Please don't get me wrong, I think it's lovely when someone offers to help others, and I can see from the replies there are lots of people who would like help and advice here. But, I am curious... Are the people asking for help getting it privately from the OP, via DMs or something? This is a pinned thread, yet I don't see a lot of specific questions or actual advice in it. I'd love to see some of the advice on offer posted publicly, even if it's copied, anonymized and pasted. I love group discussions and people sharing experiences, tips, insight, etc. and I think there would be real value in a group discussion of the obstacles some people face and the way various couples tackle those issues.
I'm not professing to be an expert of anything in particular, but I'm always happy to share our experience where it may be helpful. We've been doing this stuff for quite a while now, seen quite a few challenges, had some amazing experiences, and only gotten stronger together as a result. I think there are quite a few couples on the site who probably have some valuable insight and experience to share. Any chance some of you with questions would like to ask them publicly, or perhaps the OP can remove the names and paste some of the questions they've answered, so we can see what kind of discussions result?