Yeah here's the thing that really gives away the fakes: they act like their wife/gf "worships" other men more than them.
1. I ain't worshipping NO man.
2. My boyfriend and I fall asleep together every night. Just him and I. There is only one other man I have ever spent the night with other than my boyfriend, and it's only because he is a mutual friend of ours and we both trust him 100%.
My boyfriend is aware and trusting of every single man I flirt with, go out with, have sex with, etc. I will NEVER make him feel like he's less than another man. That's not what this lifestyle is about. I love my boyfriend more than anything so why would I treat him like garbage? Idk why some men have fantasies where their significant other treats them like an inferior man.
I'm not acting like we don't fully engage in the lifestyle, because we do. I often wake up each morning to "Goodmorning beautiful" texts from other guys, and I send/receive naked photos with other men throughout the day, but I make my boyfriend aware and comfortable with everything I do first