In my opinion this is some young white guy posing as his girlfriend . He is attracted to this lifestyle but does not know why . So instead of doing some self examining he took the easy way out and went to a forum posing as a woman . He knew that a woman posting would get more responses. Obviously he was not concerned about truthful responses ! So my response to HIM , would be dig deep into your psyche and figure out what it is that turns you on about this type of lifestyle. Once you have some sort of answer then you should slowly approach your girlfriend ( if there is one) on your fantasies and desires .start slowly both with your own psyche and girlfriend. Don't jump into something u 2 are not ready for ! If my assumption is correct and you are a male with no girlfriend who feels guilty for having these thoughts, RELAX Fantasies are a beautiful thing, everyone has them ! Enjoy them and leave the guilt for another day ! Fantasy is what makes the world go round !