Hello! Aspiring cuck husband seeking guidance and advice.

[WhiteCuck973]

Hello, all!

I'm a 25 year old married man, my wife is about the same age. She's a beautiful redhead who is kind, sweet, caring, loving, smart, devoted, and somewhat vanilla. She says that she likes to be told what to do, and is traditional, but certainly loves bossing me around. Our marriage is strong and we are in love, however I cannot ever full satisfy her in bed and often times lose interest in sex, as I feel as though I do not deserve her and cannot please her, which I have accepted. I have an exceedingly strong desire for her to find a boyfriend/bull and enjoy that free lifestyle, which I have admitted to and expressed to her on several occasions. She has not taken these admissions well, and even expresses that the idea makes her upset. I am nervous to talk to her more about it, as I'm afraid that this will backfire and push her further away. I've told her that not only is it okay for her to have boyfriends and see other men, but that I encourage it and will help her in finding bulls. I want more than anything for her to take interest in black men, and have expressed this interest. I've even had her watch interracial cuckold porn with me, and periodically comment how hot black guys are, how manly, and how much I envy them. It has not been going well with her. I've been researching the benefits of an interracial cuckold marriage, which she has caught me doing so, and has watched me watching BBC cuckold porn multiple times. I told her that its what I'm into, and what I want for us, and she seems disgusted. I'm convinced that if I managed to get her to try meeting with a strong black man, let them establish a relationship, and eventually succeeded in getting her to have sex with a black man, her entire mindset would change. In our years of marriage, I've only ever made her orgasm once, and I'm fairly sure she faked it. I know that an experienced BBC Bull could show her how good sex should feel, and she would fall in love with it. The only thing that even arouses me is the thought of her having black boyfriends, but she currently only likes white guys. Does anybody have any advice for me and her? Is there any hope for me? I won't give up until she exclusively has sex with black men or other men in general. Sometimes I worry that I'll have to divorce her, and find a woman who will do this. I want her to have complete control to enjoy a bull(s) whenever and wherever she wants, and I'm not afraid or embarrassed about it. I want to get videos while I'm at work of her bull making her cum, and of her giving him head. I know some will say that this is a porn-induced fantasy, but the fact is I've always had a thing for black guys secretly, and ever since I was young I always enjoyed the thought of women I loved having lovers and boyfriends. Any thoughts or adivce?

 

[cltblackdick45]

DM me. Maybe I can help you

 

[ilovesex247]

Hello, all!

I'm a 25 year old married man, my wife is about the same age. She's a beautiful redhead who is kind, sweet, caring, loving, smart, devoted, and somewhat vanilla. She says that she likes to be told what to do, and is traditional, but certainly loves bossing me around. Our marriage is strong and we are in love, however I cannot ever full satisfy her in bed and often times lose interest in sex, as I feel as though I do not deserve her and cannot please her, which I have accepted. I have an exceedingly strong desire for her to find a boyfriend/bull and enjoy that free lifestyle, which I have admitted to and expressed to her on several occasions. She has not taken these admissions well, and even expresses that the idea makes her upset. I am nervous to talk to her more about it, as I'm afraid that this will backfire and push her further away. I've told her that not only is it okay for her to have boyfriends and see other men, but that I encourage it and will help her in finding bulls. I want more than anything for her to take interest in black men, and have expressed this interest. I've even had her watch interracial cuckold porn with me, and periodically comment how hot black guys are, how manly, and how much I envy them. It has not been going well with her. I've been researching the benefits of an interracial cuckold marriage, which she has caught me doing so, and has watched me watching BBC cuckold porn multiple times. I told her that its what I'm into, and what I want for us, and she seems disgusted. I'm convinced that if I managed to get her to try meeting with a strong black man, let them establish a relationship, and eventually succeeded in getting her to have sex with a black man, her entire mindset would change. In our years of marriage, I've only ever made her orgasm once, and I'm fairly sure she faked it. I know that an experienced BBC Bull could show her how good sex should feel, and she would fall in love with it. The only thing that even arouses me is the thought of her having black boyfriends, but she currently only likes white guys. Does anybody have any advice for me and her? Is there any hope for me? I won't give up until she exclusively has sex with black men or other men in general. Sometimes I worry that I'll have to divorce her, and find a woman who will do this. I want her to have complete control to enjoy a bull(s) whenever and wherever she wants, and I'm not afraid or embarrassed about it. I want to get videos while I'm at work of her bull making her cum, and of her giving him head. I know some will say that this is a porn-induced fantasy, but the fact is I've always had a thing for black guys secretly, and ever since I was young I always enjoyed the thought of women I loved having lovers and boyfriends. Any thoughts or adivce?

