Black male/white female sexual sub-culture – does it vary between different nations?

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  1. TakingBlacksInMe

    TakingBlacksInMe Active Member

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    I’m living in the UK, but originally from Australia, where there are very few Black/African men (though that is changing in the last few years!) and subsequently even less of a Black male/White female sexual sub-culture.

    To those on here who have lived in or visited different nations, do you find there is are differences to the extent to which Black men are particularly sought after, either by single women or cuckolding couples.

    Obviously, in the US this is very much the case, but I’m thinking of others – for instance, I have heard there is quite a demand for the Big Black Cock in Germany, but not heard about France (not saying it’s not a ‘thing’ there though!).
     
  2. BXdarkknight

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    I can only speak for me, having been in the Navy and traveled to Australia I've found white woman outside of America are more open to being with a black man, here in America I find white women from the south and Midwest are more open to being with a black man.
     
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  3. tristan_dirden

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    As a white male who is interested in being cuckolded, I find that the UK is quite an open minded place to be (and getting more so with time). While IR couples aren't that common, in talking to people, I find that they are mostly accepting of the idea, if not outright enthusiastic about it. The idea of Black Men being Alpha Males and the idea of white girls wanting black lovers (while living with a white male partner) is also becoming more mainstream. Still a long way to go but I can see promising changes afoot).
     
  4. Sarah

    Sarah Active Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I totally agree with @tristan_dirden. The younger generation in the UK are, in the main, incredibly open minded and IR relationships are becoming much more common. I'm 32 now and such relationships perhaps weren't as prevelant during my teenage years. However, I think the UK has become far more multicultural over the past 10 to 20 years and race isn't as much of an issue anymore. That can only be a good thing.
     
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  5. BXdarkknight

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    I always found that white women outside of the U.S were more open to being in an interracial relationships than those here in the states.
     
  6. sperm8r

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    I was told that on college campuses the babes are grooming there husbands to be into the cuckold sub servant role to the female with all options open sexually. The Female Led Relationship. Where her fiancé must accept and encourage her affairs.
    This is done while her female friends are around to witness and reward him with encouragement and positive female persuasion.

    Even shared among the younger lady's as to this life style before getting to advanced education. Play with the big boys and southe the lovely pussy with lip service from the guy that brought you to the party.
     
  7. tristan_dirden

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    WOW - well, if that is happening, it doesn't surprise me (and seems perfectly natural)
     
  8. Britwhitecuck

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    I feel the UK and especially the younger generation is definitely finding black male/white female relationships more acceptable. That said, I believe there's a difference in acceptance between white men and white women with white women far more accepting of this than white men.
    Amongst my male friends and peers some white men still hold racist views (that come out in jokes etc) whereas others have openly mentioned how hot interracial porn is.
    Amongst my female friends and peers I've vary rarely heard any racist comment but definitely plenty of talk about black men, often with sexual overtones.
    No doubt institutional racism is rife but hopefully as the younger generation moves into positions of power this will decline.
    Good time to be alive though for lovers of interracial sex and may be for some of us cuck wannabes to find suitable partners. We can all live in hope anyway.
     
  9. LukeAdams

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    It seems to me that two related but different things are being mixed up here. There is the subject of just straight-up interracial sex, and this posts asks about the prevalence of black male, white female interracial, or what she refers to as a sub-culture. I am not sure how "sub" it is any more. A related but different subject is not just sex between the two types mentioned, but a dominance-submissive relationship [the black alpha male] between the black male and the white female/and or the white male cuckold.
    I think the black- white thing is not actually "dangerous" anywhere. I read years ago in Jane Birnbaum's College Book that Nebraska football players had their pick of white girls. Nebraska is on the edge of the U.S. northwest, with the fewest black people . I am especially familiar with Texas, Oklahoma, and Louisiana, "redneck territory", and interracial relationships are at least condoned and fairly common here.
    Not nearly as common but what I see more and more are white male-black female. relationships. This combo does not ring as many titillating bells, for various reasons. But, I can think offhand of five such couples that I either know or that have parents that I know.
    What is much more rare, regardless of what you read on this site, is cuckolding. Men offering their wives or girlfriends to black men is definitely a subculture, a fetish. Think of it this way: consider how many millions of people have access to the internet. This and a couple of other websites are the most popular cuckolding websites. Consider how relatively few visitors these websites have at any one time.
    Cuckolding , even interracial cuckolding is nothing new. This has been going on for a long, long time. But the internet has made it easier to read about and contact others with this interest.
     
