jamesriske
Male
I wasn't talking about the men. I was talking about the women. So let's focus on them.How about the man take ownership for waving his dick around like a magic wand. Single moms are the worst thing to happen to society? That statement outside of idiotic deserves no response. How about men who have no responsibility beyond the head of their dick and brains in their crotch that do the predominate amount of thinking? Single moms didn’t happen unilaterally. Single moms are a direct result of irresponsible men.
There are dozens of birth control methods available to women and ultimately, the decision to have the baby is the woman's. Not the man's. No one ****** her legs open, no ****** her to have sex without birth control, and no one ****** her to have unprotected sex with that particular man (the one she'll call a no-good, worthless bastard after he disappears once she gets pregnant.).
Of course the man holds some responsibility. Of course. No one is disputing that. But since women generally control access to sex, have more birth control methods available to them, and ultimately the final decision is theirs, women are MORE responsible for the explosion of single parent households than men are. Obviously.
It's difficult to get women to take responsibility for their actions and judging by your response, I suspect this trait is more prevalent than I previously thought. It's obvious that almost all the responsibility for all the single moms falls upon women but all too often they are portrayed as victims rather than the ones irresponsibly having ******* out of wedlock with deadbeat men.
Personally, I advise all men to avoid marriage completely, don't let a woman move in with you, and NEVER get one pregnant. That is the best advice for men nowadays. So we are in complete agreement that men should NOT be going around having unprotected sex with women. Period. We agree. I just wish that women would put aside their silly gender wars and take some responsibility for their actions. I don't see single moms as heroes or victims, I see them as perpetrators.