One of the things that I often say that separates me from most Bulls is that I live on both sides of this lifestyle. What I mean is that on one hand I am a Bull, I enjoy meeting and playing with hotwife (Stag/Vixen) couples and cuckold couples. On the other hand I am also in a Stag/Vixen type dynamic myself, meaning that I have a woman in my life who I am in an actual relationship with, whom I live with, whom I love and who I also enjoy seeing getting fucked by other men. Understanding both sides affords me a very unique perspective into the minds of the husbands I deal with. When I first started doing my bbc parties almost 7 years ago I quickly realized that for most of the black men who came to my parties, if they had a woman in their life who they loved, they would not bring her to my type of party. Over the years I have met a few black men who also fall into this stag/vixen type of dynamic but their numbers are small...very small...as in less than 5. Keep in mind, over the years I have hosted well over 100 parties, have met almost 1000 different couples and have had over 1000 black men come through my doors.....and I've met 5. In fact, each time I encounter one I always make it a point to go up to him and talk to him and let him know just how unique he is. So what I am wondering today is of all the guys I see on this site, how many are a part of that exclusive club? How many black men here are capable of sharing the woman that they love (understand, I am not talking about sharing a slut that you know, or sharing your swing partner who has her own thing going on.) I'm talking about the woman you love...your wife..your gf....your sub. The woman you sleep with every night and wake up with every morning. The woman who you go through the ups and downs of real life with. The woman who when life kicks your ass you can lay your head and her lap and cry if you need to.) How many of you are capable of sharing THIS woman? And when I say share, I'm not talking about taking her to a couples only type of swing party. I'm saying can you take her to a party where there are many black guys knowing that she's going to get fucked by at least several black guys. Are you here?