Hello! Aspiring cuck husband seeking guidance and advice.

Hello, all!

I'm a 25 year old married man, my wife is about the same age. She's a beautiful redhead who is kind, sweet, caring, loving, smart, devoted, and somewhat vanilla. She says that she likes to be told what to do, and is traditional, but certainly loves bossing me around. Our marriage is strong and we are in love, however I cannot ever full satisfy her in bed and often times lose interest in sex, as I feel as though I do not deserve her and cannot please her, which I have accepted. I have an exceedingly strong desire for her to find a boyfriend/bull and enjoy that free lifestyle, which I have admitted to and expressed to her on several occasions. She has not taken these admissions well, and even expresses that the idea makes her upset. I am nervous to talk to her more about it, as I'm afraid that this will backfire and push her further away. I've told her that not only is it okay for her to have boyfriends and see other men, but that I encourage it and will help her in finding bulls. I want more than anything for her to take interest in black men, and have expressed this interest. I've even had her watch interracial cuckold porn with me, and periodically comment how hot black guys are, how manly, and how much I envy them. It has not been going well with her. I've been researching the benefits of an interracial cuckold marriage, which she has caught me doing so, and has watched me watching BBC cuckold porn multiple times. I told her that its what I'm into, and what I want for us, and she seems disgusted. I'm convinced that if I managed to get her to try meeting with a strong black man, let them establish a relationship, and eventually succeeded in getting her to have sex with a black man, her entire mindset would change. In our years of marriage, I've only ever made her orgasm once, and I'm fairly sure she faked it. I know that an experienced BBC Bull could show her how good sex should feel, and she would fall in love with it. The only thing that even arouses me is the thought of her having black boyfriends, but she currently only likes white guys. Does anybody have any advice for me and her? Is there any hope for me? I won't give up until she exclusively has sex with black men or other men in general. Sometimes I worry that I'll have to divorce her, and find a woman who will do this. I want her to have complete control to enjoy a bull(s) whenever and wherever she wants, and I'm not afraid or embarrassed about it. I want to get videos while I'm at work of her bull making her cum, and of her giving him head. I know some will say that this is a porn-induced fantasy, but the fact is I've always had a thing for black guys secretly, and ever since I was young I always enjoyed the thought of women I loved having lovers and boyfriends. Any thoughts or adivce?
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It sounds to me that you are 100% about what you like and want regardless of what will happens to your wife and your marriage.
You admit that your wife is a beautiful redhead who is kind, sweet, caring, loving, smart, devoted, and somewhat vanilla. Which indicates that you married her because you think she is perfect for you.

Then you admit that you have an exceedingly strong desire for her to find a boyfriend/bull and enjoy that free lifestyle but that the idea makes her upset. So you want to ******* your wife to fuck black guys which you KNOW will NOT make her happy because you see her get upset when you try to push your desires on her. You can't accept that you are forsing your wife to do what she has made clear she does not want to do.
I agree with you, you obviously do NOT deserve your wife and the way you are forsing your wife into fucking black guys for your pleasure will backfire and push her further away.
You don't need to worry that you will have to divorce her because she most likely will divorce you.
Think about your situation, you and I are cuckolds, most of the world views us as perverts, including your wife and most of the black men that you want to fuck your wife, and I agree that we are perverts to some degree. Your wife is a beautiful redhead who is kind, sweet, caring, loving, smart, devoted, and somewhat vanilla. Most of the world views your wife as a perfect young Lady and wife. Your wife is probably being lusted after by many men everyday and guys telling her how much they Love her, which may be lies, and want to take her away from you. When your wife evaluates being married to you, an uncaring pervert that only cares about yourself and not her, compared to a caring vanilla man that is pursuing her, who do you think she will choose?
You need to learn that it is your wife that has the right to fuck who she wants to fuck. It is her choice, not yours.
I have never in my 53 year long marriage, tried to ******* my wife to be fucked by another man. My wife chose to start being fucked by other men after we were married 30 years by cheating on me. My point is my wife chose who she would be fucked by. She wanted other men to fuck her so much that she told me that she would divorce me if I objected to her being fucked by other men. I love my wife so I accepted her terms and have been her cuckold ever since. After I learned to enjoy watching other men fuck my wife, I started to like the idea of black men fucking my wife. I told my wife that I would like to watch black men fuck her but she told me to forget it. But I continued to talk about how much other white Ladies enjoyed being fucked by black men but I always checked to see her reactions and stopped when they were negative. After a few years one time when we went to a sex party, my wife saw a black man that she liked. So my wife chose him to be the first black man to fuck her. I was shocked because I had not mentioned anything about watching black guys fuck her and she did not say anything to me about her being fucked by a black guy. In fact when we were getting ready to leave the sex party, my wife left our outdoor area where we were talking to a white guy that had fucked her the day before. After about 15 minutes I decided that I better check up on my wife. So I went looking for her. I found her completely naked, on her knees in front a strange black man and she was sucking his black cock like it was a lollipop. A shocking but very pleasant surprise. My point is that once again my wife made the choice that she wanted to be fucked by a black man, not me.
It is always the wife's choice if and when she wants to be fucked by another man.
If you can't accept that, don't frustrate yourself and your wife, divorce her and do her a favor.
 
