Hesitant girlfriend…

We’ve just both got off the phone after finishing work. Both currently on the way home.

She just said “I bet you’re looking forward to this evening then”

I asked “Why’s that”

She said “Because you want to use the toys on me tonight”

Fingers crossed guys. I’m hoping all those BBC gifs and pics that I sent earlier has BBC brainwashed her…

That’s what I hope but will probably be the opposite. Patience is key.
 
We’ve just both got off the phone after finishing work. Both currently on the way home.

She just said “I bet you’re looking forward to this evening then”

I asked “Why’s that”

She said “Because you want to use the toys on me tonight”

Fingers crossed guys. I’m hoping all those BBC gifs and pics that I sent earlier has BBC brainwashed her…

That’s what I hope but will probably be the opposite. Patience is key.
My opinion, after reading all the steps you've taken so far......I would be very careful , you have a good loyal woman, this lifestyle is not for everyone, only for those that enjoy uninhibited sex with whoever. Up to this point she has entertained the thought of your fantasy to just appease you. But she reluctant to go any further with it. Not saying she never will, but ,I would not ruin a good marriage and a healthy sex life over this, it may do that. If you still want to pursue this with her, back off for awhile, and let her call the shots, with the big black dildos. She may surprise you some day, and want the real thing. Be patient, good things come to those that wait
 
We just finished. She didn’t ask for the dildo but she was more or less signalling for it.

So I got it, and she took it very well. Whenever I started to get faster and harder with it, she would cum literally in less than 5 seconds.

She definitely loves it but you can tell she don’t want to admit it.

She is a one-time cummer. She cummed four times tonight… that surely tells you that she likes the size…
 
We just finished. She didn’t ask for the dildo but she was more or less signalling for it.

So I got it, and she took it very well. Whenever I started to get faster and harder with it, she would cum literally in less than 5 seconds.

She definitely loves it but you can tell she don’t want to admit it.

She is a one-time cummer. She cummed four times tonight… that surely tells you that she likes the size…
Yes, it does, and who knows maybe in her head she is fantasizing about taking a BBC, but afraid to say at this. Next time she orgasms that much, ask what is going on, what is she thinking about that helps her to cum so much now..and you love how turned on she gets, it turns you so much more too. Tell her it's definitely gone to a new level, and you love it..kiss and love her alot after sex and praise her for it. And you can't wait untill the next time
 
Yes, it does, and who knows maybe in her head she is fantasizing about taking a BBC, but afraid to say at this. Next time she orgasms that much, ask what is going on, what is she thinking about that helps her to cum so much now..and you love how turned on she gets, it turns you so much more too. Tell her it's definitely gone to a new level, and you love it..kiss and love her alot after sex and praise her for it. And you can't wait untill the next time
Also if she orgasmed 4 times, and usually is a one orgasm woman, something is going on in that pussy and in her head to orgasm that much. And she motioned for the BBC dildo,. 2 great signs she might turn the corner, be patient, let it happen at her pace
 
the more you push it will end up happening even if maybe she is not really into black guys....gor exemple im not into black girls but of my girlfriend would ask me non stop to fuck one in front of he then i would at some point say okay then lets go lol.....maybe she is into hung mens period, let her choose her hung male and after its your turn to choose and you go for a black guy lol
 
We had sex again last night and again, she didn’t want the toys to come out. We spoke about it and I revealed my bbc fantasy in detail. She says “she isn’t it to it, it doesn’t make her wet, it doesn’t turn her on”.

It just confuses me though because the 1st day I got those toys out to use on her for the first time. She could not stop squirting, it was the most she has ever been turned on and the bed was messier than ever…

She kept telling me that it turned her on because she knew I was loving it but since I revealed this fantasy, the toys freak her out and it just turns her off”

What do I bloody do? She knows I like it, she says give her time but I don’t think she will ever like it by the sounds of it…
This is exactly how my wife is. She wants it all but won't say it. She has the smallest little pussy I've ever seen. I use to be selfish with it but now i just wanna show it off. Your wife's just a good girl so just keep reassuring her that it's ok to be a dirty little cock whore for you.

