For the wives: what do u think when ur husband first asks you about BBC?

[dickhurtz472]

I was shocked as we never had discussed. I warned him I might like it too much and immediately I was hooked. Began having bbc daily for a while.

daily? how do you manage that? how & where do you find your lovers?

 

[Darkjumper]

I am not, she loves been around black guys, I hope me asking opens things up. And she is just hesitant because of what she thinks I would she if she brought it up

People seem to misconstrue one thing with the other when they are not relevant. Just because she likes hanging with black men does not mean she thinks about or wants to fuck them. All I am saying is don't let your desire blind you, or make you think you are seeing something that is not there. Personally, I am not into mind games or mind reading. I rather ask than guess, but only if I am sure I am ready for the consequence of the response or opening of that can of worms.

 

[john1984]

you get used to it- pretty much every boyfriend, and my husband has come around to asking or suggesting it eventually. It's obviously a common fantasy

Correct. I think in one moment all the men will think for a second like this.