Convincing my black gf

So I have told my gf that I want to see her have sex with another guy before and after I told her I reassured her that I still love her and that it was something I really want but I told her that it is no problem if she’s not interested she said that she doesn’t want to have sex with another guy she said she wouldn’t even feel comfortable doing that so I said that’s fine no problem not even a week goes by and she woke me up in the middle of the night by giving me a handjob then she asked me if I wanted to see another man fuck her and I came so fast that happend about 2 or 3 times I was confused as to why she did that but ok some time goes by again and I ask her if she’s changed her mind about it she said no I accepted and skip to a few days ago she asked me if I wanted an open relationship is said that I don’t won’t to have sex with other women but that she can have sex with other guys IF she asks me first she said okay and that was it do I have a shot at convincing her if so what do I now?
 
sounds like honestly she just wants to keep it in fantasy realm . I do this with my husband allot even though I'm allowed to suck other guys but not fuck them. We'll role play or watch porn and I'll say stuff like watch that BBC fuck me deep or I want to fuck the BBC that's on a video, I want to watch you fuck her and make her cum etc. It's just pure fantasy that I would or he would never do but fun still.
 
sounds like honestly she just wants to keep it in fantasy realm . I do this with my husband allot even though I'm allowed to suck other guys but not fuck them. We'll role play or watch porn and I'll say stuff like watch that BBC fuck me deep or I want to fuck the BBC that's on a video, I want to watch you fuck her and make her cum etc. It's just pure fantasy that I would or he would never do but fun still.
I think I'm in the exact same situation and would love to know more please.
 
So I have told my gf that I want to see her have sex with another guy before and after I told her I reassured her that I still love her and that it was something I really want but I told her that it is no problem if she’s not interested she said that she doesn’t want to have sex with another guy she said she wouldn’t even feel comfortable doing that so I said that’s fine no problem not even a week goes by and she woke me up in the middle of the night by giving me a handjob then she asked me if I wanted to see another man fuck her and I came so fast that happend about 2 or 3 times I was confused as to why she did that but ok some time goes by again and I ask her if she’s changed her mind about it she said no I accepted and skip to a few days ago she asked me if I wanted an open relationship is said that I don’t won’t to have sex with other women but that she can have sex with other guys IF she asks me first she said okay and that was it do I have a shot at convincing her if so what do I now?
Sounds like she's on the fence and is waiting for your permission like REAL permission. But for now, it's baby steps.
 
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