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5e4d2c4d4d3d0

Check this video out. This is
 
So, she was curled up in a ball and it was like her soul had left her after the dildo last night. She must love it but is trying to play it down.

She showered after and she asked me “did I enjoy what just happened? How would you rate it out of 10?” I said “I can’t even rate it because it’s the most I’ve ever been turned on” and then I put the question back on to her… “how did you rate it?” And she said “hmm, a 9/10” and I was thinking “why?” So I asked “why a 9, it seemed like you more than loved it” and she said “well, giving it a 10 is too easy isn’t it” … so basically she was teasing me.

Anyway, this morning. We have had a nice relaxing morning. You can tell she is very horny again as she has kissed me on my ear seductively, grabbed my dick on the sofa and grunted to tell me she is frustrated and wants it … BUT she has to go and get ready for a nail appointment.

Hopefully I’m in a good position with this now and I’m going to just play it cool. Be the super-boyfriend. When she wants it, I’m gonna turn her on majorly and pull the dildo out when I think it’s the right time again OR shall I wait for her to grab it this time?
 
blue rabbit vibrator is her vibrator which she rarely uses but loves it.

The clit stimulator, pink and silver toy. She absolutely loves it and cannot resist it. She uses this when I use the big dildo on her.

First time using big dildo’s: She took both all the way and loved them!
2nd time using dildo’s: she grabbed smaller bbc off her own back but didn’t want Shane bbc.
3rd time using dildo: She didn’t really want me to use them but I managed to get her to and you could tell she weren’t bothered or enjoying it.
4th time was last night: After a proper talk in the day and sending lots of gifs of bbc - she let me use the middle smaller bbc and she cummed 4 times.

I asked her about Shane last night (bigger one) after our play and she said it freaks her out - I think I’m just going to use the middle one again and just let her body get used to it. Hopefully she will want the bigger one eventually. Weird though because she LOVED it on the first occasion.
 

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blue rabbit vibrator is her vibrator which she rarely uses but loves it.

The clit stimulator, pink and silver toy. She absolutely loves it and cannot resist it. She uses this when I use the big dildo on her.

First time using big dildo’s: She took both all the way and loved them!
2nd time using dildo’s: she grabbed smaller bbc off her own back but didn’t want Shane bbc.
3rd time using dildo: She didn’t really want me to use them but I managed to get her to and you could tell she weren’t bothered or enjoying it.
4th time was last night: After a proper talk in the day and sending lots of gifs of bbc - she let me use the middle smaller bbc and she cummed 4 times.

I asked her about Shane last night (bigger one) after our play and she said it freaks her out - I think I’m just going to use the middle one again and just let her body get used to it. Hopefully she will want the bigger one eventually. Weird though because she LOVED it on the first occasion.
Ok, well maybe she likes a variety, depending on her mood. She likes big dildo when she's in the mood, and smaller vibrator sometimes. Your getting great sex with her, I would just be cool, let her decide. Like I warned you, be careful, if you push this too hard, she may get turned off by you. This might be as far as this will go, enjoy it, have fun. She's a nice sexual partner I would love to have. There's still a chance she may open up down the road, but let her come around to it.
 
We are both off work today.

She keeps bringing things up. For example,

She literally, randomly said in the supermarket - “Size matters” and I couldn’t believe what I just heard so I said “What did you say?” and she just bluntly said “size matters”

She started doing these moaning noises in the kitchen randomly, which she does a lot tbf for a joke. I said “you enjoying that?” and she laughed, she did it again, I said “is he big is he?” And she said “what would you do if one day you walked in and I was riding that dildo” and I said “it would literally be unbelievable, I think I would either rise to to heavens or faint in excitement” and she laughed.

She has brought it up again a couple of other times aswell but can’t exactly remember what she said… but yeah. Seems like she can’t get it off her mind…
 
We are both off work today.

