OK..we're a couple in middle Tennessee. Im 55/w/m/ddf, she's 45/w/f/ddf, BBW, 48DDD. Our sex lives are dead. We just don't have it anymore. I 've been married to her 21 yrs. and never been able to get her pregnant. I was wondering if maybe one of you men in my area might be able to help me take it patiently step by step.