Ever notice how our white women change when they first start meeting new black men? My last friend, Sheila, was so nervouse before the guy arrived that I had to give a stiff shot of vodka to calm her nerves. Everything went great. A few days later, we invited him back and the nerves were gone, she pretty much dropped to her knees and started sucking him when he came in the door. I have been in this lifestyle for a long time and that is pretty typical.