It was a fun experience with lots of lessons learned. I never knew her age and it wasn’t polite to ask! She had silver hair (I love it still ) and ******* older than me! I knew so little about women, sex, foreplay or myself. She was retired in the Bay Area, I was a Sailor in San Diego visiting for Fleet Week! She was patient and were still friends to this day! I was too self-absorbed to know if I made an impression but she made an impression on me. She raised my consciousness, I learned to Listen to women on an entirely new level; genuine Intimacy for a lady is inclusive of the moments before and after Sex, not just during. Learned to engage emotionally and mentally, not just physically. Game changer!
Let’s put this in context, I’m 53 now but in my twenties I was still sorting through everything; life, career, school, sex, politics, religion. I was a gentleman but stumbling through everything. Men don’t really talk to each about this, so we have to sort through what I call, the “locker room lies”! If I were 20+ and have the mind I do now, every teacher in the USA would be in big trouble! Still to this day, I notice them although too many women in that age think they aren’t noticed. It’s not true, they ARE!
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