Just wondering if any husbands ever held back to see if the wife is truly into the lifestyle? I'm sure there a some wives that do it mainly for the husband. I think it would be interesting after the first couple of hookups if the husband kept to himself and waited for his wife to make the next move for the next playdate session. It would be so hawt to have a wife that kept initiating the hookups whenever SHE felt like it. Do any couples truly play like this where the wife totally controls when and where the playdates happen?