Cheater's Proof

[jmontagn]

Pam and I were married for 14 years and for all that time it never occurred to me that she would be unfaithful. Several years after Pam and I split up, I was surfing an interracial porn site and noticed the sexy thigh-his in this photo and thought to myself, "Those look just like the thigh-his that Pam used to wear under her business pants suits when she went on business trips to Washington, DC." (It was our inside joke that under those conservative slacks were sexy panties and those killer hose.) I almost ******* my pants when I looked at the woman's face and it was Pam. Then I looked at the guy and he looked familiar. He looked like Derick, a contractor to her office in DC.
To say that I looked carefully at the photo would be an understatement; I examined every part of it and found many details that confirmed that it was Pam. The hair is the style she changed to about 5 years after we got married, the necklace is the one I gave her for our 6th anniversary. The tits and nipples are virtually identical to hers, the navel is a tiny "innie" like hers. The finger nail polish is the same neutral shade as the polish she wears.
I recognized the background as the "dungeon" that her ex boyfriend and Dom, Jack had in the lower level of his townhouse in the Maryland suburbs of DC. I had been there once to try to thwart Jack's attempt to use a "Best of Pam" porn video to blackmail her into having sex with him the night before our wedding. I made Jack show me the video and that bed, the wireless house phone, and the funky red and white and pink shower curtains are unmistakable. They were in the background for a lot of clips in the blackmail video.
Then there is that facial expression, not exactly the ******* you would expect on a woman who is enjoying having her pussy eaten. That too confirms that it is Pam; she hated oral sex both giving and receiving. It seems that someone else must have photographed her and that brings us to the question of who. I am pretty sure that it was Jack. She lived with him for three years as his submissive and she told me that the last Wednesday of every month he had an orgy in the "dungeon" and she acted as the hostess. Jack was blatant voyeur and would photograph virtually any one at the orgies.
It wasn't until I found this photo that I realized just how many of Pam’s frequent business trips to DC were the last week of the month. (A clue that I missed to her cheating.)She would usually go on Tuesdays and come back Thursday evening almost always staying at her friend Mary's apartment. We made it a custom to call home every night when we were on business travel using a calling card. When she was away the calls were always a lot shorter than when I was away, particularly when she was at Mary's because she said that didn't want to tie up Mary's phone.(Another missed clue). In retrospect, I suspect that she was really at Jack's townhouse most of those times.
I wondered about when the photo might have been taken. For a brief moment I thought it might have been before we met but then I remembered the necklace and the thigh-his. I estimate the photo as sometime between 1998 and 2001.Another detail was that Derick also happened to be the ******* of the black minister that married Pam and I in 1990. He had accompanied his ******* and helped him with the service. He was only 17 at that time and still in high school. I didn't see him again until about 10 years later. Both Pam and I were in DC (We worked for the same agency.) and Derick was in her office talking to her. When I walked in, they seemed startled as if I had interrupted something intimate (Another missed clue). Pam introduced him because I didn't seem to recognize him; he looked a lot different from the wedding. She bragged that that scrawny teenager was a now grad student of Jack's and he was working on the contract that Jack had with her office. (Yet another missed clue). Derick died in 2001. He got sepsis and waited too long to go to the hospital. When Pam heard, she was grief-stricken. I thought it was because she was such a sensitive person (The final missed clue with Derick).
How could I have been so out of touch with what was going on?

 

[gw 7120]

