new things. I'm writing because your posts have been an inspiration to me in pursuing this, and have given me ideas on how to encourage her to become a hotwife.

Hugs, A
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Hi A, we masturbate the same way, it's really great! She is going black only, but I'm not in chastity (yet). I Hope for you that your girlfriend will be blacked in your wedding night..
 
paul28msingle said:
I dated an innocent girl in college for a few years. Walked in on her fucking a huge black cock. I was shocked! She left me for him. I became so concerned about my size! I had no idea. Afterwards, I developed sexual performance anxiety. The chastity is great because i feel it hides my problem. I can never perform like a BBC so it makes sense i be locked.
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Yes! Set aside pressure to perform like a Real Man.. Keep that chastity device on, wear lingerie and relax. Be a femme beta boy and accept the pleasure you can handle, like dressing, fluffing, participating, cleaning, service etc. We find fulfillment in this and all parties are happy.
 
MichaelDndJamie said:
That is exactly right in my experience. Its about control. Michael is much bigger in stronger than me. The power I have over him now is complete. I like him wound up and on edge and he loves it. His attitude is far better and he works hard to keep us happy. He has joked so many times that hemis married to a pornstsr because I am pretty nasty when it comes to sex but am now far more naughty than before. So he does have a pornstsr as a wide but he's just not allowed to have me himself. I likewise joke that I would have sex with him several times A day of he dick was much bigger and a different colour. Lol. He will a good show tonight.
J
Xoxo
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Love your confident attitude!
 
Misscurious said:
So, me and my boyfriend have been active on this site for a couple of months and we've been having a lot of fun with this lifestyle.

About a month ago my boyfriend asked if I wanted to try and put him in chastity. I was kind of hesitant because we're not much into this humiliating thing, and I kind of felt that it would be like I was bossing him around too much. But we thought it was worth trying.

Now he has been in chastity for a month. We wanted to really give this a shot so we didn't want to do it for just one day or two and then give up. I have let him out a few times, but we haven't had sex. He wants to do this so I'm certainly not forsing him in any way.

After this month, I can only say WOW... We wanted to dig deeper into this lifestyle and this has helped us so much. My boyfriend is now more focused on my satisfaction and helping me to hook up with black guys. And he likes it.

And for me, this has really sparked something inside me. Now that we have decided to keep my boyfriend in chastity for a while, my focus too, has changed. Instead of just letting the steam off with my boyfriend, like I usually do, I now have to meet my bull, or hook up with some other guy. It has made me much more horny and active in this lifestyle. Now I see my regular bull at least twice a week, and I have been more eager to try and meet other guys.

The sex is amazing, and neither me nor my boyfriend misses having casual sex with each other. We are not going to stop having sex completely, because we love having sex in a more emotional way, but perhaps we will do it less often, at least for a while.

My boyfriend fantasizes about me going "black only", but I'm not sure about that. :qos:. I love him and I think I would miss the more tender sex that I only enjoy with him.

Anyway, just wanted to say this, because it's been such a great experience! :):)
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Another success story! Chastity works. It reinforces cuckies focus on your pleasure and brings the two of you closer! Chastity prevents cuckie from focusing on his own selfish desire. It makes weak white cuckies, strong in their support and love of cuckold sex. It also increases your sexual satisfaction from more frequent love making your Bull(s). The Bull, well they always win! Win, win, win!!!
 
MichaelDndJamie said:
Yeah I think you misunderstand the dynamics of a cuckold relationship. This is something he asked for and it took me nearly 18 months to come round to it. He asked for me to take control. Chastity isn't for all couples but for us it has worked and we are both incredibly turned on my his denial, restriction and power change. I love my husband and THAT is why we engage in this. End of.
J
Xozoxo
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well done and courageous to go the distance. Sometimes cuckies cling to their male delusions and have to be trained to accept themselves as feminine beta bois subservient to the Wife and her Bull(s). Training can be strict but it provides the most satisfactory and satisfying results. Period. you go MichaelandJamie! Well done!
 
submission52 said:
Chastity isn't about humiliation, really. It's about control and eliciting a behavior from your man/cuckold that benefits you (both).
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Ultimately true. Often though, the humiliation and emasculation cuckolds feel, is an added and much desired experience for many cuckolds.
 
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