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Highlife110

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Curious if anybody has had a similar experience. My time on this site has done two things: reiterated that nothing turns me on more than the fantasy of watching my wife get fucked by a black guy, and only deepened that fantasy; and 2) made me realize I probably don't actually want to do it, at least right now.

In a vacuum there's nothing that I'd love more than to see my wife riding a BBC. But the fantasy is really more like seeing my wife in a cuckold porn, if you will. I want that one hour when she's getting fucked and I can watch. But this site has a lot of great input on the other 23 hours in a day of this lifestyle. I've realized all of the other real life consequences that come with it, like her being gone at nights, going on dates with another man, navigating another person's (or people) role in our lives, etc. is not something I really want to deal with.

I'm very sure she would love it sexually, I can see how much difference me being 100% hard vs just "hard" makes when we have sex and could only imagine what a BBC would do. I could see her getting hooked. Not to mention how coming clean about my fantasy would change her viewpoint of me.

The fantasy still turns me on like nothing else, and it's still something I think about even when we have sex. I'll keep posting here and writing in the fantasy section because it turns me on a ton. But at this point it's not something I'm actively thinking about telling my wife or trying to get her to do. If it was ever something she expressed interest in then yeah, I think 100%, but I'm less motivated to sort of push her into it.

Anybody else had similar feelings after posting here for a while?
 
Highlife110 said:
Curious if anybody has had a similar experience. My time on this site has done two things: reiterated that nothing turns me on more than the fantasy of watching my wife get fucked by a black guy, and only deepened that fantasy; and 2) made me realize I probably don't actually want to do it, at least right now.

In a vacuum there's nothing that I'd love more than to see my wife riding a BBC. But the fantasy is really more like seeing my wife in a cuckold porn, if you will. I want that one hour when she's getting fucked and I can watch. But this site has a lot of great input on the other 23 hours in a day of this lifestyle. I've realized all of the other real life consequences that come with it, like her being gone at nights, going on dates with another man, navigating another person's (or people) role in our lives, etc. is not something I really want to deal with.

I'm very sure she would love it sexually, I can see how much difference me being 100% hard vs just "hard" makes when we have sex and could only imagine what a BBC would do. I could see her getting hooked. Not to mention how coming clean about my fantasy would change her viewpoint of me.

The fantasy still turns me on like nothing else, and it's still something I think about even when we have sex. I'll keep posting here and writing in the fantasy section because it turns me on a ton. But at this point it's not something I'm actively thinking about telling my wife or trying to get her to do. If it was ever something she expressed interest in then yeah, I think 100%, but I'm less motivated to sort of push her into it.

Anybody else had similar feelings after posting here for a while?
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Should you ever want to try a light version of the lifestyle, that would allow you to see your wife getting fucked without consuming the other 23 hours, you could try going to a swingers club with her and you abstain from play while she cucks you. In the UK, they have BBC events at some swingers clubs, which would suit your needs. (another option is an *******, it costs money, but doesn't cost time and there is less social interation, so the chance of any bond or emotinal attachment may be lower).
 
Speaking for my wife who has been a member for a while, it has not. That being said, based on my short time here and what my wife tells me, I see an incredible number of people who seem convinced every black guy is packing a foot long and every white guy is only there to clean up. Funny and sad at the same time.
 
thestag said:
Speaking for my wife who has been a member for a while, it has not. That being said, based on my short time here and what my wife tells me, I see an incredible number of people who seem convinced every black guy is packing a foot long and every white guy is only there to clean up. Funny and sad at the same time.
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Well some people have trouble separating fantasy from reality.
Others hang out, enjoy the content and pick what suits them, or come up with own ideas :)
 
littlebits said:
Should you ever want to try a light version of the lifestyle, that would allow you to see your wife getting fucked without consuming the other 23 hours, you could try going to a swingers club with her and you abstain from play while she cucks you. In the UK, they have BBC events at some swingers clubs, which would suit your needs. (another option is an *******, it costs money, but doesn't cost time and there is less social interation, so the chance of any bond or emotinal attachment may be lower).
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I was going to respond with this as well. Find a club or something close to you. Keep it not as attached
 
thestag said:
Speaking for my wife who has been a member for a while, it has not. That being said, based on my short time here and what my wife tells me, I see an incredible number of people who seem convinced every black guy is packing a foot long and every white guy is only there to clean up. Funny and sad at the same time.
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That's what some of us little penis cuckold's live for, to clean up, watch and hear our Queens being satisfied. . No not every black man have eight and nine inch cocks, but those are the ones we always wanted to meet. I am white with a little 4 inch penis but my ******* was blessed with 9+ and thick.
 
Highlife110 said:
Curious if anybody has had a similar experience. My time on this site has done two things: reiterated that nothing turns me on more than the fantasy of watching my wife get fucked by a black guy, and only deepened that fantasy; and 2) made me realize I probably don't actually want to do it, at least right now.