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Pam and I were married for 14 years and for all that time it never occurred to me that she would be unfaithful. Several years after Pam and I split up, I was surfing an interracial porn site and noticed the sexy thigh-his in this photo and thought to myself, "Those look just like the thigh-his that Pam used to wear under her business pants suits when she went on business trips to Washington, DC." (It was our inside joke that under those conservative slacks were sexy panties and those killer hose.) I almost ******* my pants when I looked at the woman's face and it was Pam. Then I looked at the guy and he looked familiar. He looked like Derick, a contractor to her office in DC.
To say that I looked carefully at the photo would be an understatement; I examined every part of it and found many details that confirmed that it was Pam. The hair is the style she changed to about 5 years after we got married, the necklace is the one I gave her for our 6th anniversary. The tits and nipples are virtually identical to hers, the navel is a tiny "innie" like hers. The finger nail polish is the same neutral shade as the polish she wears.
I recognized the background as the "dungeon" that her ex boyfriend and Dom, Jack had in the lower level of his townhouse in the Maryland suburbs of DC. I had been there once to try to thwart Jack's attempt to use a "Best of Pam" porn video to blackmail her into having sex with him the night before our wedding. I made Jack show me the video and that bed, the wireless house phone, and the funky red and white and pink shower curtains are unmistakable. They were in the background for a lot of clips in the blackmail video.
Then there is that facial expression, not exactly the ******* you would expect on a woman who is enjoying having her pussy eaten. That too confirms that it is Pam; she hated oral sex both giving and receiving. It seems that someone else must have photographed her and that brings us to the question of who. I am pretty sure that it was Jack. She lived with him for three years as his submissive and she told me that the last Wednesday of every month he had an orgy in the "dungeon" and she acted as the hostess. Jack was blatant voyeur and would photograph virtually any one at the orgies.
It wasn't until I found this photo that I realized just how many of Pam’s frequent business trips to DC were the last week of the month. (A clue that I missed to her cheating.)She would usually go on Tuesdays and come back Thursday evening almost always staying at her friend Mary's apartment. We made it a custom to call home every night when we were on business travel using a calling card. When she was away the calls were always a lot shorter than when I was away, particularly when she was at Mary's because she said that didn't want to tie up Mary's phone.(Another missed clue). In retrospect, I suspect that she was really at Jack's townhouse most of those times.
I wondered about when the photo might have been taken. For a brief moment I thought it might have been before we met but then I remembered the necklace and the thigh-his. I estimate the photo as sometime between 1998 and 2001.Another detail was that Derick also happened to be the ******* of the black minister that married Pam and I in 1990. He had accompanied his ******* and helped him with the service. He was only 17 at that time and still in high school. I didn't see him again until about 10 years later. Both Pam and I were in DC (We worked for the same agency.) and Derick was in her office talking to her. When I walked in, they seemed startled as if I had interrupted something intimate (Another missed clue). Pam introduced him because I didn't seem to recognize him; he looked a lot different from the wedding. She bragged that that scrawny teenager was a now grad student of Jack's and he was working on the contract that Jack had with her office. (Yet another missed clue). Derick died in 2001. He got sepsis and waited too long to go to the hospital. When Pam heard, she was grief-stricken. I thought it was because she was such a sensitive person (The final missed clue with Derick).
How could I have been so out of touch with what was going on?

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[Mrzakary]

You still have the link ?

 

[Maury]

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Pam and I were married for 14 years and for all that time it never occurred to me that she would be unfaithful. Several years after Pam and I split up, I was surfing an interracial porn site and noticed the sexy thigh-his in this photo and thought to myself, "Those look just like the thigh-his that Pam used to wear under her business pants suits when she went on business trips to Washington, DC." (It was our inside joke that under those conservative slacks were sexy panties and those killer hose.) I almost ******* my pants when I looked at the woman's face and it was Pam. Then I looked at the guy and he looked familiar. He looked like Derick, a contractor to her office in DC.
To say that I looked carefully at the photo would be an understatement; I examined every part of it and found many details that confirmed that it was Pam. The hair is the style she changed to about 5 years after we got married, the necklace is the one I gave her for our 6th anniversary. The tits and nipples are virtually identical to hers, the navel is a tiny "innie" like hers. The finger nail polish is the same neutral shade as the polish she wears.
I recognized the background as the "dungeon" that her ex boyfriend and Dom, Jack had in the lower level of his townhouse in the Maryland suburbs of DC. I had been there once to try to thwart Jack's attempt to use a "Best of Pam" porn video to blackmail her into having sex with him the night before our wedding. I made Jack show me the video and that bed, the wireless house phone, and the funky red and white and pink shower curtains are unmistakable. They were in the background for a lot of clips in the blackmail video.
Then there is that facial expression, not exactly the ******* you would expect on a woman who is enjoying having her pussy eaten. That too confirms that it is Pam; she hated oral sex both giving and receiving. It seems that someone else must have photographed her and that brings us to the question of who. I am pretty sure that it was Jack. She lived with him for three years as his submissive and she told me that the last Wednesday of every month he had an orgy in the "dungeon" and she acted as the hostess. Jack was blatant voyeur and would photograph virtually any one at the orgies.
It wasn't until I found this photo that I realized just how many of Pam’s frequent business trips to DC were the last week of the month. (A clue that I missed to her cheating.)She would usually go on Tuesdays and come back Thursday evening almost always staying at her friend Mary's apartment. We made it a custom to call home every night when we were on business travel using a calling card. When she was away the calls were always a lot shorter than when I was away, particularly when she was at Mary's because she said that didn't want to tie up Mary's phone.(Another missed clue). In retrospect, I suspect that she was really at Jack's townhouse most of those times.
I wondered about when the photo might have been taken. For a brief moment I thought it might have been before we met but then I remembered the necklace and the thigh-his. I estimate the photo as sometime between 1998 and 2001.Another detail was that Derick also happened to be the ******* of the black minister that married Pam and I in 1990. He had accompanied his ******* and helped him with the service. He was only 17 at that time and still in high school. I didn't see him again until about 10 years later. Both Pam and I were in DC (We worked for the same agency.) and Derick was in her office talking to her. When I walked in, they seemed startled as if I had interrupted something intimate (Another missed clue). Pam introduced him because I didn't seem to recognize him; he looked a lot different from the wedding. She bragged that that scrawny teenager was a now grad student of Jack's and he was working on the contract that Jack had with her office. (Yet another missed clue). Derick died in 2001. He got sepsis and waited too long to go to the hospital. When Pam heard, she was grief-stricken. I thought it was because she was such a sensitive person (The final missed clue with Derick).
How could I have been so out of touch with what was going on?

