This is in poor taste.
I personally have no issue with you wanting to be a woman. That's fine with me, but you should be honest on your profile and indicate that you are a pre-op trans or a crossdresser. At this very moment in time, you are not a female. You have a penis, which makes you male. If you are transitioning, then please state that. But it is deceptive to everyone on here if you are claiming to be female when you are not female right now.
I know this gets complicated for a lot of people, but its really not complicated. right now you are male, if you are going to become a Female - then you just need to be honest about that. Hiding who you are - is deceptive and you should own up to that deception and dishonesty. You didnt make a mistake on your profile when you chose "female" as your gender. you knew exactly what you were doing.
But you should be aware that you cannot get verified on this site unless you are a woman.