Do you need rules when starting this lifestyle?

yotaandbibi

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When starting cuckolding is it good to have rules or is better to have no rule? even because they could be broken.
I wanted to set 3 rules:
- always use condom during sex, oral ok without.
-always finish with husband, he will eat the wife at the end and clean up if needed.
-have a video of each encounter to share the experience with the husband.
 
Those won’t last long. Good luck though. The first time you tell a bull to cum inside you it’s gonna be game over
screw rules, screw pussy screwing is what it is all about. Things change for everyone involved , women start realizing they can do whatever they want, husbands get used to their wife fucking other men and often fall slowly into a role where they end up sucking cock and cleaning and the bulls get used to some different things as well, slippery slope or pussy s to speak
 
It's always important to establish a good level of communication
communication GIF by Zone3
 
My wife’s rules were
- She makes all the rules
- She’ll never make a guy wear a condom
- She picks the guys
- No photos or videos
- It’s possible she may not want me sexually again
- Watching would be her and the guys decision, and if I did there would be no directing
 
My wife,has had many other men over our long married life, some very well endowed black men.
However as the length of time We have been together with children and grandchildren.
She has always stated over the years that Her sex life in a loving relationship with me is the most important to Her.
Now saying this She has in the course of our relationship had many partners black and white.
She has enjoyed gang bangs , small groups , single black men.
All unprotected sex.
 
I got one rule and that is "when we play the wife is to be totally uninhibited"!

When they start talking about rules I respectfully tell them that I am not interested and move on! You start talking about rules and doing things that some people find unappealing and wack you may find yourself getting ghosted or stood up!

I love pussy too much to ever no show but rather if I wasn't interested there would absolutely not be any discussions about meeting or plans being made to no show on.

I will be honest I often read swinger profiles and adds and some of them are just down right unappealing or a complete turn off! Like a guy who leads with dick pics is a total turnoff to women some couple's turn single guys off too!

We should probably screenshot and post some of this stuff.
 
Lol, you better have some sort of understanding about how things are going to go or it won't last.
The single guys on here that aren't married but act like they are post some of the most ridiculous unbelievable ******* I've ever read.
We have been in the LS for 20+ years, we started young. We most definitely had out bumps and bruises along the way. Mistakes are made, you recover from them or you don't. We have even taken compete breaks from the LS, one time it was over a year that we/she didn't play.
We have met tons of amazing people from couples to single male and females that are all into this LS.
So when some of the cats come on here and write things like.."I'm not allowed to have sex with my wife anymore." Well that's fucking bullshit.
I promise you a relationship like that will not last. If you are that weak ass of a man that you aren't even allowed to stick your dick in your own wife, what fucking good are you? A woman is not going to keep your ass around.
So to the OP, don't fall for the hype. If you are really really serious about getting into this LS you and your wife had better have a fucking plan and you better communicate. I have first hand seen what happens to couples that don't. Fantasy is fantasy bit reality is reality!
Peace...
 
Lol, you better have some sort of understanding about how things are going to go or it won't last.
The single guys on here that aren't married but act like they are post some of the most ridiculous unbelievable ******* I've ever read.
We have been in the LS for 20+ years, we started young. We most definitely had out bumps and bruises along the way. Mistakes are made, you recover from them or you don't. We have even taken compete breaks from the LS, one time it was over a year that we/she didn't play.
We have met tons of amazing people from couples to single male and females that are all into this LS.
So when some of the cats come on here and write things like.."I'm not allowed to have sex with my wife anymore." Well that's fucking bullshit.
I promise you a relationship like that will not last. If you are that weak ass of a man that you aren't even allowed to stick your dick in your own wife, what fucking good are you? A woman is not going to keep your ass around.
So to the OP, don't fall for the hype. If you are really really serious about getting into this LS you and your wife had better have a fucking plan and you better communicate. I have first hand seen what happens to couples that don't. Fantasy is fantasy bit reality is reality!
Peace...
Totally Agree, with your post 👍
 
We had a bunch of rules before we started this. Then, her first time was with a guy that picked her up while we were at a casino. he fucked her bareback, and then fucked her ass bareback, so clearly the rules didn't matter for her. Now she does whatever she wants and she may or may not let me watch or even tell me it happened. I am caged and only allowed out to shower and occasionally beat off. i have been pussyfree for years and my only sexual contact with her is cleaning her after she is fucked.
 
Everyones "rules" are different. I would say if either of you have a definite must or must not, you need to communicate that upfront.
 
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