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Well, that's a mixed bag of bric-a-brac at best, though certainly there's truth to some of what you post. sex is indeed a whole lot more than penetration, and a man who can't perform whether from an injury or a medical condition obviously isn't exempt from love... or sex, even great sex. But I'd wager most married men -- or men in a relationship who wear a cage -- end up taking it off and fucking their wives or gf in that same session. couples play at denial, do it for fun, for the arousal. Don't know for sure but I think it would be a huge turn-on for both of us to try caging and watch my wife have sex with another man.
But I'm sure few folks in a thriving, loving relationship who can fuck, don't ever fuck each other......at least sometimes. I have to think that goes for nearly every cuckold couple too. the sissy thing is hard to address. As with most more extreme things, while it's a vocal and demonstrative group, I think it's a tiny one and exists mainly in the realm of pure fantasy of single men...and probably men who are interested in/ attracted to men at least as much as the are to women.