Hello! I hope you’re doing well! I do love to talk to her first and I promise you I can fuck her for you. Just let me try please

 

[BiSubCuck]

I feel for you. Hope is an amazing, but all too often stubborn thing. How long have you been together?
Ive been through everything you are going through and Id be more than happy to chat with you. Drop me a message

 

[Dr_Anal]

Show her this video: https://txxx.com/videos/16475719/you-encouraged-her-now-she-is-forever-changed/?promo=11914

 

[SissyStag3o5]

Hello, all!

I'm a 25 year old married man, my wife is about the same age. She's a beautiful redhead who is kind, sweet, caring, loving, smart, devoted, and somewhat vanilla. She says that she likes to be told what to do, and is traditional, but certainly loves bossing me around. Our marriage is strong and we are in love, however I cannot ever full satisfy her in bed and often times lose interest in sex, as I feel as though I do not deserve her and cannot please her, which I have accepted. I have an exceedingly strong desire for her to find a boyfriend/bull and enjoy that free lifestyle, which I have admitted to and expressed to her on several occasions. She has not taken these admissions well, and even expresses that the idea makes her upset. I am nervous to talk to her more about it, as I'm afraid that this will backfire and push her further away. I've told her that not only is it okay for her to have boyfriends and see other men, but that I encourage it and will help her in finding bulls. I want more than anything for her to take interest in black men, and have expressed this interest. I've even had her watch interracial cuckold porn with me, and periodically comment how hot black guys are, how manly, and how much I envy them. It has not been going well with her. I've been researching the benefits of an interracial cuckold marriage, which she has caught me doing so, and has watched me watching BBC cuckold porn multiple times. I told her that its what I'm into, and what I want for us, and she seems disgusted. I'm convinced that if I managed to get her to try meeting with a strong black man, let them establish a relationship, and eventually succeeded in getting her to have sex with a black man, her entire mindset would change. In our years of marriage, I've only ever made her orgasm once, and I'm fairly sure she faked it. I know that an experienced BBC Bull could show her how good sex should feel, and she would fall in love with it. The only thing that even arouses me is the thought of her having black boyfriends, but she currently only likes white guys. Does anybody have any advice for me and her? Is there any hope for me? I won't give up until she exclusively has sex with black men or other men in general. Sometimes I worry that I'll have to divorce her, and find a woman who will do this. I want her to have complete control to enjoy a bull(s) whenever and wherever she wants, and I'm not afraid or embarrassed about it. I want to get videos while I'm at work of her bull making her cum, and of her giving him head. I know some will say that this is a porn-induced fantasy, but the fact is I've always had a thing for black guys secretly, and ever since I was young I always enjoyed the thought of women I loved having lovers and boyfriends. Any thoughts or adivce?

what helped me finally get her to have regular lovers is the fact that I had lost the ability to get hard on's . its hard to do at your age, but in my 40's it's a little easier to loose them. so try that, so she can her fix some where else??

 

[hungteacher]

I dont know if you're ready to hear this.

But you need to LISTEN to your wife very carefully. Right now, you are "pushing" your agenda. and thats not how a cuckold should act. You have done the right thing by being honest and open. But now you need to shut up and LISTEN to her.

She has said she likes to be told what to do. but what else does she like?

I train cuckold couples. Im currently training a couple they are engaged. He is 32, she is 28. He was her first, so she has zero experience. When he brought up his fantasy to her, she was well, shocked to say the least. She was brought up, probably like your wife. She's a good girl. And what you are saying to her is that you don't like her. I know that's not what you are technically saying - but thats what she is hearing from you.

So stop pushing.

The first thing I do when I train couples is to get better lines of communication. She needs to HEAR what you are trying to say. And you need to come to grips with the fact that your communication skills are f'ing HORRIBLE. If you can admit that and accept that - you are already 2 steps further than you were yesterday.

It sounds like your wife might be open to it - but you are really messing this whole thing up for yourself.

 

[SissyStag3o5]

I dont know if you're ready to hear this.

But you need to LISTEN to your wife very carefully. Right now, you are "pushing" your agenda. and thats not how a cuckold should act. You have done the right thing by being honest and open. But now you need to shut up and LISTEN to her.

She has said she likes to be told what to do. but what else does she like?

I train cuckold couples. Im currently training a couple they are engaged. He is 32, she is 28. He was her first, so she has zero experience. When he brought up his fantasy to her, she was well, shocked to say the least. She was brought up, probably like your wife. She's a good girl. And what you are saying to her is that you don't like her. I know that's not what you are technically saying - but thats what she is hearing from you.

So stop pushing.

The first thing I do when I train couples is to get better lines of communication. She needs to HEAR what you are trying to say. And you need to come to grips with the fact that your communication skills are f'ing HORRIBLE. If you can admit that and accept that - you are already 2 steps further than you were yesterday.

It sounds like your wife might be open to it - but you are really messing this whole thing up for yourself.

great advice. !!

