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WhiteCoupleLC
Couple
Get her to watch porn with you and pleasure her while watching it. Start of with 1 guy 1 girl and then over time add 2 guys 1 girl or a guy with huge cock. And get her to cum while she watches.
Once she feels comfortable cumming and getting off on it. It's an easy question in the moment, do you like the idea of me and another guy?
Rob Johnson
Male
In my opinion it’s about what your wife wants, and not what you want. If she is happy as she is, then there is no point taking her to places she doesn’t want to go.
It’s about her needs and desires.
I suppose the only thing you can do is have a conversation about “ other “ relationships rather than your own, women who have had affairs, or women who are single and have lots of men. Use other relationships to gain her thoughts on those so there is no pressure on her commenting on your own.
If she says the girl you know who has lots of men must be having a great time as an example, then you know it’s something she would like.
But if she looks down on people who have multiple partners etc, then it’s not something you should move forward with as it’s about her needs and if they aren’t her needs then you shouldn’t push
Comprehensive and sound advice!If you really want that to happen... play it real!
Remark #1: You have a "Couple" profile here. Are you truly here as a couple or are you the male part of a couple with an either unaware or non-involved Woman on your side? Solution: Either ask admins to change your profile to "Male" or get your significant other to actively join your interactions on this site.
Remark #2: You say she's "not a huge fan of it and doesn't want to do it" (supposedly having sex with somebody else than you). The question is: What are her reasons for not wanting to do that? Changing a couple's lifestyle is actually a huge step and change. It means stepping out of the comfort zone of your already established relationship into a new, yet unknown life environment which always implies taking risks. Why would she want to do that in case she feels you are having a great relationship as it is already?
In my opinion a lot of the opening process involves for both partners to feel safe and comforted while trying out new things (with the option to not further pursue them if they make one of you feel uncomfortable or straight bad in the process).
You have to know the reasons for her restraint and hesitation in order to being able to cope with them and work through it together as a couple. What are her sexual fantasies and desires? They may be different than your own but would you still make them happen in order to make her happy just as much as you wish she would do the same for you? In the best case scenario both of your wants are overlapping and you can find something that provides pleasure for both of you and creates life experiences that bring you even closer together as a couple.
Remark #3: A wifesharing lifestyle is not for everybody. As a man you need to be sure you will be able to cope with it in real life as opposed to the fantasy. As a Woman she needs to have a very sensual and sexual mind (i.e. being a high-libido person) and the ability to differentiate between lust and love. Hormones play a trick on some people. If she is someone who falls in love over sex easily she is not made for a lifestyle of being shared sexually. If that is your Woman, moving further into this lifestyle will not be advantagous but only create a lot of problems and heart aches. I say this because - all fantasy aside - when it comes to your relationship and the one you love you make life decisions that are better based on realism than a dream world.
I am somebody who sees the benefits of an open lifestyle but who also sees potential problems. ImO the best approach is not to take it all too seriously but rather to be playful with an awareness that some things you try may not work out while others will. Being open to adjust at any time is ImO a prerequisite to a successful, advantageous lifestyle. Keeping communication channels open, constantly checking back if there is any discomfort (in both your partner and yourself), having a relationship based on honesty and trust where both partners feel comfortable communicating everything and anything without taboos (or the fear of being judged by the other) is perhaps the best fundament for starting in a non-conventional lifestyle. If you have that already, great! If not, perhaps work on your relationship first before considering the implementation of a sexual kink fantasy in your real life as a couple?!
All of what i have mentioned above is but my own opinion and conviction. There are many different approaches that may work. In the end it is about finding a way that works for you. See my remarks as food for thoughts rather than a set of "rules". i won't tell you how to live your lives. In the end you know better than anybody else who knows nothing really about you and the relationship(s) you have. i am just trying to add a different, perhaps more realistic perspective than what we usually find in a "sex forum" most of which is typically based on fantasy la la land.
True words - you can t change a persons mind . only way you can hope to find sth which inspire her to open up and change her mind by herself .
Rob Johnson
Male
What’s private message? I’m not sure what to do
PhoenixCpl4Man
Couple
I have come to realize I derive great pleasure from revealing personal and private details about my wife online to men that ask me questions about her. Please message me to chat.
You may be surprised on what your wife wants. My wife has been reading spicy books for a few years now, since around 50 shades at least. I had no idea she had been fantasing and thinking about pushing her boundaries and wanting to explore a lifestyle type life. I had brought it up a 2 months or so ago and it has spiced up our bedroom life and pushing her boundaries to explore and let me know she wants to try BBC and play some in the future.
It does take alot of good honest communication and going at her pace, to push those boundaries and expand your relationship to what you both are looking for.
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Sounds like a lot of folks are in the same boat and could benefit from chatting about interests and experience
I am struggling a bit I have to confess. I was always very ‘open’ with my wife, she knew all along, but she did it the worst way possible… she cheated… that’s the only thing that’s makes me sad…Hi everyone,
We are here for quite a time now and we have had many experiences with black guys.
We would be glad to help people who are new to the lifestyle by answering their questions, giving them advice and even providing them their first BBC
We are from Europe by the way
Feel free to contact us
What's your location
I’m from Albania, I’m big bwc very thick love to host cpls , I’m discreet and dominateHi everyone,
We are here for quite a time now and we have had many experiences with black guys.
We would be glad to help people who are new to the lifestyle by answering their questions, giving them advice and even providing them their first BBC
We are from Europe by the way
Feel free to contact us
hani83
Couple
We are a very understanding couple. We very much want to enter into this exciting experience, but there is a lot of caution
First, the fear of revealing the secret
Secondly, the fear that the BBC does not deal with a fully sexual spirit in which it exercises all its freedoms and authority with respect
Thirdly, we do not have any experience, even speaking with any outside person, because we do not trust who we are talking to
We try to find an understanding person who understands the difficulties around us
First, the fear of revealing the secret
Secondly, the fear that the BBC does not deal with a fully sexual spirit in which it exercises all its freedoms and authority with respect
Thirdly, we do not have any experience, even speaking with any outside person, because we do not trust who we are talking to
We try to find an understanding person who understands the difficulties around us
Location?
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