Helping newbies

Hi everyone,
We are here for quite a time now and we have had many experiences with black guys.
We would be glad to help people who are new to the lifestyle by answering their questions, giving them advice and even providing them their first BBC :wub:
We are from Europe by the way
Feel free to contact us
Hi there I’d like to know more. I’m trying to get my gf her first bbc. We are in Europe in Ireland.
 
Hi everyone,
We are here for quite a time now and we have had many experiences with black guys.
We would be glad to help people who are new to the lifestyle by answering their questions, giving them advice and even providing them their first BBC :wub:
We are from Europe by the way
Feel free to contact us
Would love some help with getting my wife blacked. Happy to talk to everyone and anyone.

Looking forward to chatting to you lovely people
 
We will be glad to provide any advice to REAL couples testing the waters. Trust me, we know most of you on here are the MALES—-no big deal. So, helping you DETERMINE if this lifestyle is for you is all we can offer. WE do not want to participate in TRICKING your wife into becoming a hotwife.
 
We will be glad to provide any advice to REAL couples testing the waters. Trust me, we know most of you on here are the MALES—-no big deal. So, helping you DETERMINE if this lifestyle is for you is all we can offer. WE do not want to participate in TRICKING your wife into becoming a hotwife.
Tricking her into the lifestyle is something i don't want to do but she already loves the life style and playing in the bedroom with BBC dildos and watching porn it's just taking it to the next step and doing it for real shes not a huge fan of it and doesn't want to do it. So working on it being a fantasy and I have my fingers crossed that might change in the future, got any ideas to help encourage her to think and want to test it for real?
 
Tricking her into the lifestyle is something i don't want to do but she already loves the life style and playing in the bedroom with BBC dildos and watching porn it's just taking it to the next step and doing it for real shes not a huge fan of it and doesn't want to do it. So working on it being a fantasy and I have my fingers crossed that might change in the future, got any ideas to help encourage her to think and want to test it for real?
If you really want that to happen... play it real!

Remark #1: You have a "Couple" profile here. Are you truly here as a couple or are you the male part of a couple with an either unaware or non-involved Woman on your side? Solution: Either ask admins to change your profile to "Male" or get your significant other to actively join your interactions on this site. ;)

Remark #2: You say she's "not a huge fan of it and doesn't want to do it" (supposedly having sex with somebody else than you). The question is: What are her reasons for not wanting to do that? Changing a couple's lifestyle is actually a huge step and change. It means stepping out of the comfort zone of your already established relationship into a new, yet unknown life environment which always implies taking risks. Why would she want to do that in case she feels you are having a great relationship as it is already?
In my opinion a lot of the opening process involves for both partners to feel safe and comforted while trying out new things (with the option to not further pursue them if they make one of you feel uncomfortable or straight bad in the process).
You have to know the reasons for her restraint and hesitation in order to being able to cope with them and work through it together as a couple. What are her sexual fantasies and desires? They may be different than your own but would you still make them happen in order to make her happy just as much as you wish she would do the same for you? In the best case scenario both of your wants are overlapping and you can find something that provides pleasure for both of you and creates life experiences that bring you even closer together as a couple.

Remark #3: A wifesharing lifestyle is not for everybody. As a man you need to be sure you will be able to cope with it in real life as opposed to the fantasy. As a Woman she needs to have a very sensual and sexual mind (i.e. being a high-libido person) and the ability to differentiate between lust and love. Hormones play a trick on some people. If she is someone who falls in love over sex easily she is not made for a lifestyle of being shared sexually. If that is your Woman, moving further into this lifestyle will not be advantagous but only create a lot of problems and heart aches. I say this because - all fantasy aside - when it comes to your relationship and the one you love you make life decisions that are better based on realism than a dream world.

I am somebody who sees the benefits of an open lifestyle but who also sees potential problems. ImO the best approach is not to take it all too seriously but rather to be playful with an awareness that some things you try may not work out while others will. Being open to adjust at any time is ImO a prerequisite to a successful, advantageous lifestyle. Keeping communication channels open, constantly checking back if there is any discomfort (in both your partner and yourself), having a relationship based on honesty and trust where both partners feel comfortable communicating everything and anything without taboos (or the fear of being judged by the other) is perhaps the best fundament for starting in a non-conventional lifestyle. If you have that already, great! If not, perhaps work on your relationship first before considering the implementation of a sexual kink fantasy in your real life as a couple?!

All of what i have mentioned above is but my own opinion and conviction. There are many different approaches that may work. In the end it is about finding a way that works for you. See my remarks as food for thoughts rather than a set of "rules". i won't tell you how to live your lives. In the end you know better than anybody else who knows nothing really about you and the relationship(s) you have. i am just trying to add a different, perhaps more realistic perspective than what we usually find in a "sex forum" most of which is typically based on fantasy la la land. 🤣
 
Hi everyone,
We are here for quite a time now and we have had many experiences with black guys.
We would be glad to help people who are new to the lifestyle by answering their questions, giving them advice and even providing them their first BBC :wub:
We are from Europe by the way
Feel free to contact us
My wife would love to try a BBC
 

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Hi everyone,
We are here for quite a time now and we have had many experiences with black guys.
We would be glad to help people who are new to the lifestyle by answering their questions, giving them advice and even providing them their first BBC :wub:
We are from Europe by the way
Feel free to contact us
i live in Germany, where are you from?
 
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