Confused White girlfriend

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by MikaNomNom, Sep 17, 2014.

  1. MikaNomNom

    MikaNomNom New Member

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    Alright so I'm not really into this sort of thing and I want to be quick about postin on here. So I found some interracial pictures and videos on my boyfriends computer. Normally this wouldn't be a problem but he has alot of it and its like centered around this cuckold stuff. Like alot of the pictures of the girls kinda remind of myself in the last few videos and pics. I looked at his porn folder a few months ago that i found fishing through his computer, and it was all white and animated stuff which didn't bother me, but now thats all gone and this is what i found. He also comes to this site often in his history.
    We're a very young couple (I'm 19 and he's 23). We've been going out for over a year now.

    So this must be a fetish of his but I'm confused why guys are into this?
    and like should I break up with him?
    I don't find black guys attractive at all just to be clear and stuff.
     
    #1 MikaNomNom, Sep 17, 2014
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  2. smallcuckboy22

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    Talk to him about and explain how you feel I'm sure it's just a fetishising a fantasy as it is for me my girlfriend found out through a black man on face book of what I was and my fetishises and she was ok with it so my advice is taking and to be open and honest with your partner :)
     
  3. falcondfw69

    falcondfw69 Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Ummm. If no one else is going to say it, I will. How about the issue of you snooping through his computer? Sounds like you have some serious trust issues in this relationship and beyond. I think you need to get YOUR head straight before you can decide what to do about the relationship.
    And as for him hiding stuff from you, he has trust issues too, which is why he could not share his interests with you. He must have picked up on something from you that said to him "If I share this, this relationship is over. She will never go for it.". Or he had something in the past that happened to him that made him feel this way.
    Either way, you are both young and a little immaturity is to be expected. But if you want this thing to last, boith of you need counseling for your trust issues and maybe for more.
     
  4. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    pic_ThumbsUp.jpg pic_ScoreAnA.jpg response, falcon I wouldn't say this couple needs counseling, just yet, because of the fact that they are, as you noted, young and immature. Definitely appears to be a trust issue on both ends of this relationship.

    That said, Mika has proposed a couple questions to us ... "I'm confused why guys are into this?" AND "should I break up with him?"
    Guys have been interested in porn as far back as history can go recording such. They've found porn on cave walls over 5,000 years old. It's just the nature of guys as we're such visual creatures. I know I've mentioned this a couple times in this forum, but this might be perfect for Mika ... she might find it very informative to read the John Gray classic "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus". About 1o or so years ago my wife and I were laying on the beach, catching some Florida sunrays, and she was reading the paperback. She kept reading lines of the book to me and laughing, and it got me interested enough to read it as well. It's quite accurate in sizing up the differences between the genders. Mika, if you are reading this, at least go read the overview of the book to see if it might interest you. I think it will, because you're still in the learning stage of trying to understand men.

    As far as breaking up with him ... that's your call, Mika. The whole purpose of courtship is to eventually find a compatible mate and the process of searching is a lot of fun. If you have no interest in erotica, but see that he does, then that's a big game changer, I'd think. But, if you have interest in some types of erotica, its just a matter of preference.
    Mika also states that "I don't find black guys attractive at all just to be clear and stuff". Maybe its just me, but I sense a bit of stereotyping here. Men (like women) come in a variety of physical & social extremes, and I'm pretty sure there are some black males that she would find attractive. I'll admit, this website probably doesn't do justice to the type of black male Mika might find attractive, starting with the seemingly fanatical focus on "huge black cocks" as the center of a black man's being.

    I think Mika should have a personal talk with her BF and present her questions & concerns to him; she is young, but there is no use wasting time dating a guy with no foreseeable future, if in fact, that is what she desires.
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  5. Chip

    Chip Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    My first wife was just 19 when we got married her saying no black guy will ever touch me was a strong statement but was not true because she wound up screwing blacks and hispanics. The trust issue is big my wife never goes through my computer and I never go through hers even though both are sitting out you just have to respect the other persons privacy as a couple. If you want to know his thinking ask if you are the only woman for him and expect him to ask same of you let it be known you want each other, if over time the two of you decide to try something different then go for it.
     
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  6. MikaNomNom

    MikaNomNom New Member

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    HEY me and my bf dont have trust issues okay...he let me on his computer for school and i happened upon this stuff, who doesn't look at internet histories and folders?
     