 

[hungteacher]

great advice. !!

appreciate that.

I talk to a lot of married and single guys. The common theme most run run into is that they CANNOT see they are the problem 99% of the time. I give so much credit to women. they literally PUT up with men on a daily basis. Most men have no ability to read the room. It's like a bull in the china shop, but with blinders on.

This guy's wife is like "ok, maybe ill try it." and he's trying to parade her around town as the "slut." OMG - like SLOW THE F DOWN!!

Jesus Christ!!

 

[Cuckcowboy]

I dont know if you're ready to hear this.

But you need to LISTEN to your wife very carefully. Right now, you are "pushing" your agenda. and thats not how a cuckold should act. You have done the right thing by being honest and open. But now you need to shut up and LISTEN to her.

She has said she likes to be told what to do. but what else does she like?

I train cuckold couples. Im currently training a couple they are engaged. He is 32, she is 28. He was her first, so she has zero experience. When he brought up his fantasy to her, she was well, shocked to say the least. She was brought up, probably like your wife. She's a good girl. And what you are saying to her is that you don't like her. I know that's not what you are technically saying - but thats what she is hearing from you.

So stop pushing.

The first thing I do when I train couples is to get better lines of communication. She needs to HEAR what you are trying to say. And you need to come to grips with the fact that your communication skills are f'ing HORRIBLE. If you can admit that and accept that - you are already 2 steps further than you were yesterday.

It sounds like your wife might be open to it - but you are really messing this whole thing up for yourself.

I agree! Maybe by the time she's 30 or so but 25 is prime time!
Also there's other factors like religion, education, her physical desires and/or body type...hell even zodiac sign!
People are very different with this lifestyle. I applaud your desire to cuck but she's gotta be handled right.
Just slow it down imo.

 

[hungteacher]

I agree! Maybe by the time she's 30 or so but 25 is prime time!
Also there's other factors like religion, education, her physical desires and/or body type...hell even zodiac sign!
People are very different with this lifestyle. I applaud your desire to cuck but she's gotta be handled right.
Just slow it down imo.

Bravo!! Yes, slow it down.

When I was in NYC, I started the Bull Academy of NY. I used to train new potential bulls. Not an easy job since most men who want to become bulls - have a hard time listening to people. And being a bull is all about LISTENING skills. You need to listen to the cuckold and understand why he wants his girl to be fucked by you. And you need to LISTEN t the woman to know how to make her cum.

there are some LEGIT men on this site. Its actually really easy to spot them - but the problem is there are a lot wannabes and people who BRAG all the time with and haven't met anyone - well, ummm -- that's kind of the point.

A real bull, has self confidence and knows that all BULLS are bros! And we share women with each other. Thats the BULL CODE!!

 

[BiSubCuck]

Bravo!! Yes, slow it down.

When I was in NYC, I started the Bull Academy of NY. I used to train new potential bulls. Not an easy job since most men who want to become bulls - have a hard time listening to people. And being a bull is all about LISTENING skills. You need to listen to the cuckold and understand why he wants his girl to be fucked by you. And you need to LISTEN t the woman to know how to make her cum.

there are some LEGIT men on this site. Its actually really easy to spot them - but the problem is there are a lot wannabes and people who BRAG all the time with and haven't met anyone - well, ummm -- that's kind of the point.

A real bull, has self confidence and knows that all BULLS are bros! And we share women with each other. Thats the BULL CODE!!

This is interesting. I do think yes, there is as much need for Bull training as there is cuckold and slut training. You do a great thing @hungteacher and you are very much appreciated.

You mentioned that real Bulls like to share women with other Bulls. This is what I think we as cuckolds crave most. That our lovely women become something Bulls are proud of and want other Bulls to play with. My current girlfriend has never been a slut. She has limited experience but already knows that her sexual desires are almost solely for Black men. Yet she is very shy and would need time and her confidence building, before she is shared with other Bulls.
We need to start with the right Bull, that is key I think.

 

[hungteacher]

This is interesting. I do think yes, there is as much need for Bull training as there is cuckold and slut training. You do a great thing @hungteacher and are very much appreciated.

You mentioned that real Bulls lile to share women with other Bulls. This is what I think we as cuckolds crave most. That our lovely women become something her Bulls are proud of and want other Bulls to play with. My current girlfriend has never been a slut. She has limited experience but already knows that her sexual desires are for Black men. Yet she is very shy and would need time and confidence building before she is shared with other Bulls. We need to start with the right Bull, that is key I think.

Yes, the right bull is the key. You are corect

but it goes even beyond sharing the woman with other bulls. When I train a cuckold, I train him to understand his role. He is not just serving his woman, but he is also serving me. So my cuckolds are also talking to other women (single and married) and helping them get BIG DICK too...ive had several cuckolds bring me women to train and fuck over the years.