I can relate to and sympathize with your missed clues. It is hard to accept when a husband has total trust in his wife that she would never cheat. I experienced the same type of story and couldn't believe what happened. After only a year and a half of marriage and my young wife frequently telling me how much she loved me, I was deluded into believing tht she would never cheat on me. My first missed clue was when we were having dinner one evening and she randomly mentioned her good friend who had a black boyfriend. My wife casually mentioned how here friend had gone to her gynecologist for a routine pap smear and was told that the only thing the doctor's office could find was a high amount of sperm coating the inside of her vagina. My wife seemed so intrigued when her friend told her how virile black men are. My second missed clue preceded an overtime shift that I had to work one Saturday night. It was an overnight ******* from 8pm to 5am. Before I left for work my wife told me that she was going to the movies with her friend. She was wearing a pair of tight pants that I had never seen before that really showed off her sexy ass. Then the next morning when I got home from work about 6am she made a direct point of telling me that she didn't want to have sex. I hadn't even considered sex since I was exhausted from the all-night shift that I had just finished working. When I assured her that I didn't want to have sex at that time either, I reached up between her legs and could feel that she was soaking wet. I didn't do or say anything. The third missed clue was about a month later when she came crying that she missed her period. I could tell that she was very worried since I had told her before marriage that I didn't want to have *******. She continued to decry her missed period for days after and I thought it was overreacting on her part. After all we were married and if I got her pregnant I would be a man and fulfill my roll as a dad and a husband. After telling her that she still seemed very upset. The next missed clue was a couple of weeks later when she told me that she was taking the day off work to take a different friend to her doctor for a possible abortion. I told her that I didn't approve, but that didn't deter her. I missed a big clue when for the following week or two she would only perform oral sex on me, telling me that she was now having a heavy period. At this point I started to get a little suspicious of what was going on. I called her other girlfriend (the one who was supposedly getting the abortion) only to find out that the truth was the opposite of what my wife had told me that, in fact, it was my wife who got the abortion and her friend had driven. After all that I confronted my wife as to why she had an abortion without ever telling me. She broke down and confessed that she had been having an affair with a black boyfriend and she was afraid that she was pregnant by him and that she didn't want me to see her giving birth to a black baby. Within days she broke down further confessing that she loved her black boyfriend more than she did me and that she was going to live with him and wanted a divorce. I know this is a long story, but I wish that I had seen the clues at the time. I may have been able to save our marriage.