  10. jazzmo

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    I long for the day when white wive and girlfriends having black lovers is commonplace. When it is accepted among white men that their white women will be available sexually to black men. There has been some good progress in that direction. Cuckold should become a household word. I want white women to reject white men who would not allow them to enjoy black lovers. Let all white men understand that to be with a white woman you have to accept this. I hope that it will be no big deal one day that when a white couple says their vows on their wedding day it is understood that the wife will have black lovers. I hope for cuckolding white couples to one day be the majority of white couples. I would love that world.
     
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  11. Janice K

    Janice K Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Interesting thread..
     
  12. kenny3333

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    Not sure if this is the right place, but I was cuckolded by my wife - a nurse - and her West Indian lover - a doctor at her hospital. They had a secret affair, but when she got pregnant to him, she asked me to let him move in and from the first night, they took over the marital bed. She had a baby boy about 6 months after they set up home and I moved out when the baby was about 7 months old, because he got her pregnant again. I loved the lifestyle, but they wanted the spare room as a nursery, and I didn't fancy sleeping on the settee. She is expecting her third just now and has two very beautiful darkish boys and I was never able to make her as happy as Jim has made her. She told me that after the first time they made love, she could never touch me again - he forbade her to anyway - and if they ever did split up, she would only want a black boyfriend
     
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  13. hotjen

    hotjen Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    well done hun
     
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  14. kenny3333

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    I felt a little humiliated at first, because he was making her make sounds the like of which I could never hope to achieve. Whereas we did it a couple of times per week, they were doing 2-3 times a night and when I was at work and they were on days off together, I can only begin to imagine
     
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  15. chris john

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    We have not done this yet, but we talk about it a lot and some people suggested we post an add on a website and we have and so many of the people that contact us are either black men or couples suggesting we go to IR parties. We have been invited to about 30 different IR groups all over the east coast so it is very popular
     
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  16. DanaBlackOwned

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    Have to admit this, but before I even joined this site I had no idea what a cuckold was ... never even heard the word or anything about that to be honest ... but that doesn't mean I didn't have some sorta mild experience with it ... not really, but kinda-sorta I guess you can say. But, it was many of you guys out there writing to me and propositioning me ... asking me about it ... or things like that ... explaining things about what they thought it was that only started helping me understand more. Not all, but more.

    Pretty interesting, not sure what to think about it but for some reason I don't hate the idea anymore. hahaha. IDK why. Wish I had this help and knowledge when this older white man from the UK who lived near me said some things ... he kept approaching me a few years ago. He was in his late 50's and said he always noticed me with my black sons and once in awhile with my black bf and he was super sweet about it. He asked me if I was 'owned' by my black bf, which is how I get my profile name btw, and I just answered him, "yeah, I guess I am." It surprised me at first he asked me that but when I answered I could see that it seemed to drive him crazy for me, I swear.

    Then he kept offering me money n' help for my children and me, and even for my black bf. He referred to my sons as princes and my bf as a 'true king,' he said, his words, and he was very complimentary too. His offers kinda spooked me a little tho' but I was younger then and didn't know anything ... and he eventually moved back to the UK ... but now today I think about it and I think that I could've had one of those cuckyhold guys! hehehe.

    I wouldn't have married him, tho. No way. But, I may have kept him around. IDK. xoxx, Dana :oops:
     
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  17. malizia2000

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    Italy here. Not much blacks and not much mixed couple. There is a vast curiosity regarding bbc, but still fear to do something socially not acceptable and to be judged. In brief is still a taboo and who is in lifestyle is not so public as I've read in Usa. I've never seen in the beaches in my country the qos tatoo or tshirt like "bbc lover"
    I speak on my exp.
     
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  18. Britwhitecuck

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    There's still time to try and get in touch with the guy Dana. As a cuckold myself I sure know that the cuckold feelings do not go away, believe me! I also understand that many white females will at first find the whole cuckold 'thing' unbelievable, but it's a reality that many white girls who openly state their love and lust for big black males will have to face - basically we (white guys, and often smallish white guys) just love you girls!
    Believe me, you can offer this guy something that he can't get elsewhere. No 'normal' relationship will offer real satisfaction for a cuckold - only a white female that likes big black men and has their babies. It may sound perverted - but it's a reality to cuckold white men!
    An interracial cuckold relationship gives BBC loving white females and cuckold white males the opportunity to form sustainable and possibly loving and supportive relationships, while also providing the environment for mixed race babies to be conceived, grow and flourish.
    Wish you well Dana
     
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  19. BlkWarriorking

    BlkWarriorking Member Real Person

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    As an Air Force veteran stationed in Germany I know from exprence that what they say about the Germany women and Black Men are true.
     
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  20. DanaBlackOwned

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    Well, what do they say? xoxx, Dana