In a vacuum there's nothing that I'd love more than to see my wife riding a BBC. But the fantasy is really more like seeing my wife in a cuckold porn, if you will. I want that one hour when she's getting fucked and I can watch. But this site has a lot of great input on the other 23 hours in a day of this lifestyle. I've realized all of the other real life consequences that come with it, like her being gone at nights, going on dates with another man, navigating another person's (or people) role in our lives, etc. is not something I really want to deal with.

I'm very sure she would love it sexually, I can see how much difference me being 100% hard vs just "hard" makes when we have sex and could only imagine what a BBC would do. I could see her getting hooked. Not to mention how coming clean about my fantasy would change her viewpoint of me.

The fantasy still turns me on like nothing else, and it's still something I think about even when we have sex. I'll keep posting here and writing in the fantasy section because it turns me on a ton. But at this point it's not something I'm actively thinking about telling my wife or trying to get her to do. If it was ever something she expressed interest in then yeah, I think 100%, but I'm less motivated to sort of push her into it.

Anybody else had similar feelings after posting here for a while?
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I think about it constantly. I think I want it in reality. It stirs my soul. I want it for her pleasure, for my thoughts of eroticism. I'd be fine with her being hooked, but I wonder if it would take over her life and then mine, too.
 
lilppsub said:
That's what some of us little penis cuckold's live for, to clean up, watch and hear our Queens being satisfied. . No not every black man have eight and nine inch cocks, but those are the ones we always wanted to meet. I am white with a little 4 inch penis but my ******* was blessed with 9+ and thick.
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In my short time on this site, I am more than a bit stunned at all the white males who have willingly and cheerfully turned in their man cards and seem to have no spine whatsoever. I may not be blessed down there, but I am certainly better than average and can still satisfy my wife with it, despite the vast number of lovers she has had over the years. It is sex and entertainment, at least for us. I have always been turned on seeing and knowing my wife was with other guys, no matter what color. Black was a taboo thing, especially for where she was raised, so that heightened the experiences for several years after the first. However, despite here very submissive nature, she laughs at how so many here boast about wanting to be, or being owned. Those folks must have a pretty shitty life outside of the lifestyle. I can't imagine those kind of relationships. Giving in to someone's ego? I struggle to imagine how that pleasurable for any couple who can think for themselves? We have had our challenges, for sure, but she knows that the day the open communication stops and there is any lying, we are done. Thankfully, I have never had to seriously think about that.
 
Highlife110 said:
Curious if anybody has had a similar experience. My time on this site has done two things: reiterated that nothing turns me on more than the fantasy of watching my wife get fucked by a black guy, and only deepened that fantasy; and 2) made me realize I probably don't actually want to do it, at least right now.

In a vacuum there's nothing that I'd love more than to see my wife riding a BBC. But the fantasy is really more like seeing my wife in a cuckold porn, if you will. I want that one hour when she's getting fucked and I can watch. But this site has a lot of great input on the other 23 hours in a day of this lifestyle. I've realized all of the other real life consequences that come with it, like her being gone at nights, going on dates with another man, navigating another person's (or people) role in our lives, etc. is not something I really want to deal with.

I'm very sure she would love it sexually, I can see how much difference me being 100% hard vs just "hard" makes when we have sex and could only imagine what a BBC would do. I could see her getting hooked. Not to mention how coming clean about my fantasy would change her viewpoint of me.

The fantasy still turns me on like nothing else, and it's still something I think about even when we have sex. I'll keep posting here and writing in the fantasy section because it turns me on a ton. But at this point it's not something I'm actively thinking about telling my wife or trying to get her to do. If it was ever something she expressed interest in then yeah, I think 100%, but I'm less motivated to sort of push her into it.

Anybody else had similar feelings after posting here for a while?
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I opened up to my wife about my fantasy to see her with a bbc , I'm so glad I did because now we just role play the fantasy out and we don't do it every time we fuck . We do it when we get alone night away from the ******* . We have a black dildo and we watch IR porn too . Honestly really in reality I think personally the fantasy is always gonna be better then the reality . In a fantasy it's perfect nobody's feelings get hurt etc . My wife is quite reserved this is the hot part. She was never into black at all she wouldn't even let me get her a black dildo a few years ago . I finally convinced her into getting on and we have and now things have just got naughty now . She even says do you like watching my ride this big black cock and when we watch porn she is like I'd deep throat his cock unlike her and I said would you like him to fuck you like that whilst I watch and she gets super turned on . We both say after we finished having sex and stuff we wouldn't do it in real life but really enjoy doing it because it's naughty 😉 . Thing is since we went to the hotel last week she keeps saying she keeps thinking about that night we was watching ir porn and using the dildo . We was fucking and she said she keeps thinking about the hotel. I think I've turned abut curious if I'm honest . I mean one day we said we would probably try swinging when are ******* are older as we been with each other since we was young but I think she would be open to a bbc if we ever did do decide to do it in the future and that's what's hot af . You can definitely introduce a black dildo to your wife
 
