Our neighbor, who is black, and with whom I had my first interracial sexual experience, is big. I didn't measure him, but my middle finger and my thumb did not touch when I put my hand around his cock. And it's longer than from my chin to the top of my head. So, all in all, he's pretty big. I have not had a cock that big in me before, and it felt amazing! Is bigger better? Well, It feels better to me.