Definitely a good video to show any girl that is hesitant. Can literally have the fairytale life with a loving husband and mind blowing orgasms with her black lover. Can see why this lifestyle is becoming more popular and mainstream!!
The problem with the video is that while it does show the wife having mind blowing orgasms with her black lover and that she does have a loving husband, it does not show the wife having a fairytale life, because they are not together while the black guy is fucking her. She might be cheating on her husband and he has no idea that black men are fucking his wife.
 
ty. And much appreciated.
You are not alone, there are many men in your current situation. If you ever decide that you want to serve a bull like me, let me know
I agree with your thoughts I am the one who usually finds the bulls and my wife approves them I try and make sure we have a regular pool of 3/4 bull at any one time that allows for their availability cancellations and to make sure they have enough loads of cum to give her and that way she is almost permanently full of them
 
I agree with your thoughts I am the one who usually finds the bulls and my wife approves them I try and make sure we have a regular pool of 3/4 bull at any one time that allows for their availability cancellations and to make sure they have enough loads of cum to give her and that way she is almost permanently full of them
ty for commenting.

I wish more cuckolds and couples could see comments like yours. I honestly wish there was a National registry or database for cuckolding. I would love to teach cuckold men like yourself how to do what you just outlined. Your wife deserves to have a bull. And relying on 1 bull just doesn't CUT IT!

Most of the bulls that I know like to have multiple wives. Its just the way it is. But the minute you have 2 or 3 wives, your schedule and availability goes down. When I was in NYC, I served 3 couples. But we made the schedules work, because one couple was younger with little *******, so they were only available in the later evening. The other couples were older and had more flexibility.

Still, if one couple wanted to see me, but I was already planning to see one of the other wives- there's not much I can do. u know?
 
ty for commenting.

I wish more cuckolds and couples could see comments like yours. I honestly wish there was a National registry or database for cuckolding. I would love to teach cuckold men like yourself how to do what you just outlined. Your wife deserves to have a bull. And relying on 1 bull just doesn't CUT IT!

Most of the bulls that I know like to have multiple wives. Its just the way it is. But the minute you have 2 or 3 wives, your schedule and availability goes down. When I was in NYC, I served 3 couples. But we made the schedules work, because one couple was younger with little *******, so they were only available in the later evening. The other couples were older and had more flexibility.

Still, if one couple wanted to see me, but I was already planning to see one of the other wives- there's not much I can do. u know?
The bulls I have found for my wife are all different in age personality or fitness so depending on how she feels wants to be pleasured whether it’s just pure fucking or being made love to at least one of her bulls will be able to accommodate and perform for her on some occasions when she is in a bit of a greedy mood it can be challenging to find the right 2 bulls to have her but in general it works out fine
 
The bulls I have found for my wife are all different in age personality or fitness so depending on how she feels wants to be pleasured whether it’s just pure fucking or being made love to at least one of her bulls will be able to accommodate and perform for her on some occasions when she is in a bit of a greedy mood it can be challenging to find the right 2 bulls to have her but in general it works out fine
that is great to hear!!

Again, you are a wonderful cuckold. Wish there were more like you around and especially on this site.
 
The problem with the video is that while it does show the wife having mind blowing orgasms with her black lover and that she does have a loving husband, it does not show the wife having a fairytale life, because they are not together while the black guy is fucking her. She might be cheating on her husband and he has no idea that black men are fucking his wife.
True. Sites like this are good in promoting the cuckold lifestyle though as you only have to look at the amount of white guys on here to know that most guys would be ok with their girl having a black lover. The more woman realise this the more it becomes easier to just have an honest conversation with hubby rather than cheat. I suspect her partner is the one holding the camera!!
 
True. Sites like this are good in promoting the cuckold lifestyle though as you only have to look at the amount of white guys on here to know that most guys would be ok with their girl having a black lover. The more woman realise this the more it becomes easier to just have an honest conversation with hubby rather than cheat. I suspect her partner is the one holding the camera!!
I agree with you and if her husband is holding the camera, he knows that is wife is a black cock loving slut; which is perfect.
 
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