Coming out as a cuckhold

I always was too tiny and once I became impotent my wife made it clear that she needed a real man’s cock. So with my encouragement she offered her granny body to our black neighbor and happily takes his 9” in all three holes several times a week. I’m a contented cuck indeed.
 
i'm single at the moment and even though i have this fetish i don't think i would ever consider to actually "come out" as contrary to how i enjoy this fetish (alone) i have issues with my self-esteem as a man so it'll really hurt my feelings and make me feel inferior and terrible.

also , reality could be way way more wicked than fantasy.
 
You’re wise to know yourself so well. While I encouraged my wife to fuck other men and was at peace with becoming a cuckold I was unprepared for everyone in the neighborhood knowing about and the teasing I would take. Some has been all in fun but most has been mean-spirited. But there’s no undoing it now and I wouldn’t go back. My wife deserves a hard cock inside her and I can’t provide it.
 
Even though we had talk many times about guys she cheated on her first husband with and in detail I was extremely nervous telling her that I wanted her to start fucking other guys again, and she wasn’t very understanding in the beginning, she thought I wanted to be with other women, didn’t love her anymore, etc. but it was out there and eventually it all worked out
 
Coming out to my wife that I enjoyed being a cuckold? That wasn't so hard. I had encouraged her to explore sex with bigger guys. when she actually did it, and felt guilty that she enjoyed it, admitting that it had turned me on immensely was actually a matter of comforting her. finding out that she could tease me about this and shift the focus from her own kinky actions, was a joy she never gets tired of.

Coming out to other people that I'm a cuckold? That has been much harder. when my wife's best friend found out, I wasn't prepared for her efforts to humiliate me. this had a much bigger impact on my sense of manhood then my wife's actual flings. it took quite a while to realize that the embarrassment and even humiliation of being cuckold could turn me on. by the time my sister found out, it was easier to explain but it still took her time to accept I wasn't being victimized.
 
Was it difficult for you to come out and share this with your significant other? Was there something she could of done or said to make it easier? How did you just decide to share? Was it difficult your 1st time acting on these desires?
My girlfriend from 17 years ago admitted interest in watching porn and asked if I had any. Soon we were watching as we fucked regularly. Then I saw see was watching and using her toys while I was at work. So the conversations went from what’s your favorite to I bet you’d like that. I can’t believe I even said I’d like to see you do that. She was reluctant but definitely interested from the first it came out.
My wife now will talk about doing it and domme over me during our sex.
 
Coming out to my wife that I enjoyed being a cuckold? That wasn't so hard. I had encouraged her to explore sex with bigger guys. when she actually did it, and felt guilty that she enjoyed it, admitting that it had turned me on immensely was actually a matter of comforting her. finding out that she could tease me about this and shift the focus from her own kinky actions, was a joy she never gets tired of.

Coming out to other people that I'm a cuckold? That has been much harder. when my wife's best friend found out, I wasn't prepared for her efforts to humiliate me. this had a much bigger impact on my sense of manhood then my wife's actual flings. it took quite a while to realize that the embarrassment and even humiliation of being cuckold could turn me on. by the time my sister found out, it was easier to explain but it still took her time to accept I wasn't being victimized.
At first I was embarrassed to find out that all of my wife’s friends knew that she was fucking our black neighbor. What made it worse was that they told their hubbies, who tease me unmercifully about being a cuckyboy. But I must admit, I enjoy the shame and humiliation of it.
 
At first I was embarrassed to find out that all of my wife’s friends knew that she was fucking our black neighbor. What made it worse was that they told their hubbies, who tease me unmercifully about being a cuckyboy. But I must admit, I enjoy the shame and humiliation of it.

