Not really cheating, when we first got into the lifestyle, we had a steady man we met with. I was allowed to meet up with him alone, stay over his place when I wanted. We fucked all the time, we were suppose to be having safe sex, but after a while we stopped using condoms and yes I did get pregnant. Yes I had her and stayed married to my husband. It’s 37 years later, being brown, didn’t make it obvious, though most of my close family knows they don’t know about our lifestyle. They think we were having a rough patch, and we decided to see others.