All I can say is it has to be right for you. In the past 30 years it’s gotten so mainstream more and more niches have cropped up, just pick the one that suits your regular life,,,she doesn’t have to be “gone nights”,,,there’s plenty of cock to be had that will welcome your presence. For us it was like falling outta bed, we had a 23 year active run, absolutely zero regrets,,,other than it’s all over and I can’t do it all over again. During that time I fucked or sucked give or take 850 guys, at least 150 of them were blacks,,,I admit I felt a little slutty, but that was 23 years, I knew a girl who was a ****** for six and she did 5k,,,so,,,
 
I’ve watched my wife every time she’s been with a BBC. The dating, weekends, etc. don’t have to be a part of the lifestyle. It’s what you make of it and if you have an open line of communication, which is required BTW, you set boundaries and comfort levels.

Anything beyond just be agreed to. That is called trust.
 
thestag said:
Speaking for my wife who has been a member for a while, it has not. That being said, based on my short time here and what my wife tells me, I see an incredible number of people who seem convinced every black guy is packing a foot long and every white guy is only there to clean up. Funny and sad at the same time.
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100% correct. Many couples like ourselves live the stag and vixen lifestyle,and that has made us much closer than we were before
 
Highlife110 said:
Curious if anybody has had a similar experience. My time on this site has done two things: reiterated that nothing turns me on more than the fantasy of watching my wife get fucked by a black guy, and only deepened that fantasy; and 2) made me realize I probably don't actually want to do it, at least right now.

In a vacuum there's nothing that I'd love more than to see my wife riding a BBC. But the fantasy is really more like seeing my wife in a cuckold porn, if you will. I want that one hour when she's getting fucked and I can watch. But this site has a lot of great input on the other 23 hours in a day of this lifestyle. I've realized all of the other real life consequences that come with it, like her being gone at nights, going on dates with another man, navigating another person's (or people) role in our lives, etc. is not something I really want to deal with.

I'm very sure she would love it sexually, I can see how much difference me being 100% hard vs just "hard" makes when we have sex and could only imagine what a BBC would do. I could see her getting hooked. Not to mention how coming clean about my fantasy would change her viewpoint of me.

The fantasy still turns me on like nothing else, and it's still something I think about even when we have sex. I'll keep posting here and writing in the fantasy section because it turns me on a ton. But at this point it's not something I'm actively thinking about telling my wife or trying to get her to do. If it was ever something she expressed interest in then yeah, I think 100%, but I'm less motivated to sort of push her into it.

Anybody else had similar feelings after posting here for a while?
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We’re relatively new to B2W. The old our hot wives influenced us to get started and we took it to a darker area via Dark Cavern.
Hoping to find a mature respectful local bbc for a ltr now through B2W.
 
Highlife110 said:
Curious if anybody has had a similar experience. My time on this site has done two things: reiterated that nothing turns me on more than the fantasy of watching my wife get fucked by a black guy, and only deepened that fantasy; and 2) made me realize I probably don't actually want to do it, at least right now.

In a vacuum there's nothing that I'd love more than to see my wife riding a BBC. But the fantasy is really more like seeing my wife in a cuckold porn, if you will. I want that one hour when she's getting fucked and I can watch. But this site has a lot of great input on the other 23 hours in a day of this lifestyle. I've realized all of the other real life consequences that come with it, like her being gone at nights, going on dates with another man, navigating another person's (or people) role in our lives, etc. is not something I really want to deal with.

I'm very sure she would love it sexually, I can see how much difference me being 100% hard vs just "hard" makes when we have sex and could only imagine what a BBC would do. I could see her getting hooked. Not to mention how coming clean about my fantasy would change her viewpoint of me.

The fantasy still turns me on like nothing else, and it's still something I think about even when we have sex. I'll keep posting here and writing in the fantasy section because it turns me on a ton. But at this point it's not something I'm actively thinking about telling my wife or trying to get her to do. If it was ever something she expressed interest in then yeah, I think 100%, but I'm less motivated to sort of push her into it.

Anybody else had similar feelings after posting here for a while?
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Same here. After I found this site and view so many ir fuck I dream and I have a huge fantasy to see my wife blacked by a huge bbc.
As she fuck more guys before knowing me and had a 3some ( mfm she told me that was super hot ) I think that she will msde the step and fuck a bbc. First time when I told her was " are you crazy " she know what I want but she is afraid about how I will react if she will say yes.
When she will know that this is what I want and I will not have a negative reaction she will go to the next step. Looking for a big bbc.

Regarding to the question if I am fantasyto blacked her the question is yes. I want to have and experiment another type of orgasms and exotic pleasure.
 
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