Cucktobe95
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Has anyone thought of ridding of the fetish bcs ur single?
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Drop it! There’s not so many women who’s in to that. We want romance and love and not the question if we want to have sex with another person then the one we fell in love with. That maybe comes later in a marriage. I do know that you can find alot of men with the same fetish that you have.
You are years from it, so concentrate on finding a woman that you can fall in love with.
Cucktobe95
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tbh tho, is their any pointers of a woman who will live it? I want to be in love but I cant imagine not fulfilling this/
i don't agree. Most women love good sex. The problem is how to get them to see and understand that having romance and love with a partner and good sex on the side are not contradicting each other. It's only contradicting a conservative (outdated?) view of relationships many (/most?) people, women and men, are brought-up with.
But of course it depends on the woman too. Not every woman is enabled to have good sex without also developing a strong emotional bond with a sex partner.
Cucktobe95
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I agree to some extent the thing is that we are not there yet. trust me in a hundred years cuckolding will be more outhere. I just hope I hit the cuck lottery.
A woman with a reputation of being promiscuous, maybe? A woman with a sexual past (many different "boyfriends" throughout her late teens and early twenties); A woman who is open-minded about making eye-contact and talking with strangers while keeping a smile.
It is not so much about society. It is much more about the relationship. And relationships are built by two people in order to work. Exactly there is the chance of an adult lifestyle to be developed by a couple: Each partner adds something to the relationship for both partners' advantage and the enhancement of the relationship with each other.
The prerequisite would be love and feeling loved by each other, open communication channels ("they say, a secret is something you tell another person") and mutual trust. If that's not there, build it up first, if possible?! Otherwise... good luck! ?
I've thought of bailing on the fetish. I am divorced. When I came here, I had a FWB (friend with benefits) who was interested in being blacked, by one or more men. It was more than just my idea, she was really, really into it, it went as far as her being here, riding a black dildo, telling me how she needed black cock. She has since ghosted on me, she has a habit of that, and has done so several times. This time, I'm just done with her games.
I know the one lady from Sweden says, pretty much, that it's not possible to enter this as a single guy, find a woman you love first. I tend to disagree...I do think it is incredibly hard to find a single woman who wants a white boyfriend, and a black lover. Some would say she would just want the black guy as the boyfriend. Thing is, as far as society has come, this fetish still has some serious stigma. I do think there are white women out there who want a traditional relationship with a white guy, keeping the sex with a black man hidden from the public.
I really don't have advice, as I haven't found someone to continue this with. but I do think it's a good idea to maybe find someone to date (without mentioning this fetish), and some time in, introduce her to your desires and see if she shows interest.
That’s a great idea. But my advice to you is to find a woman at a RAP club, befriend her, and she’ll sort of vouch for you to her friends. Then via that introduction you’ll have your best chances.
