Could use a little guidance...

[Wife4Thick]

We are a mid 50s couple who have been role playing for about a year now. We are both into the scenario of another cock to tease and please her. She gets so wet and wild when we play out the fantasy. Our dilemma is we disagree on how it could/should play out. She thinks it will have to be spontaneous and unplanned. I feel there are too many benefits to use a site like this to begin to flirt, get excited, feel safe, and pick someone who turns her on. Now my question is, preferably answered by a woman, do I just continue to wait for a chance meeting or try and facilitate one? I think I know the answer, but would like to hear other opinions. We hae watched porn and read stories and books and YES she gets turned on, but still not ready to be reality. Thanks for your replies.
MnS

 

[cuck4Beth]

I can tell you from my wife's perspective, 90+% of them men she was with were through swinger sites where you can communicate upfront about desires, likes, dislikes, and limits. It is rare she would meet a stranger and everything was spontaneous. Although she occasionally did enjoy that, she always had a better time with someone who knew what she desires.

 

[Wife4Thick]

Much appreciated