What this thread is missing is the acknowledging of trap house harems. An early snowbunny i spoke to online (and another one down the line) basically lived in a gang type situation ...subservient to a dominant Black male (who was involved in a couple of shady operations) alongside his other girls. These were not hotwives but girls who preferred black men. He would share them with other men, or pimp them out. She would tell me all sorts of lurid things that would occur that frankly blew my mind. In retrospect some of it crossed the line and could be considered abuse. I would ask her honestly if he wanted to leave and she considered it many times, but was infatuated with the leader. She was into thugs, it was that era.
The closest thing in mainstream media that seemed even close to it was, I hate to say it, the R.Kelly situation.
Eventually my friend left/escaped that house (and i mean escaped - she changed phone numbers and didnt communicate with me or go online for a year), with another member of the guys crew, and they settled down.
Funny story...swear im not making this up - last i heard of them, they were together with the ******* (this girl popped out ******* from multiple baby daddies) and a live in gay lover ...the new man is bi. Not only that but her new man (a distant relative of the guy that owned the harem, which may explain these dominant tendencies), actually "owned" a white/spanish couple from the same apartment complex. The neighbor girlfriend cheated on her bf with him one day in the apartment, and then another day the neighbor boyfriend came over and gave his mouth/ass up to him...so both the neighbor guy and gal were all torn up inside wondering if the other would find out they were cheating when in reality they were both getting dicked down by the same BBC!
I know it seems outlandish but most of the stories she told me about her life I can't even repeat on here, so I actually believe that last part.
Long story short...harems are real my friends, but you may want to be careful what you wish for, so tread lightly. I don't know if they are as common now (frankly i cant see this new generation of skinny young men pulling this off, also the surveillance state is so much more advanced) but the R.kelly story definitely reminded me of my old friend who I've lost touch with.