That works too Beth, easier with real pussy too instead of manufacturing a tg woman. But you must agree in aggregate most women are not like you. However, it should be law that they must behave and fuck like you do and teach all women to hunger for lez sex too.
I think Eye Contact is the most important thing. I am always very attentive and chat and try to flirt if possible. I think a Dom Black guy knows when a white sub is giving him respect and understand. They will only act on if its something they are willing to allow themselves to enjoy.
It's alot easier when a wife or girlfriend is involved where the guy could embarass himself with the woman and beg to suck the black guy's cock, lick off his cum, eat from her cream pie, if rich offer serious cash in front of him to suck his cock in privacy where the JoS would cross dress to embarass himself further to show how serious he is.