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Discussion in 'Cuckold Forum' started by johnandsasha, Dec 7, 2014.

  1. johnandsasha

    johnandsasha New Member

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    Can any hot wife or cuckold husband please reveal how they first got started in the "hot wife," "cuckold," or "bbc" scene? Who first brought it up, wife or husband? How was the idea received? I am a married white male in my late 20s married to a beautiful wife in her mid 20s. My biggest desire is to watch her be completely pleased by a BBC. She is amazing, and deserves MUCH more than I can ever provide. I'm looking for some advice/tips on getting started down this road. Any replies are appreciated! Thanks!
     
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  2. Ann4BBC

    Ann4BBC Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Hi, me and my hubby are in our mid 40's we've been married over 20 years. We have been in this lifestyle since beginning of 2013 approx. For many years previously my hubby would say during sex things like 'imagine a big, black cock going in you' etc. It turned me on but i thought it was just fantasy only, i started saying 'do you mean this or is it just fantasy?' and 'what if i like it?' Etc. He convinced me that he wanted it. I was still nervous so joined a mainly white swinging club first, which i didnt enjoy but it convinced me hubby was ok with me going with other guys.
    I then decided i would give black guys a go, mainly to please hubby. Went to a nightclub with hubby, he waited while i sucked a guy. I then progressed to full sex later. I was testing my hubbys reaction all the time to see if he meant it and not negative etc. I always meant to just have a couple of guys but i sort of carried on.
    Difficult to give many tips though, i think deep down, i wanted it anyway, my hubby just brought it out. Hope it works out for you! X
     
  3. isharemywifewithbbc

    isharemywifewithbbc Active Member

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    hi this is the husband...we were talking about fantasies one night and she actually brought up that she had always fantasized about being with black men...i told her how hot i thought that was and we took it from there...we watch porn together and i got an interracial one to see how she may react..i think she could tell i was aroused by it and that is when she brought it up...she was really nervous telling me...we have been doing it about a year now she is 44 im 43...i cant keep up with her sexual appetite that is why i let her do it plus it turns me on so much seeing her do it. its embarrassing to admit but with me she will masturbate after we have sex...im premature
     
  4. BBC ONLY CPL

    BBC ONLY CPL Administrator Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    We have been in the BBC lifestyle for 13 years.. if you have any questions send us a message on here.
     
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  5. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    johnandsasha, welcome to B2W; it would help if you'd give us readers some background to your current relationship ... time married, any swinging experiences, comments or indications your your wife has made towards your specific b2w interest, etc. Also, it would help if you'd complete your profile.
    Keep in mind that sharing your wife may just begin as a sexual stimulus to you, but your wife could develop emotional attachment to the man/men that "ring her sexual bells". So, weigh the risks as the 2 of you start a journey towards sharing her; please consider establishing rules, parameters, and safe words to protect your personal relationships as a couple. Mac
     
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  6. johnandsasha

    johnandsasha New Member

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    thanks guys for all the replies. per macnfries, here is some more background. we've been together for 6 years, i actually lost my virginity to her, but she has a lot more experience than i do (from before we met). married for 16 months, no kids. i've never been able to get her to orgasms from penetration, only oral. isharemywifewithbbc, i can relate to you, i'm not necessarily premature but i'm definitely NOT a marathon man and i'm only 5 inches on my best day… so ya...
     
  7. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    Thanks john ... that's a big help, really!
    Well, if she's had a lot more experiences than you, maybe you should start by determining where you are in regards to other lovers she's had ... what were their sizes, did she cum during intercourse with them, etc. Tell her to be honest and to please help you be a better lover ... she'll appreciate that request.
    A 5 inch cock isn't all that small, and there are sexual positions that enhance a woman's ability to cum during intercourse. Plus, have you found her G-spot yet? If you can find it, then you can make sure your cock is hitting it when you make love.
    No doubt that larger cocks have an advantage ... but then, there are some guys with large cocks that can't screw worth a damn so I'm told.
    Have the 2 of you shared sexual fantasies? If not, do so, and find out what really turns her on ... then help fulfill her fantasy first.
    Your relationship and adventure can be a fun one if you work together on it. Good luck ... Mac