My wife has been with three bulls now, and she's not very satisfied. They were big, but they did not last and they were not able to give her much pleasure. She's pretty much ready to throw in the towel on this experiment. Any advice on how to make sure she has a good time? Probably one more dud and that will be it for us.
Disappointments?
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Hm. Eleven inches is not everything, eh? Is that what I'm hearing? I have a white friend who once got herself what she called a bull with a horsecock. Those were her words.
To make a long story short she did not like it. Said it was more painful than pleasurable and she didn't like the fact that she could not maneuver herself around it as she would have liked to.
Long and short of this story is there are variations on the theme of your post. Finding the right bull for many is not as simple as grabbing the first big cock that comes along. You guys are learning or have learned that you need a bull that's the right size for YOU, plus he must have staying power. Good luck.
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Not had too many disappointments, most guys have been charming and fun. Not all match their photos but that's ok. Only slight disappointment I've had is guys who don't tell the truth about the size of their cock. I've never been a size queen but have wanted the 'truly, big' experience. Most guys I've been with range from around 6 to around 9 inches. Although they've said or hinted before meeting at being 10 to 12 inches.
I haven't said anything as they've been nice guys and good fucks anyway. But before I hang up my stockings in this lifestyle, I'd really like to try a massive one. Otherwise I'd feel like I've gone to Disneyland, Florida after years of waiting, and their best rides are shut down! X
A big pussy like that needs a giant cock.
Thanx babe, certainly does!
How do we find those?
Yeah, size has not been a problem. 8" is plenty for her anyway. The problem has been finding someone with stamina
They all say they can for hours but then we end up getting a room and they fuck for 5 minutes and only one round.
Looking for someone who can at least go longer and more times than I can.
Maxfield0316
Couple
Sounds like you need to vet them out better. Get references from other couples in the lifestyle in your area. You can do this through parties or have the prospective bull provide references you can contact to see if he measures up. Most of the lifestyle parties I've attended over the years required references just to get an invite. If you step up your gsme vetting them out you won't have disappointments. And you can weed out 50 shaders as well...
Nyce1
Male
This is all so interesting. I think that a lot of couples just look for a Bull for his "services" and that's kinda it. So why would he be so crazy and into her if they have no previous repport or built up anticipation? I think that's where the stamina and repeated orgazms come from. From being truely attracted to her. Then comes the multiple orgazms from the Bull's side, it starts in his hard and then his cock gets hard again. He may need a short break or a snack(lol) but if his MIND is "into" her then his cock will certainly follow.
Good point. People have a lot of false impressions about these encounters. The fetish taboo big cock idea fills their mind and imagination not considering the reality of hot sex being a combination of being mental as much as it is physical.
I have to be turned on both ways. The attraction is important (visual). That feeds the lust and desire (mental) and half the battle for a hot time is therefore already achieved once the couple is personable (personality). Yes, that counts too. If the husband or wife or both comes of as an ass, desire is gone because it's not like I'm a pro porno star or someone hired to fuck just about anyone for a dollar or something.
This is not about doing business. It about having fun. It IS about a particular kind of relationship. Well for me, at least, even though it is one primarily driven by lust or fantasy. If all the variables as not in place the potential is not there and the deal falls through.
As far as staying power, some guys just don't have it no mater how big they are and I don't know that anything could necessarily change that.
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Sorry to hear. You've learned a lesson the hard way, no pun intended. Not all men last long or recover in a relatively short amount of time to go more than one round. Yup I've heard this complaint a few times.
Of the 50 or so black guys I fucked before I moved in with my black boyfriend we only one bad experience. That was a white guy that claimed he was black when we made contact with but when we met him has was white as snow, I told him I already had a little white dicklet and that I didn't need another one. I think he thought I would go ahead and have sex with him but he got fooled. Anyway nearly half of the guys that I fucked hit on me when I was out in public. I always found that the guys wanted me to have a great sexual experience so I would get with them again and I nearly always did.
Phyliss
Phyliss
We had a similar experience. we had a good chat with the bull before the encounter and also when we met for dinner. But we were very disappointed by his performance on bed. He couldn't even last for a minute and wasn't even able to get his dick hard for the second round ! Seems like only talk and no play.
He was talking very much like most of the guys here about how he banged xx number of white woman, told us a story where he fucked someone the whole night blah blah blah ! I believe that there are only a handful of men out there who actually do it the way they say it. Rest are just barking dogs.
He was talking very much like most of the guys here about how he banged xx number of white woman, told us a story where he fucked someone the whole night blah blah blah ! I believe that there are only a handful of men out there who actually do it the way they say it. Rest are just barking dogs.
Wow. Sorry to hear you went through this too.
I hear you, but the thing is these have been guys that sought her out, either on this site or seeing her at a club etc. How could they not be into her? And, this avatar is actually my wife's ass; how could any straight man not be into that?
We never treated this like a service. Just like a place to meet single, hung guys looking for a fun time. I was hoping the hype about BBC was more than fantasy, but I guess it's really more about the emotional than the physical after all.
Unless there's a skilled bull out there itching to prove otherwise...
Nyce1
Male
Good reply!
Here's an idea, pick a Bull that you both have things in common with. That holds her to a higher standard and dosnt just want to "F" her. Then don't just hook up but instead hang out. All that is just like a normal and HOT relationship. It builds friendship(where great sex derives from), anticipation(him and her will find each other insatiable) and reliability. ANYONE can find someone to just have sex with but it's work, effort and the rewards that go along with what most couples are looking for. If you three take the time to create all of the above then you'll have a Bull that reliably shows up, respects you both and would have NO problems repeatedly taking her over and over again whenever and wherever he can. It's NOT just about her ass or her tits etc, it's about in his mind he simply can't get enough of her. And with men, I feel that having repeated and back to back orgazms has to start in the mind firstly, then his cock will follow repeatedly
This is all my personal opinion of course, I'm sure some guys can repeated "F" a woman over and over based on her looks alone. But most men, after the first one is emptied out, we're relieved and it's time to move on. Being mindfully into her as well overcomes that.
This is a refreshing thread. I enjoy the honesty and perspective which is usually not present in the overblowing of the fantasy aspect of things. We have had more disappointments that successes. It doesn't mean that we have given up, but we do adjust our thoughts, expectations and the way we attempt to meet guys.
Nyce1
Male
I think all too often couples put the cart before the horse and have unrealistic expectations.
For couples on this forum that just want to hook-up and move on with any BBC it's a great place.
For those that want "more" well then, it's going to require some thought and strategy. I just don't see the point in not getting to know a couple and not seeing
if you all click before moving to meeting up etc. All the "talk" about no protection and getting her pregnant makes ZERO sense to me in this real world, add to that doing these things with someone you barely know is just asking for disaster. I wish more people were open about playing safely as well.
For couples on this forum that just want to hook-up and move on with any BBC it's a great place.
For those that want "more" well then, it's going to require some thought and strategy. I just don't see the point in not getting to know a couple and not seeing
if you all click before moving to meeting up etc. All the "talk" about no protection and getting her pregnant makes ZERO sense to me in this real world, add to that doing these things with someone you barely know is just asking for disaster. I wish more people were open about playing safely as well.
