Confessions about wife and I....

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prudesturtle

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Hello, 45 male, wife is 44. Full disclosure, wife is not on this site.

Brief background follows. We have been married for 16 years. We married with wife being a virgin and to my knowledge, has never had sex outside of marriage. Wife grew up and remains very catholic in beliefs and values, porn is a big no go in any regard, and I believe she has never had the opportunity to experience sex as a form of pleasure, rather, it's a love making affair. There is nothing inherently wrong with that, but I strongly believe that I have failed to let her experience the pleasurable side.
I am underwhelming in size, and have realized that I'm probably also not up to par with ways of giving pleasure during sex.
I will also mention that it has been a while now since we have sex. I'm a horny individual by nature, but have resorted to self relief to keep myself afloat.

I have spoken to wife in the past about using sex toys, but she doesn't, or didn't, want to loose human touch. I offered using a penis sleeve in the hope that it would keep the human contact there, but allow her to experience the feeling of something bigger, that could spark pleasure and more desires in her. Was a no go.

So ideally, I'm looking for like minded people that we could befriend in normal settings, in hopes that she eventually feels comfortable enough to discuss sex and she can become aware that it's ok to seek pleasure elsewhere. I kind of wish she finds a disconnect between feeling pleasure, and the commitment to a husband....knowing that these don't have to be mutually exclusive. I would so much love for her to enjoy sex as I see and hear other women do.

So if anyone is in south texas and may be interested in becoming acquaintances which can develop into friendships, I would be grateful. I'm not interested in a bbc seducing my wife, not against it either....but I am interested in wife enjoying sex, which has been a failure with me. What would be ideal is giving her resources other than her current like minded prudish friends, to know that it's ok to enjoy the pleasures of sex. I love my wife, but don't think I have given her sexually what she needs.
 
prudesturtle said:
Hello, 45 male, wife is 44. Full disclosure, wife is not on this site.

Brief background follows. We have been married for 16 years. We married with wife being a virgin and to my knowledge, has never had sex outside of marriage. Wife grew up and remains very catholic in beliefs and values, porn is a big no go in any regard, and I believe she has never had the opportunity to experience sex as a form of pleasure, rather, it's a love making affair. There is nothing inherently wrong with that, but I strongly believe that I have failed to let her experience the pleasurable side.
I am underwhelming in size, and have realized that I'm probably also not up to par with ways of giving pleasure during sex.
I will also mention that it has been a while now since we have sex. I'm a horny individual by nature, but have resorted to self relief to keep myself afloat.

I have spoken to wife in the past about using sex toys, but she doesn't, or didn't, want to loose human touch. I offered using a penis sleeve in the hope that it would keep the human contact there, but allow her to experience the feeling of something bigger, that could spark pleasure and more desires in her. Was a no go.

So ideally, I'm looking for like minded people that we could befriend in normal settings, in hopes that she eventually feels comfortable enough to discuss sex and she can become aware that it's ok to seek pleasure elsewhere. I kind of wish she finds a disconnect between feeling pleasure, and the commitment to a husband....knowing that these don't have to be mutually exclusive. I would so much love for her to enjoy sex as I see and hear other women do.

So if anyone is in south texas and may be interested in becoming acquaintances which can develop into friendships, I would be grateful. I'm not interested in a bbc seducing my wife, not against it either....but I am interested in wife enjoying sex, which has been a failure with me. What would be ideal is giving her resources other than her current like minded prudish friends, to know that it's ok to enjoy the pleasures of sex. I love my wife, but don't think I have given her sexually what she needs.
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Appreciate your thoughts and your willingness to make her feel real pleasure. Unfortunately I am not in South Texas but I keep travelling a lot and may be one day we can end up meeting and knowing each other better. Open for friendship or chat of you are interested
 
Thank you. This brings up a good point, as Laredo is a big port for import and export business, if anyone with recurring business trips would like to meet and get to know each other, that can also happen under a business customer guise.
 
prudesturtle said:
Hello, 45 male, wife is 44. Full disclosure, wife is not on this site.

