Erectile Dysfunction

[MNCuriousMan]

I want to first say I am a happily married man for almost 8 years. The sex life with my wife has always been average, mostly due to my poor performance, but we got by. However, over the last year my sex drive has dropped dramatically and I started suffering from ED. My wife has softly been encouraging me to go see a doctor for awhile but over the last 6 weeks or so my condition has gotten a lot worse.

I simply cannot have an erection anymore. We have tried a few things and I can orgasm but remain completely soft. She has expressed some more direct frustration and I am now going to see my physician for help. I am worried this could be a long term thing. Any advice for me and how to save my marriage?

 

[WiseGuy9595]

ED is common among middle-aged men of all races. It's a medical condition. There are available treatments. Check on you health plan too. You don't want to be stuck with a huge medical bill.

 

[Limpcuck31]

I want to first say I am a happily married man for almost 8 years. The sex life with my wife has always been average, mostly due to my poor performance, but we got by. However, over the last year my sex drive has dropped dramatically and I started suffering from ED. My wife has softly been encouraging me to go see a doctor for awhile but over the last 6 weeks or so my condition has gotten a lot worse.

I simply cannot have an erection anymore. We have tried a few things and I can orgasm but remain completely soft. She has expressed some more direct frustration and I am now going to see my physician for help. I am worried this could be a long term thing. Any advice for me and how to save my marriage?

Let her enjoy some BBC!!!!!!

 

[MNCuriousMan]

I've had some medical conditions I have left unchecked for years that might be the cause of this. I feel so bad but not certain how to approach the BBC/cuckold conversation. I'm not sure if she'd be into it or not.

 

[uslover609]

if you dont want to see a dr then see if you can check your ******* sugar levels, test kits at Walmart are not too much. BUT SEE A DOCTOR. Could be ED today and a massive heart attack tomorrow. What one do you think will be cheaper to handle?

 

[Naughtygators]

There are a variety of medical conditions and medications that can lead to ED. Go see a physician (primary or urologist). There is no stigma to it. Worst case, many urologist will not only prescribe an ED med (Viagra or Cialis), many offer an inexpensive generic for right at the office. There is also a low dose Cialis for daily use. But most importantly, that may only mask a bigger problem. Go talk w a doc.
In the meantime, discuss other options w your wife. Obviously you are on this site and that may hint at one option. Toys work too. Just talk it out w her.

 

[Wavegod1]

see the doc like everyone is saying. also, try to start with some lifestyle changes like exercise to start and diversity with food (fruit and veggies) and gradually work your way back

 

[MNCuriousMan]

I am going to see a doctor finally. I am just scared and want my wife to be happy.

 

[MNCuriousMan]

I appreciate everyones advice

 

[gregster]

see the doc like everyone is saying. also, try to start with some lifestyle changes like exercise to start and diversity with food (fruit and veggies) and gradually work your way back

Thanks for your input, as I have the same issue, and thought what you said would help. I have yet to start, but think it will help.

 

[plezrnpain]

I found that my ED issue pretty much disappeared when I lost 40lbs through diet and exercise.

 

[MacNfries]

Any advice for me and how to save my marriage?

A temporary quick fix would be to use a professional penis pump. Three Step Procedure: pump up the penis to a full, adequate erection, slip on a rubber ring at the base of the penis, remove the pump, have sex for 15-20 minutes or until you cum, whichever occurs first.
Most definitely see your doctor or urologist specialist. Medications are a major killer of erections, unfortunately, as is nerve damage.

Penis pump - Mayo Clinic

www.mayoclinic.org

• Your doctor should be your first stop for ED diagnosis. ED has many potential causes, so you may need a comprehensive physical examination to diagnose it.
• Urologists. Urologists specialize in urinary and reproductive health. They can help diagnose any abnormalities in your reproductive system.
• Endocrinologists. Endocrinologists are hormone specialists. ******* tests can help determine whether your hormone levels are abnormal.
• Mental health professionals. A mental health professional can help determine if psychological issues are causing or contributing to your ED.

 

[Rodgersmith1]

let her have an affair with a Black guy …. And give you the details….

i guarantee you …. Your dick will get hard and you will fuck the ******* out of her.

it’s like magic. Try it … your dick will work.

 

[smallglans]

Exercise and better diet (less sugar, salt, and fat) will work magic. Start with 15 minutes of walking every day, then ramp up the time and intensity as your growing endurance allows. Most ED is the result of poor circulation, and exercise will improve your cardiovascular health. Stay away from pharmaceutical remedies; 90% of them exist purely to enrich the companies selling them.