Cuckold = bisexual? Is it so or not?

[Cucoldik]

I write in this section because I want to hear the opinion of all cuckolds.

When listening to and reading psychologists, I very often hear the following thesis from them: "The way of life of cuckolds is chosen by men who are bisexual, or are hidden bisexuals." What do you think about it? Interesting opinion of cuckolds.

 

[BillyMac]

I write in this section because I want to hear the opinion of all cuckolds.

When listening to and reading psychologists, I very often hear the following thesis from them: "The way of life of cuckolds is chosen by men who are bisexual, or are hidden bisexuals." What do you think about it? Interesting opinion of cuckolds.

This is a complex but great question. I’m finding it difficult to pick an answer. Let me explain.

I’ve documented it before but for this question I’ll bring up again our cuckolding lifestyle was born from me not satisfying my wife due to rarely being home due to work. She had multiple sex driven affairs I was aware she was having. I liked her being pleased and enjoyed knowing before I broke it to her I knew.

When I watched my wife the first time I was fascinated with what I saw. I admit I shared an appreciation for the guys she was with. Within the first few times there was a change in me. Prior to, the thought of my wife not knowing I knew turned me on and drove me sexually. Pretty quickly it shifted to being driven by watching her in person getting fucked by black men. With that shift I found myself wishing I had a lot more to physically offer like them. I started paying a bit more attention to their form as they fucked her.

The switch flipped for me when my wife transitioned from passively submitting to her bulls and seeing me as neutral, to her taking a more active dominant role with me. I said I’d never do some of the things others, including our friends did in the lifestyle. Those things like cleaning her up and more specifically her becoming very verbal as far as where I was sexually to them turned me on that much more.

She then started talking of how she would like to see me with one of her bulls. Not coincidentally this is when I bailed out from the site for a couple months. I gave a blowjob to a bill of hers who is bi sexual and attempted to have sex with him although it didn’t go well. It was altogether confusing as I had no desire for a man unless I saw him with her. It’s still a bit hard to admit but I take an active sexual role with her and a couple of them who are inviting of it. It’s not all the time but with those guys it’s a lot of guiding, blowing, playing with their balls as they fuck her, licking their ass, and yes, occasionally letting them fuck me.

I guess the answer is cuckolding has led me to the desire. It’s not often and I don’t have a consistent desire or taste for it but it is there. More accurately it’s changed the role of my wife and I in sex as she prefers to peg me over me fucking her. I do think there’s a level of homosexuality with being cucked for some but not all. I think it’s all about the genesis of how the lifestyle became a thing for the couple.

 

[SanteFeRR]

This is an old and complex question. I'm reminded of a post in a Usenet or Sexnet forum where someone wrote, "Get used to sucking cock." This was in the 90s and a lot has changed since then. The question I ask myself more frequently as the years progress is, "Are sexual distinctions still relevant or should we abandon them?" Anybody in this lifestyle has transgressed societal marital norms. Hopefully, everyone is an a relationship which works for them individually and as a couple. If "bisexual" relations are part of it (for any or all parties) so be it. As the song says, "Be happy!"

I realize this doesn't directly answer the question but I don't know if it can be answered or if it's still relevant. I'm interested in hearing others' responses.

 

[OCRAW]

I write in this section because I want to hear the opinion of all cuckolds.

When listening to and reading psychologists, I very often hear the following thesis from them: "The way of life of cuckolds is chosen by men who are bisexual, or are hidden bisexuals." What do you think about it? Interesting opinion of cuckolds.

It's really about the serving and not specifically what I do.

 

[Cucoldik]

Before I became a cuckold, I had a lot of experience with men. Although this was not the main motive for becoming a cuckold, it definitely contributed to it. My black friend who fucked me, fucked my girlfriend in front of me. And I realized that I want to experience these feelings in the future.

 

[Cucoldik]

I realize this doesn't directly answer the question but I don't know if it can be answered or if it's still relevant. I'm interested in hearing others' responses.

We hope that this issue will not be relevant, that such an orientation as bisexual will not exist at all, but there will be loose people who just love sex.

