I would be interested to know if other wives/GF's allow their husbands/BF's to watch clothed when they have sex with the bull ?
The situation of each couple and each three-way relationship is different, I do not have long term experience and have only had one black lover. As I have learned here in the forum most cuckolds love to watch their wives during sex with the bull, do the cleaning duties and so on. With my husband it's different, he begrudges me the sexual experiences he can't give me and I respect his limits (for example no cleaning duties) but on the other hand he also often shows resistance against enforced long term chastity and he also doesn't want to watch me when having sex with my black lover. Not because he does not want to experience a live porn but because he feels ashamed and humiliated when he is presented naked, with the typical body of a white mid-fifties men, his penis locked in an extremely small cage in front of my young, muscular black lover. Nevertheless, I require him to do like this (to be presented naked etc.) from time to time, because this greatly reduces his resistance and afterwards he is more submissive than usual.
Right now our relationship is in a phase where he is very resistant, among other because I had to postpone his next release again and again because he kept violating an important basic requirement - no erections in the chaste phase. Therefore I had a discussion with him about the fact that I expect him to watch more often again so that this brings him back down to earth....He now only wants to do this if he either stays clothed or I unlock him so he can masturbate while watching (this is typical for his behavior, he is ashamed to be presented naked but not if he could masturbate). My black lover doesn't care but I actually don't want both, just that he is naked and locked and ashamed of his small penis causes him to become deeply submissive again and accepting his long term chastity better. That while watching he is unlocked and masturbating his small penis is a no go for me and would be a turn down for me.
How do other wife's/gf's handle this?
The situation of each couple and each three-way relationship is different, I do not have long term experience and have only had one black lover. As I have learned here in the forum most cuckolds love to watch their wives during sex with the bull, do the cleaning duties and so on. With my husband it's different, he begrudges me the sexual experiences he can't give me and I respect his limits (for example no cleaning duties) but on the other hand he also often shows resistance against enforced long term chastity and he also doesn't want to watch me when having sex with my black lover. Not because he does not want to experience a live porn but because he feels ashamed and humiliated when he is presented naked, with the typical body of a white mid-fifties men, his penis locked in an extremely small cage in front of my young, muscular black lover. Nevertheless, I require him to do like this (to be presented naked etc.) from time to time, because this greatly reduces his resistance and afterwards he is more submissive than usual.
Right now our relationship is in a phase where he is very resistant, among other because I had to postpone his next release again and again because he kept violating an important basic requirement - no erections in the chaste phase. Therefore I had a discussion with him about the fact that I expect him to watch more often again so that this brings him back down to earth....He now only wants to do this if he either stays clothed or I unlock him so he can masturbate while watching (this is typical for his behavior, he is ashamed to be presented naked but not if he could masturbate). My black lover doesn't care but I actually don't want both, just that he is naked and locked and ashamed of his small penis causes him to become deeply submissive again and accepting his long term chastity better. That while watching he is unlocked and masturbating his small penis is a no go for me and would be a turn down for me.
How do other wife's/gf's handle this?