If you are a couple say that....if you're a single male or female likewise. What are you hiding?? I personally am not into spouses who play behind their spouses back....yeah I want to know if your husband knows you're fucking other men behind his back because I'm not going to be one of those men. There are many other reasons why stating your status is vital, some men don't want to deal with an attached woman in the first place, vice versa etc. With all the talking most people want to do here, to leave out the detail that you are attached until the actual meeting is going to happen is a red flag. Acknowledging your status doesn't mean your other half is always there, but you want to know you're talking to the guy in the pictures don't you, or is it okay for him to be an attached gay man playing without his partners knowledge..