Yes, we would love for it to happen.
Love to be there to see it happen....To be the one black-owning you and the wife.
Yes, we would love for it to happen.
Lets work on that.
For the couples and hubbies in here: is your being a cuckold something you still feel ashamed of and prefer it being a secret to just you and your wife and her lover... Or do you openly let your friends know?
Are there secrets of your being a cuckold you'd love to share in here with others?
Its something I wouldn't publicize. Not because I'm ashamed but because I don't think society is ready to accept this type of lifestyle. It is still too taboo in the eyes of many and the discovery could ruin our professional reputations and the lives of our *******.
Guess what: society is never going to accept such.
I think you're wrong Dsoul. If you look closely you can see that its slowly making its way out to the spot lite. Look at all the attention the lifestyle has gotten from mainstream media...
Things change with time.
It's not going to change becos a lot of hubbies in here talk about it but in the end don't officially DO IT. It's easy for most in here to speculate about wanting to see their wives with black men, but what's the percentage of those in here who're actually doing it? Less than 5%. The few who're actually doing are the exception.
I doubt if most of you would be spending much hours in here if you knew your wives were having fun.
My hubby and I have a very open line of communication. He has given me his blessing to, in my 40's, have the experiences most women have in their teens or twenties. (I was a virgin when we met.) He has talked about being interested in seeing me with another guy, just to get more ideas on what he can do to please me and make me scream. I am the one who would feel uncomfortable with that. I love my hubby dearly and don't want to risk making him feel inadequate in any way, shape or form.
Just a little input from a different point of view.
My hubby and I have a very open line of communication. He has given me his blessing to, in my 40's, have the experiences most women have in their teens or twenties. (I was a virgin when we met.) He has talked about being interested in seeing me with another guy, just to get more ideas on what he can do to please me and make me scream. I am the one who would feel uncomfortable with that. I love my hubby dearly and don't want to risk making him feel inadequate in any way, shape or form.
Just a little input from a different point of view.
This comes across as if it's only up to the hubbies. If it were up to the hubbies ONLY, I'm sure the percentages would soar. The fact is that only a very, very small percentage of white women would even consider this kind of lifestyle. The women certainly have a say in it and is more than most guys like to admit. I do believe there are a lot white guys on here that are full of BS...many posing as women...but I say it's more likely the they are using this site to fulfill their gay/bi fantasies. In other words, they want the BBD for themselves and their own pleasure.It's not going to change becos a lot of hubbies in here talk about it but in the end don't officially DO IT. It's easy for most in here to speculate about wanting to see their wives with black men, but what's the percentage of those in here who're actually doing it? Less than 5%. The few who're actually doing are the exception.
I doubt if most of you would be spending much hours in here if you knew your wives were having fun.
This comes across as if it's only up to the hubbies. If it were up to the hubbies ONLY, I'm sure the percentages would soar. The fact is that only a very, very small percentage of white women would even consider this kind of lifestyle. The women certainly have a say in it and is more than most guys like to admit. I do believe there are a lot white guys on here that are full of BS...many posing as women...but I say it's more likely the they are using this site to fulfill their gay/bi fantasies. In other words, they want the BBD for themselves and their own pleasure.
I'm sure you're right about the hubbies scared to talk to their wives about it but you make it sound simple as if this is all it takes. My point is that even for those hubbies who DO talk their wives about it, an extremely small percentage will agree to it.For the women to be involved, the men first need to ascertain to their wives why they would desire them to get into this. That's the problem with some hubbies here, as they're too scare to talk to their wives. I know this cos I've talked to a lot of hubbies in the past, and they're always afraid of taking the first step toward convincing the wife about this. If you can't convince your wife to do this, how then do you expect her to?
I consider that very high praise. Thank you.If there were more women like you in here, this forum would be a lovely place.
I was a bit scared to talk to my wife about it, but I was lucky and am a part of the "extremely small percentage" of wives who readily agreed to it. She already had the wonder in her head, all I did was allow her the opportunity to find out for herself. And find out she did! That is why she is now BBC exclusive.I'm sure you're right about the hubbies scared to talk to their wives about it but you make it sound simple as if this is all it takes. My point is that even for those hubbies who DO talk their wives about it, an extremely small percentage will agree to it.
This actually makes all the sense in the world to me. I don't think any amount of convincing will do a bit of good if the woman isn't already open to the idea. And it sounds as though you are one of the few lucky men who's wife was ready...she just needed you to let her know it would be OK to pursue it.I was a bit scared to talk to my wife about it, but I was lucky and am a part of the "extremely small percentage" of wives who readily agreed to it. She already had the wonder in her head, all I did was allow her the opportunity to find out for herself. And find out she did! That is why she is now BBC exclusive.
Yes it is true. She had been curious for a long time about Black Men. When we started talking about adding another man into our sex life, she asked me (much to my joy!) if I was ok with it being a Black Man. I told her that is exactly what I was hoping for. I knew the risks and I knew what would happen. But I love my wife and I know she loves me. Its just that sexually I wasn't pleasing her and I knew it. It wasn't long after she had her first BBC that she informed me that I would never touch her sexually again unless I was cleaning up or getting her ready.This actually makes all the sense in the world to me. I don't think any amount of convincing will do a bit of good if the woman isn't already open to the idea. And it sounds as though you are one of the few lucky men who's wife was ready...she just needed you to let her know it would be OK to pursue it.