I am an extremely confident women, confident in my sexuality, my appearance and who I am as a person, so with that said I don't need a man of any color to make me feel any type of way. However! When I had my first and now last experience with a black man, I learned of the true definition of "white privilege" the injustices, and all that he bares just to walk in his shoes everyday bc of his skin color! I submit to him, I give him what no one else can give him to the best of my ability, and I've never done that for any man in my life, that's what has changed me, being "blacked"