 

[jmontagn]

I can relate to and sympathize with your missed clues. It is hard to accept when a husband has total trust in his wife that she would never cheat. I experienced the same type of story and couldn't believe what happened. After only a year and a half of marriage and my young wife frequently telling me how much she loved me, I was deluded into believing tht she would never cheat on me. My first missed clue was when we were having dinner one evening and she randomly mentioned her good friend who had a black boyfriend. My wife casually mentioned how here friend had gone to her gynecologist for a routine pap smear and was told that the only thing the doctor's office could find was a high amount of sperm coating the inside of her vagina. My wife seemed so intrigued when her friend told her how virile black men are. My second missed clue preceded an overtime shift that I had to work one Saturday night. It was an overnight ******* from 8pm to 5am. Before I left for work my wife told me that she was going to the movies with her friend. She was wearing a pair of tight pants that I had never seen before that really showed off her sexy ass. Then the next morning when I got home from work about 6am she made a direct point of telling me that she didn't want to have sex. I hadn't even considered sex since I was exhausted from the all-night shift that I had just finished working. When I assured her that I didn't want to have sex at that time either, I reached up between her legs and could feel that she was soaking wet. I didn't do or say anything. The third missed clue was about a month later when she came crying that she missed her period. I could tell that she was very worried since I had told her before marriage that I didn't want to have *******. She continued to decry her missed period for days after and I thought it was overreacting on her part. After all we were married and if I got her pregnant I would be a man and fulfill my roll as a dad and a husband. After telling her that she still seemed very upset. The next missed clue was a couple of weeks later when she told me that she was taking the day off work to take a different friend to her doctor for a possible abortion. I told her that I didn't approve, but that didn't deter her. I missed a big clue when for the following week or two she would only perform oral sex on me, telling me that she was now having a heavy period. At this point I started to get a little suspicious of what was going on. I called her other girlfriend (the one who was supposedly getting the abortion) only to find out that the truth was the opposite of what my wife had told me that, in fact, it was my wife who got the abortion and her friend had driven. After all that I confronted my wife as to why she had an abortion without ever telling me. She broke down and confessed that she had been having an affair with a black boyfriend and she was afraid that she was pregnant by him and that she didn't want me to see her giving birth to a black baby. Within days she broke down further confessing that she loved her black boyfriend more than she did me and that she was going to live with him and wanted a divorce. I know this is a long story, but I wish that I had seen the clues at the time. I may have been able to save our marriage.

It is so easy to see in retrospect. While you are living it, you are blinded by your love of her.

 

[Wifepurv]

I can relate to and sympathize with your missed clues. It is hard to accept when a husband has total trust in his wife that she would never cheat. I experienced the same type of story and couldn't believe what happened. After only a year and a half of marriage and my young wife frequently telling me how much she loved me, I was deluded into believing tht she would never cheat on me. My first missed clue was when we were having dinner one evening and she randomly mentioned her good friend who had a black boyfriend. My wife casually mentioned how here friend had gone to her gynecologist for a routine pap smear and was told that the only thing the doctor's office could find was a high amount of sperm coating the inside of her vagina. My wife seemed so intrigued when her friend told her how virile black men are. My second missed clue preceded an overtime shift that I had to work one Saturday night. It was an overnight ******* from 8pm to 5am. Before I left for work my wife told me that she was going to the movies with her friend. She was wearing a pair of tight pants that I had never seen before that really showed off her sexy ass. Then the next morning when I got home from work about 6am she made a direct point of telling me that she didn't want to have sex. I hadn't even considered sex since I was exhausted from the all-night shift that I had just finished working. When I assured her that I didn't want to have sex at that time either, I reached up between her legs and could feel that she was soaking wet. I didn't do or say anything. The third missed clue was about a month later when she came crying that she missed her period. I could tell that she was very worried since I had told her before marriage that I didn't want to have *******. She continued to decry her missed period for days after and I thought it was overreacting on her part. After all we were married and if I got her pregnant I would be a man and fulfill my roll as a dad and a husband. After telling her that she still seemed very upset. The next missed clue was a couple of weeks later when she told me that she was taking the day off work to take a different friend to her doctor for a possible abortion. I told her that I didn't approve, but that didn't deter her. I missed a big clue when for the following week or two she would only perform oral sex on me, telling me that she was now having a heavy period. At this point I started to get a little suspicious of what was going on. I called her other girlfriend (the one who was supposedly getting the abortion) only to find out that the truth was the opposite of what my wife had told me that, in fact, it was my wife who got the abortion and her friend had driven. After all that I confronted my wife as to why she had an abortion without ever telling me. She broke down and confessed that she had been having an affair with a black boyfriend and she was afraid that she was pregnant by him and that she didn't want me to see her giving birth to a black baby. Within days she broke down further confessing that she loved her black boyfriend more than she did me and that she was going to live with him and wanted a divorce. I know this is a long story, but I wish that I had seen the clues at the time. I may have been able to save our marriage.

Ima dumass too