Communication
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OwnedWife4good
Female
I text mine several times a month to plan date weekends. Hubby has no contact or control in the matter.
My wife texts with her bull daily, usually to decide when and where they will meet. Sometimes she will get a text and minutes later she will be waiting nude for him to arrive.
About once a month he will text me and tell me he needs her for a few minutes. That’s when I drive her to his place and wait in the car while she blows him and sometimes a friend.
So far she has left all the talking and planning outings up to me. Although I could see her talking and texting regularly with our bull in the future as she’s recently started referring to him as her “black boyfriend”. We have something planned next week for Valentine’s Day, hopefully the weather doesn’t ruin it.
How do you deal with that anxiety feeling I don't know what you call it when you know your wife is inside and you're out in the parking lot? I can't get over that sick feeling that's where I'm trying to get to. I'm totally into all of this stuff especially when it's all three and I know she enjoys one-on-one I'm just trying to get to the point where I don't have to feel horrible for her to feel happy
This lifestyle, or any lifestyle, should be something you do together. You both need to feel comfortable. No one can tell you how you two should do it. It is totally up to you. I bet your wife would not feel comfortable if you texted with other woman. So the same apparently applies for you. You should discuss this with your wife and be open and honest. Good luck my friend.
Nastycpl3
Couple
Sounds like youre not enjoying it and you need to talk to her now not post on here. If she doent want to change after telling her how you feel than she doesnt care about you and you need to seriously re-evaluate your prioities, relationship wise. I could've sworn you posted something similair that i also replied to.
ALL. THE. TIME.
To me its like foreplay and almost half the fun tbh. When hubby ask who it is i often insinuate its a black guy that will fuck me in the near future, even though it rarely materializes a real meeting. It always makes him jerk his cock so hard when we watch BBC porn later that night, lol.
My hubby dont text with my bulls but they sometimes ******* beer together and watch sport etc...
demattha28
Male
My experience is the husband is usually more involved at the begining the newer to the lifestyle they are. Once you build a rapport I usually just keep in touch with the wife because she usually keeps track of her schedule better anyway, lol
Hubby makes initial communication. Gets approval after pic exchange from wifey. After the first meeting up wife and bull talk directly. Basically husband filters. Until the wife is comfortable. Husband is also always present to enjoy the show! Makes is safe and secure. Plus way more fun to watch and be watched!
It depends on the Black man. I have had one Black man that texted daily and another one that just sent a text when they wanted to get together. My husband has been in contact with my Black men, but again it depends on the Black man.
