Newbie here, wife not part of our profile…..yet. We have been together since our teenage years, married for 10 and now in our 30s. It has always turned me on thinking of sharing her, mostly hotwife situations, but recently have noticed my wife opening up to exploring these possibilities.
She is 5’6, fit and very sexy even after multiple *******, but I’ve been the primary driver of introducing sex toys and such to ‘spice things up ‘ after many years of ‘traditional sex’. Bought her a black rabbit vibrator several years ago that she really enjoys, and we use it for foreplay almost every time. Also purchased a large 8in black realistic dildo around the same time but never really used it bc I was afraid of what she would think/say about it. It’s been in our toy drawer the whole time along with handcuffs, blindfold, restraints, etc, and I know she’s seen it, but she’s never asked to use it so I just let it be. For reference, I am also fit, 6in
Finally got it out one night after some drinks and while I was giving her a sensual massage in the bedroom. She had the blindfold on and after I had the rabbit on her clit with lots of lube started rubbing the head of the dildo on her and slowly inserted it. It got her really excited and after some work got in all the way in. She kept telling me how good it felt and once I built up some speed thrusting in/out for a while she had a major orgasm! That kicked things off for us and I ended up taking it with us to our kid free Vegas weekend getaway a few weeks later. We had quite the sexual explosion there, more details on that if interested just let me know.
Anyways, not sure where to take things next, I think we are just going to enjoy where we are at and it has been really hot for the both of us after many years of me fantasizing about her taking bigger cocks. She is very anti-porn, so we won’t be doing that together, but I would like to make some of our own if I can persuade her to agree.
Have any couples successfully transitioned from using BBC dildos regularly in their sex life to the real thing? Big step of course, not sure if we even both want that right now but will take things slow for the time being.
She is 5’6, fit and very sexy even after multiple *******, but I’ve been the primary driver of introducing sex toys and such to ‘spice things up ‘ after many years of ‘traditional sex’. Bought her a black rabbit vibrator several years ago that she really enjoys, and we use it for foreplay almost every time. Also purchased a large 8in black realistic dildo around the same time but never really used it bc I was afraid of what she would think/say about it. It’s been in our toy drawer the whole time along with handcuffs, blindfold, restraints, etc, and I know she’s seen it, but she’s never asked to use it so I just let it be. For reference, I am also fit, 6in
Finally got it out one night after some drinks and while I was giving her a sensual massage in the bedroom. She had the blindfold on and after I had the rabbit on her clit with lots of lube started rubbing the head of the dildo on her and slowly inserted it. It got her really excited and after some work got in all the way in. She kept telling me how good it felt and once I built up some speed thrusting in/out for a while she had a major orgasm! That kicked things off for us and I ended up taking it with us to our kid free Vegas weekend getaway a few weeks later. We had quite the sexual explosion there, more details on that if interested just let me know.
Anyways, not sure where to take things next, I think we are just going to enjoy where we are at and it has been really hot for the both of us after many years of me fantasizing about her taking bigger cocks. She is very anti-porn, so we won’t be doing that together, but I would like to make some of our own if I can persuade her to agree.
Have any couples successfully transitioned from using BBC dildos regularly in their sex life to the real thing? Big step of course, not sure if we even both want that right now but will take things slow for the time being.
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