 

[SanteFeRR]

Something to think about: There are some bisexual males who feel guilty about cheating and subtly encourage their wives to take lovers (e.g. Sir Michael Redgrave, ******* of Vanessa, et al.). This dynamic is rarely discussed.

 

[BillyMac]

This is an old and complex question. I'm reminded of a post in a Usenet or Sexnet forum where someone wrote, "Get used to sucking cock." This was in the 90s and a lot has changed since then. The question I ask myself more frequently as the years progress is, "Are sexual distinctions still relevant or should we abandon them?" Anybody in this lifestyle has transgressed societal marital norms. Hopefully, everyone is an a relationship which works for them individually and as a couple. If "bisexual" relations are part of it (for any or all parties) so be it. As the song says, "Be happy!"

I realize this doesn't directly answer the question but I don't know if it can be answered or if it's still relevant. I'm interested in hearing others' responses.

My response is that you are spot on. I’ll start by saying just because you are a cuckold doesn’t mean you are bi-sexual. I watched my wife for months before I had activity with a guy. The term compersion was used by another in a thread, in this instance aka as taking joy in your significant other being sexually satisfied by black men. The other component, sexual inadequacy, aka realizing you can’t please your partner, combined with her being obsessed with black men, lead me and I think most others to try or live the lifestyle.

I agree the assessment and label is outdated. Said it before that in the moment just about anything goes. I think it’s so deep and such a combination of factors.

 

[garyfat]

I am not "attracted" to black men. For example, I have never, and can't imagine ever, getting aroused or hard by looking at one, or a Black Alpha Male's cock, even if he was nude and all oiled up... I would never, ever and haven't ever met on on one with a Black man. There's just "nothing there" in that area.

However, ALL I WATCH is interracial porn... one reason is the contrast. Another is the contrast in culture, backgrounds, basically contrast in everything. See a white woman with a Black Alpha Male that would likely not have happened a hundred years ago, but now is and is happening all over the place, is also a big turn on.

AND, I have had a NUMBER of three-ways with Black Bulls and a white woman. I used to pay women I'd meet off craigslist and rent a hotel room and basically have a PRIVATE PORNO. In that time, I sucked the cocks of a couple of Black Alpha Males, licked their balls and asses etc.

But, imho, I don't see how we can be called "bi" when there is ZERO physical attraction. It's more about, joining in with a beautiful white woman and being part of my own private porno... I'll admit those big purple heads and veiny shafts felt nice in my mouth, especially the part about being so much larger than me. But there was zero physical attraction at all... I would have felt the same way sucking on a dildo for example.

And i would never, EVER let a man put his dick in my ass... lol. Not gunna happen. That's gross. I don't even like anal with women. Nasty.

 

[Cucoldik]

Something to think about: There are some bisexual males who feel guilty about cheating and subtly encourage their wives to take lovers (e.g. Sir Michael Redgrave, ******* of Vanessa, et al.). This dynamic is rarely discussed.

Such a motive is probably present in this relationship. But as surveys show, the possibility of legal sex with men is not the main motive for husbands to lead a cuckold lifestyle. Although as an additional favorable factor, it is quite possible

 

[Cucoldik]

An interesting observation: when I read the rules of the site, it was written that this site is for heterosexual couples. And the survey shows that for only 5% of husbands sexual relations with a bull are taboo

 

[Texas Cuck]

For me personally, I have no desire or attraction to any man. However, cloaked in the form of submission (ideally with my wife demanding me to submit to her lover), I know I would kneel before him and worship his cock.

Part of the "heat of the moment" revolves around wanting to please her. So, if she said she wants me to do it, it would only enhance the feeling that I'm pleasing her indirectly by pleasing her lover.

 

[SanteFeRR]

For me personally, I have no desire or attraction to any man. However, cloaked in the form of submission (ideally with my wife demanding me to submit to her lover), I know I would kneel before him and worship his cock.

Part of the "heat of the moment" revolves around wanting to please her. So, if she said she wants me to do it, it would only enhance the feeling that I'm pleasing her indirectly by pleasing her lover.