She keeps bringing things up. For example,

She literally, randomly said in the supermarket - “Size matters” and I couldn’t believe what I just heard so I said “What did you say?” and she just bluntly said “size matters”

She started doing these moaning noises in the kitchen randomly, which she does a lot tbf for a joke. I said “you enjoying that?” and she laughed, she did it again, I said “is he big is he?” And she said “what would you do if one day you walked in and I was riding that dildo” and I said “it would literally be unbelievable, I think I would either rise to to heavens or faint in excitement” and she laughed.

She has brought it up again a couple of other times aswell but can’t exactly remember what she said… but yeah. Seems like she can’t get it off her mind…
Hmmm, yes she does seem to like a big cock, it's in her head. Just play along, with it , it's kinda hot she says these things, play on it with her, your doing that pretty good so far, she has entertained the thought of fucking a big cock , for sure. Just let this play out, it will be fun anyway
 
the question is, would you at some point be okay with her slowly with your actions become only turned on by fucking strangers, not being sexually into you anymore, only thinking about other guys and only seing you as her roomate and others as her true lovers? if she does fuck other guys she will fall for one of them emotionnaly and if one of them likes her and has a good career and money etc he will have a lots of points, are you fine will all of that cause there is no turning back after.The human brain can be literally rebooth to a different mindset and you can create that, but your fantasy can easy become a total fail and seperation. How do you view this because i was more than once the actual hung man given by boyfriends and i have seduced them and ot became a problem for their couple that let to seperation i can tell you that for sure.
 
what i mean is of your girl from the beginning was the one asking for big dildos and etc then yes you provide to fullfill her so that she is satisfied with moderation bit if she is not asking and you keep pushing this it will lead to this Unless she is much older and mature with a long strong relationship with he husband but with a 6 months relationship your in a very weak spot
 
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the question is, would you at some point be okay with her slowly with your actions become only turned on by fucking strangers, not being sexually into you anymore, only thinking about other guys and only seing you as her roomate and others as her true lovers? if she does fuck other guys she will fall for one of them emotionnaly and if one of them likes her and has a good career and money etc he will have a lots of points, are you fine will all of that cause there is no turning back after.The human brain can be literally rebooth to a different mindset and you can create that, but your fantasy can easy become a total fail and seperation. How do you view this because i was more than once the actual hung man given by boyfriends and i have seduced them and ot became a problem for their couple that let to seperation i can tell you that for sure.
Agree, I mentioned to him to be very careful in this, it's not for everyone, it could ruin his relationship, that he's not prepared for, or thought about
 
Okay. We finished cleaning the house. So, I went out to the post office to deliver a parcel and I text her “I’ll be up to 15 minutes so get up to what ever shenanigans you get up to in the meantime ;)” then I sent about 10 gifs of BBC.

I got home… “come upstairs now please” and she’s on the bed, legs wide open with the small rabbit and she’s moaning!

We ended up getting the dildo’s out again and she loved it!!

We relaxed in the bath after for half an hour and I told her that I would like her to go back and forth onto it, on all fours next time and at the same time sucking my dick.

She said “we can do that”

I think we are progressing guys :)
 
Okay. We finished cleaning the house. So, I went out to the post office to deliver a parcel and I text her “I’ll be up to 15 minutes so get up to what ever shenanigans you get up to in the meantime ;)” then I sent about 10 gifs of BBC.

I got home… “come upstairs now please” and she’s on the bed, legs wide open with the small rabbit and she’s moaning!

We ended up getting the dildo’s out again and she loved it!!

We relaxed in the bath after for half an hour and I told her that I would like her to go back and forth onto it, on all fours next time and at the same time sucking my dick.

She said “we can do that”

I think we are progressing guys :)
Ok, what did she say about the BBC gifs you sent her? Still be causesus, still in the ******* stages with getting her on a real BBC. If she turns into a BBC slut, she may not fuck you anymore, or desire sex with you. She will probably want BBC only. Have you put serious thoughts into this?
 
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