  7. MikaNomNom

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    Alright everyone so i talked with him for a while and confirmed with me that this is just a fetish and he doesn't ever want me to have sex with anyone but him and said it would ruin our relationship.

    Trust me I dont find black men attractive at all.
     
  8. Torpedo

    Torpedo Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Now that you know what his fantasies may be you should talk. You also should consider why you need to snoop on his computer. Immaturity is the biggest hurdle here.
     
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  9. MikaNomNom

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    We did talk that's why I posted - "Alright everyone so i talked with him for a while and confirmed with me that this is just a fetish and he doesn't ever want me to have sex with anyone but him and said it would ruin our relationship."

    Also he doesn't mind that I snooped on his computer, but he did reassure me he isn't into this in real life.
     
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  10. cuckyboi4BBC

    cuckyboi4BBC Well-Known Member Real Person

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    He told you that because you are not into it...otherwise why would he have this sort of stuff on his computer and be a member here? Honey...don't fool yourself. This urge in him will only get stronger...
     
  11. MikaNomNom

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    Then I'll break up with him and find a new *white* boyfriend that suits me, but I check his computer again recently and he hasn't revised any of these websites or downloaded anymore "cuckold" porn
     
  12. Cdncuckold

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    Nothing like asking a question and getting slammed constantly! You are young, but both of you are doing something that a lot of married couples don't do and that is communication. The fetish/cuckold is something that you can decide if you want to explore in the future through more talking. Most importantly the only one that can decide if you trust your bf is you. Trust your instincts.
     
  13. cuckyboi4BBC

    cuckyboi4BBC Well-Known Member Real Person

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    Deleting the history and/or using incognito browsing is quite easy...no trail or history of it on his computer. This doesn't just go away...it only gets stronger sweetie. I'm not trying to be mean, just stating facts. If you are not into it, then yes, by all means dump him. There are plenty of cuckoldresses in waiting out there looking for a guy like yours. I will say this though...you are denying yourself the greatest sexual experience, pleasure and satisfaction you would ever have. Just saying...
     
  14. cuckie40

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    does anyone really believe any of this?
     
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  15. TexasCuck214

    TexasCuck214 Active Member

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    It's very hard to believe that there are more than a handful of american girls that are real on this website. Because they don't need to go online to find the BBC, just get dolled up and to to any local night club. I believe more of the foreign women, because they would actually have to use the internet to find what they want. I appreciate the real ladies who contribute to this forum, but if you are just a horny guy looking to exchange wife pictures, just ask. No need to be deceptive.
     
  16. MikaNomNom

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    Just giving you guys an update, yes I am very much real if you read through the thread...and my previous posts.

    Also for whatever reason, even though my bf deleted all of his stuff of his computer I still find myself coming back here sumtimes...idk why though. I think I'm starting to find black men kinda attractive in a really weird way. I don't like it, but I cannot stop lookig them up now...uhhhhh, if my bf knew i was even here he'd prob be pissed, or maybe turned on i don't even know anymore.
     
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  17. Wildcple4u2

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    In my opinion this is some young white guy posing as his girlfriend . He is attracted to this lifestyle but does not know why . So instead of doing some self examining he took the easy way out and went to a forum posing as a woman . He knew that a woman posting would get more responses. Obviously he was not concerned about truthful responses ! So my response to HIM , would be dig deep into your psyche and figure out what it is that turns you on about this type of lifestyle. Once you have some sort of answer then you should slowly approach your girlfriend ( if there is one) on your fantasies and desires .start slowly both with your own psyche and girlfriend. Don't jump into something u 2 are not ready for ! If my assumption is correct and you are a male with no girlfriend who feels guilty for having these thoughts, RELAX Fantasies are a beautiful thing, everyone has them ! Enjoy them and leave the guilt for another day ! Fantasy is what makes the world go round !
     
  18. TexasCuck214

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    I call BS
     
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  19. cuckyboi4BBC

    cuckyboi4BBC Well-Known Member Real Person

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    I doubt he'd be pissed...I'm thinking he'll be thrilled! He was here and looking at cuckold porn for a reason. I'm also glad you are starting to find Black Men attractive...the need in you is starting to grow as well...:blackheart:
     
  20. Bdick

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    mika do you have any pics?