Again, behavior which wouldn't happen otherwise becomes acceptable if a woman is involved, no matter how remotely. Does anyone understand the psychology behind this?

 

[oscarpan7]

If I want to have sex with a black man I will do it that's all, no more judgement on that, it is not complicated. As a man if you want to do something you do it and guide yourself to, you dont need others to tell you what you can or cannot do with your body, as a man you should be able to guide you moraly over the world to have a good life, for you and the ones you love.

 

[subbeing]

I write in this section because I want to hear the opinion of all cuckolds.

When listening to and reading psychologists, I very often hear the following thesis from them: "The way of life of cuckolds is chosen by men who are bisexual, or are hidden bisexuals." What do you think about it? Interesting opinion of cuckolds.

As a cuckold i think that in your questión there is something true, a great part, perhaps. i was never an Alpha Man. And i was always bullied by the boys at school, or after school. my sexual feelings are clearly heterosexual. i always felt very turned on when seeing a sexy woman. But at the same time my beta male soul always made me feel very insecure around women. So i always established friendships and had almost no sex, although what i wanted was not friendship but sex. It was my wife who introduced me to sex with men, but it's most likely something that was always with me. Today i still feel turned on by sexy women, more than ever, even though i haven't had heterosexual sex in many years, and I'm only used sexually by Men. So, by now, i am only straight in my mind, but in my daily experience i am a submissive gay, or at least i am sexually used only by BBC Men.

 

[oscarpan7]

As a cuckold i think that in your questión there is something true, a great part, perhaps. i was never an Alpha Man. And i was always bullied by the boys at school, or after school. my sexual feelings are clearly heterosexual. i always felt very turned on when seeing a sexy woman. But at the same time my beta male soul always made me feel very insecure around women. So i always established friendships and had almost no sex, although what i wanted was not friendship but sex. It was my wife who introduced me to sex with men, but it's most likely something that was always with me. Today i still feel turned on by sexy women, more than ever, even though i haven't had heterosexual sex in many years, and I'm only used sexually by Men. So, by now, i am only straight in my mind, but in my daily experience i am a submissive gay, or at least i am sexually used only by BBC Men.

To me, being submissive to a black guy is a way o enjoy sex that's all, no other effects will have in my daily life. Being able to dress up sluty so the black man use me is a huge turn on and pleasure.

 

[subman]

“If the wife and the bull insist, I will agree”
specifically my wife. Because it’s all about pleasing her

 

[MascChocolate]

Yes, every cuckold is at least bi, and often a closet fag.

Men get propagandized hard to never show homosexuality or "weakness" or emotions. That's why it's so heavily masked.

It's the same way women get propagandized to look pretty. You ever tell a woman, "Eh, you don't look great hunny, wanna go to the gym with me or get a haircut?" Yeah, tell me how that went. Same thing happens when you suggest a dude might be queer for being into huge Black dicks fucking their wife.

It's obvious as fuck when you're on the outside looking in.

 

[Cucoldik]

Men get propagandized hard to never show homosexuality or "weakness" or emotions. That's why it's so heavily masked.

Absolutely true. Propaganda against homosexuality deters many men who would engage in this sex and be bisexual. Because those men who try it, without being homosexuals, will like it and will not give up this pleasure. After all, as Sigmund Freud claimed, 85% of men are bisexual in nature.

 

[MaineSailor207]

I write in this section because I want to hear the opinion of all cuckolds.

When listening to and reading psychologists, I very often hear the following thesis from them: "The way of life of cuckolds is chosen by men who are bisexual, or are hidden bisexuals." What do you think about it? Interesting opinion of cuckolds.

In my case, being a life long closeted bisexual made cuckolding a very natural transition.

Before our wedding, I knew that my future wife was addicted to black men and would never be sexually loyal to me. I was very comfortable with her promiscuous lifestyle and actually turned on by it.

My Fiancé was thrilled to be marrying a man who would encourage her to continue her promiscuous lifestyle, yet still emotionally love her unconditionally.