 

[ustwoforfun57]

DM me. Maybe I can help you

we saw your message we are also new to cuckolding we have been swinging 3yrs and my wife enjoys being shared but I now what her to have her very first bbc she says she’s nervous about it but can’t really describe why is there any advice you can give us to talk it through

 

[BiSubCuck]

Yes, the right bull is the key. You are corect

but it goes even beyond sharing the woman with other bulls. When I train a cuckold, I train him to understand his role. He is not just serving his woman, but he is also serving me. So my cuckolds are also talking to other women (single and married) and helping them get BIG DICK too...ive had several cuckolds bring me women to train and fuck over the years.

So as a cuckold we relinquish our own rights to sex with women, including our own. And we promote to all women we know that there are Bulls, well endowed men out there they should enjoy?

 

[hungteacher]

So as a cuckold we relinquish our own rights to sex with women, including our own. And we promote to all women we know that there are Bulls, well endowed men out there they should enjoy?

Exactly

A good cuckold should always have a roster of bulls, so the women can CHOOSE who they want to fuck or if they want to fuck them all.
And cuckolds should also be mentoring young beta boys, especially college age - and help them meet the bulls so the girls they go to class with can get fucked the way women are supposed to be fucked.

 

[BiSubCuck]

Exactly

A good cuckold should always have a roster of bulls, so the women can CHOOSE who they want to fuck or if they want to fuck them all.
And cuckolds should also be mentoring young beta boys, especially college age - and help them meet the bulls so the girls they go to class with can get fucked the way women are supposed to be fucked.

I love the way you speak. I feeo bad that I am not being a good enough cuckold. My girlfriend doesnt understand me saying this, but when she is Not getting the BBC i know she loves, it makes me feel so bad. We will get there, i know we will. But yes, having a roster of Bull friends would be so good. I honestly would be happy if she fucked as many as she desired.
Be lovely to message with you by the way

 

[hungteacher]

I love the way you speak. I feeo bad that I am not being a good enough cuckold. My girlfriend doesnt understand me saying this, but when she is Not getting the BBC i know she loves, it makes me feel so bad. We will get there, i know we will. But yes, having a roster of Bull friends would be so good. I honestly would be happy if she fucked as many as she desired.
Be lovely to message with you by the way

ty

there are others on this site who speak the same way, but it's much different than a majority of men who only SAY what they think women want to hear. And guessing what someone wants to hear - makes you sound like a douche.

I have no idea what you expect. So I just stick to honest truth. If you don't like it - well, take it up with reality - not me, because I'm just reflecting reality. And the hard part is that a lot of people today have an objection to REALITY!!

so I say, "good luck with that!"

I only message with betas that want to serve me. Otherwise, I would not be able to keep up with the sheer number of random messages. thats why I limited my account to only "verified" profiles who can contact me. tbh, I was getting 10-20 random messages from men on this site per week.

I want to devote my time to training. I want to devote my time to women. And I want to devote my time to helping people live out their dreams.

 

[BiSubCuck]

ty

there are others on this site who speak the same way, but it's much different than a majority of men who only SAY what they think women want to hear. And guessing what someone wants to hear - makes you sound like a douche.

I have no idea what you expect. So I just stick to honest truth. If you don't like it - well, take it up with reality - not me, because I'm just reflecting reality. And the hard part is that a lot of people today have an objection to REALITY!!

so I say, "good luck with that!"

I only message with betas that want to serve me. Otherwise, I would not be able to keep up with the sheer number of random messages. thats why I limited my account to only "verified" profiles who can contact me. tbh, I was getting 10-20 random messages from men on this site per week.

I want to devote my time to training. I want to devote my time to women. And I want to devote my time to helping people live out their dreams.

Hi, yes, im all for truth and honesty. I speak it myself and know that many cannot handle that. Ah well.
Im on here as a single male, so becomimg verified is not possible. My girlfriend has no wish for online chat like this. She does however one day hope for us to find a Bull or Bulls. So i remain hopeful, but it really is not a priority right now. Life has other such things going on that currently limit us, but hopefully one day we shall be more free to find and submit to Real men.
Anyway, you and others who speak this way are Very much appreciated

 

[hungteacher]

Hi, yes, im all for truth and honesty. I speak it myself and know that many cannot handle that. Ah well.
Im on here as a single male, so becomimg verified is not possible. My girlfriend has no wish for online chat like this. She does however one day hope for us to find a Bull or Bulls. So i remain hopeful, but it really is not a priority right now. Life has other such things going on that currently limit us, but hopefully one day we shall be more free to find and submit to Real men.
Anyway, you and others who speak this way are Very much appreciated

ty. And much appreciated.
You are not alone, there are many men in your current situation. If you ever decide that you want to serve a bull like me, let me know