Brief background follows. We have been married for 16 years. We married with wife being a virgin and to my knowledge, has never had sex outside of marriage. Wife grew up and remains very catholic in beliefs and values, porn is a big no go in any regard, and I believe she has never had the opportunity to experience sex as a form of pleasure, rather, it's a love making affair. There is nothing inherently wrong with that, but I strongly believe that I have failed to let her experience the pleasurable side.
I am underwhelming in size, and have realized that I'm probably also not up to par with ways of giving pleasure during sex.
I will also mention that it has been a while now since we have sex. I'm a horny individual by nature, but have resorted to self relief to keep myself afloat.

I have spoken to wife in the past about using sex toys, but she doesn't, or didn't, want to loose human touch. I offered using a penis sleeve in the hope that it would keep the human contact there, but allow her to experience the feeling of something bigger, that could spark pleasure and more desires in her. Was a no go.

So ideally, I'm looking for like minded people that we could befriend in normal settings, in hopes that she eventually feels comfortable enough to discuss sex and she can become aware that it's ok to seek pleasure elsewhere. I kind of wish she finds a disconnect between feeling pleasure, and the commitment to a husband....knowing that these don't have to be mutually exclusive. I would so much love for her to enjoy sex as I see and hear other women do.

So if anyone is in south texas and may be interested in becoming acquaintances which can develop into friendships, I would be grateful. I'm not interested in a bbc seducing my wife, not against it either....but I am interested in wife enjoying sex, which has been a failure with me. What would be ideal is giving her resources other than her current like minded prudish friends, to know that it's ok to enjoy the pleasures of sex. I love my wife, but don't think I have given her sexually what she needs.
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maybe youre what she needs...Talk to her about it..I been thru this with hubby he has a hard time beliving i dont need no one but him what i do is for a show for him and try to teach myself to enjoy it for what it is SEX only..Not all women needs a big cock to be happy...i have had big cocks and was the worse fuck i ever had in my life...if he cant use it or trys to impress then its not good for me...So talk to her about it be honest if it turns you on to think about i then tell her that...Honesty is the best way to go in my oponion
 
Vikas said:
Appreciate your thoughts and your willingness to make her feel real pleasure. Unfortunately I am not in South Texas but I keep travelling a lot and may be one day we can end up meeting and knowing each other better. Open for friendship or chat of you are interested
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Vikas, I am curious about the cuck lifestyle in India and tried to message you but you evidently want no PMs. I have heard many tales about the people from there but will seek answers somewhere else.
 
WetNwild57 said:
maybe youre what she needs...Talk to her about it..I been thru this with hubby he has a hard time beliving i dont need no one but him what i do is for a show for him and try to teach myself to enjoy it for what it is SEX only..Not all women needs a big cock to be happy...i have had big cocks and was the worse fuck i ever had in my life...if he cant use it or trys to impress then its not good for me...So talk to her about it be honest if it turns you on to think about i then tell her that...Honesty is the best way to go in my oponion
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yup. Communicate
 
Question, on the communication part…and really, mire of an “in your opinion discussion”. She just told me she has a planned trip to Houston with a couple of friends. Would it be too much to soon if I say something along the lines of…have a great time, and if you find someone you like, I’m ok with you sleeping with him?

Not sure if too much to soon to abrupt, or it may be cool to give her a five hour solo drive, to think, and then possibly discuss with two friend of hers with whom she will be meeting.
I understand there is no manual to this, but thoughts on this, or experiences with such a comment are appreciated.
 
prudesturtle said:
Question, on the communication part…and really, mire of an “in your opinion discussion”. She just told me she has a planned trip to Houston with a couple of friends. Would it be too much to soon if I say something along the lines of…have a great time, and if you find someone you like, I’m ok with you sleeping with him?

Not sure if too much to soon to abrupt, or it may be cool to give her a five hour solo drive, to think, and then possibly discuss with two friend of hers with whom she will be meeting.
I understand there is no manual to this, but thoughts on this, or experiences with such a comment are appreciated.
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That would be ok with me but maybe not her..No way to know how she will respond..
 
txskipper said:
Vikas, I am curious about the cuck lifestyle in India and tried to message you but you evidently want no PMs. I have heard many tales about the people from there but will seek answers somewhere else.
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Cuckolding is not very common in india though there are various cases of both men and women cheating on each other. Most of these relationships are discrete only. However things are changing in big metros and I heard about sex parties and wife swapping kind of stories too.
 
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