I can SO relate! For a while I thought the embarrassment of being exposed as a cuckold was limited to my wife's best friend, Heidi, and MAYBE a couple of women that they went dancing with now and then. I was pretty certain my wife wouldn't have told them, but I I didn't doubt that Heidi would pass up such an easy way to undermine me (she always thought Maggie could have done better than me). Fast forward several months after Maggie had cheated on me in Italy, and we went to a baby shower for one of the women in their group (in Mexican culture men actually get dragged to these things). Off to the side, I sat with a small group of husbands and boyfriends drinking beer. We were talking about summer travel plans when one of the guys asked me if Maggie and I could afford to take off after her expensive Italy trip. As I was answering, one of the guys interrupted me, saying, "yeah, Ted, you spent all that money on her trip and what did she buy you? A dad hat from the airport?" Before I could figure out a come back, another guy says in a stage whisper, "more like an empty box of condoms." Half the guys struggled to control their chuckles. The other half had confused or shocked expressions on their faces. I opened my mouth but I couldn't say anything. I felt my face burning. How many people already knew? How many who didn't, now suspected something? Mercifully, right then the expectant mom received some special gift and everybody's attention was drawn to her squeals. Still, for the rest of the afternoon I could hear the whispers around me, see the smirks and shaking heads. One particularly clueless guy, Richard, came up to me and asked me what all the fuss was about. What was that comment about the condoms? As I struggled to say something, anything to deflect, he read my tortured expression and it finally dawned on him what could make me so uncomfortable. He quickly tried to apologize for being an idiot, and even put his arm around my shoulders like she was comforting me. Then he said something I'll never forget. "Don't worry buddy, it happens to the best of us." Richard and I always had a kind of a bond after that, and shared some really helpful conversations about cornudos.
 
I’m betting that one or more of those guys are clueless cucks who have no idea that their wives are fucking another man. My wife told me that her bull is fucking the wife of the guy who has been the nastiest about teasing me. He has no idea. I’m a big believer in karma.
 
Was it difficult for you to come out and share this with your significant other? Was there something she could of done or said to make it easier? How did you just decide to share? Was it difficult your 1st time acting on these desires?
She instigated the whole thing after catching me having an affair. The more she realized I was submissive to her aggressiveness with it, the further it went.
 
Was it difficult for you to come out and share this with your significant other? Was there something she could of done or said to make it easier? How did you just decide to share? Was it difficult your 1st time acting on these desires?

Mine first started out watching IR porn at first I thought its just something I'm into no biggie but over time I started fantasizing about my wife with a bbc and I still do to this day but that fantasy started to recently get stronger , I told myself I'd never pay for this website and this week I became a gold member so my addiction is getting bad I wouldn't say I'm a cuck though I'm more of a vougher
 
Was it difficult for you to come out and share this with your significant other? Was there something she could of done or said to make it easier? How did you just decide to share? Was it difficult your 1st time acting on these desires?
Usually would come up with such conversations with past sexual experiences like if you ever had an threesome or had an wild experience. Both of my ex’s that I was in the lifestyle with had very wild sex experiences. Both of them fucked 5 guys in one day so right there I knew they were open to fucking other men. Even after they both said they could never do it, I knew they would. Every woman has an inner slut. Just need to find it and bring it out. Once my ex’s saw how turned on I was and how well I fucked them when sharing them it was game on from there. Not sure if the fucking them better was sort of an male dominant competition type thing both my ex’s said sex was so much better when I shared them with other men. I’m not an typical cuckold since I’m pretty Dominant and well hung. Guess I’m an Alpha cuck lol. I’m no longer in the lifestyle because both my relationships ended badly and the lifestyle was part of the ending of the relationships wether it became an trust issue or some asshole guys playing mind games or some *******! But I’m glad I enjoyed the lifestyle for the years I did! Great memories and experiences. Now my marriage is pretty Vanilla. I’m Dominant in bed with my wife and she likes being submissive and even though she doesn’t like to truly express it but she does orgasm pretty good on the black dildos we sometimes play with. She’s told me that she has no interest in black guys but I think she’s been with one of two in the past. She only goes with men with big dicks and black guys always hit on her and still do if she’s out alone at the grocery store or somewhere.
 
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