Blow Jobs - submission or POWER?

[Becky Joyce]

Let me start by saying I absolutely LOVE giving blow jobs!! As if my name and what my friends call me - "BJ" does not give it away!!! But over the last few years my feelings about them have changed. When I started (13 years ago), it definitely an act of submission to the superior alpha male. I would drop to my knees, unzip him (or pull his shorts down) and take his manhood into my mouth, licking, sucking, and looking submissively into his eyes until I received my reward. Now however when I cup his balls in my hand, I have a feeling of power over him - I often give them a little squeeze, before I let him cum so he knows that I am in charge.

I'd be interested in hearing from others about this

 

[BrotherlyLove4U]

To me it's a woman with an oral fixation, who get her Joy's from hearing the response of what she is doing. Makes her so wet some can actually come from doing it.

 

[Becky Joyce]

it's an act of submission acknowledging that Black Men are the Superior Alpha Male sexually & athletically. turned me into a faggot cocksucker that loves a BBC in my mouth or up my ass

there certainly is that with a man who is in control and treats me with the respect one human owes another. but lately as I travel for work I have been running into some customers who come on very strong - and while I am flattered, some are real ass-holes. I have invited a few of them back to my hotel after we have had dinner and drinks. And proceed to drop to my knees and unzip them. I get them close to coming, stop, and them give their family jewels a little squeeze, just enough to let them know I am in charge.

 

[BrotherlyLove4U]

Sweet lips on my cock can have control.

 

[Becky Joyce]

Sweet lips on my cock can have control.

that is how I see it - if I have your coc in my mouth ans your balls in my hand - you will do pretty much anything I ask...

 

[LOVERHUSBAND]

Let me start by saying I absolutely LOVE giving blow jobs!! As if my name and what my friends call me - "BJ" does not give it away!!! But over the last few years my feelings about them have changed. When I started (13 years ago), it definitely an act of submission to the superior alpha male. I would drop to my knees, unzip him (or pull his shorts down) and take his manhood into my mouth, licking, sucking, and looking submissively into his eyes until I received my reward. Now however when I cup his balls in my hand, I have a feeling of power over him - I often give them a little squeeze, before I let him cum so he knows that I am in charge.

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Some thoughts:
"The slave is the master" Niezche
Everything is yin and yang.
We are taling his power with our mouths!

 

[Becky Joyce]

Some thoughts:
"The slave is the master" Niezche
Everything is yin and yang.
We are taling his power with our mouths!

yes - I think so

 

[BrotherlyLove4U]

that is how I see it - if I have your coc in my mouth ans your balls in my hand - you will do pretty much anything I ask...

I most likely would being I want you to finish what you started??

 

[txguy]

it's an act of submission acknowledging that Black Men are the Superior Alpha Male sexually & athletically. turned me into a faggot cocksucker that loves a BBC in my mouth or up my ass

i have to agree, for me an act of submission.

 

[imready8633]

For me it's submission but it does feel good knowing that at that moment right before he's about to cum that he would do anything I wanted just to make sure I don't stop hehe.

 

[Becky Joyce]

For me it's submission but it does feel good knowing that at that moment right before he's about to cum that he would do anything I wanted just to make sure I don't stop hehe.

exactly

 

[Becky Joyce]

For me it's submission but it does feel good knowing that at that moment right before he's about to cum that he would do anything I wanted just to make sure I don't stop hehe.

yes it does

 

[whtcpl4fun]

I don't see it as either, something I love doing that's it

 

[icanthelpit]

I most likely would being I want you to finish what you started??

ALWAYS finish what I start and don't waste a drop....So sucking is nice, especially on a dom BBc, but the finish is the best part for me....well I also like the start? Being nervous about everything, dropping to my knees as he pulls his black cock out, and its not fully hard, then I am very nervous as my head draws near to his cock and my mouth opens and he slides his dick in my mouth and I close on it and taste it, and then relax and the n get aroused as I feel his thick black dick get thicker and bigger and harder in my mouth...that's a close second best part.

 

[icanthelpit]

Let me start by saying I absolutely LOVE giving blow jobs!! As if my name and what my friends call me - "BJ" does not give it away!!! But over the last few years my feelings about them have changed. When I started (13 years ago), it definitely an act of submission to the superior alpha male. I would drop to my knees, unzip him (or pull his shorts down) and take his manhood into my mouth, licking, sucking, and looking submissively into his eyes until I received my reward. Now however when I cup his balls in my hand, I have a feeling of power over him - I often give them a little squeeze, before I let him cum so he knows that I am in charge.

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Submission for me... I am a masculine alpha make in life...with a deep oral submissive desire and drive. I love sucking a guy off, but I really love a guy who fucks my mouth when he is ready to cum.

 

[wannawatchbbc]

To me it's a woman with an oral fixation, who get her Joy's from hearing the response of what she is doing. Makes her so wet some can actually come from doing it.

My ex would cum like that

 

[billabongs66]

It's obviously quite natural to feel submissive when you're sucking a Big Black Cock but unless you're being throat fucked you control the pace and therefore have the power over him.
I think that sense of power actually makes me more submissive knowing that I've been given that power to please him.

 

[BrotherlyLove4U]

My ex would cum like that

Is she the one in the pics?

 

[Bbwfan]

that is how I see it - if I have your coc in my mouth ans your balls in my hand - you will do pretty much anything I ask...

Thos one is so true) when your manhood in someones mouth they are in control for sure

 

[BrotherlyLove4U]

that is how I see it - if I have your coc in my mouth ans your balls in my hand - you will do pretty much anything I ask...

And you’d do the same to keep it going