My wife and I are trying Anal play when we are having sex, I have always had a fantasy about black men, having sex with my wife. Right now we have used plugs and vibraters. I recently bought a black 8 inch dildo. after we get into playing, my wife can take about 2 inches. I can take about 4 inches. I want to take all 8 inch and have her take more with out it hurting, how do we do this. We use a lot of lube. My next goal is to use our big anal plug instead of the small one, how do we do this.