I'm curious as to why a big black dildo leads so many women into pursuing a real life big black cock. Size and girth plays a huge role in the sexual satisfaction of a woman and big black dildos or BBDs have the size/girth. If it was all about black cock most women would just use BBDs to get off. So I'm guessing that the black man himself plays a huge role in the sexual satisfaction of a hot single non black women or hot wife. If anything, I have noticed BBDs are used as training tools for real life BBCs. Thoughts, opinions, feedback.
Big black dildo vs a real big black cock
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its really the naughty mind set..the many years of taboo..having partner secure enough to know i am using black cock for my pleasure,,not really theirs..i am in control..i determine when how where....i can stop this anytime i want..so i look at it in different light..plus its pleadurable otherwise why do it..have wonderful successful great lover as hubby..he asked me about this..i took it on..simple
BlondeLife
Female
I think it is a stepping stone. Most people bring it into the bedroom and if it feels weird or the roleplay is odd than it is just a dildo. If it is working and super hot then naturally you want to try the real thing. Also most dildos don't cum and I think there is satisfaction and sexual desire in that itself.
BlondeLife
Female
I'd say people go find black dildos due to the fantasy already being there for at least one of them.
Stephymessy
Female
It started with fucking myself to interracial porn with a big black dildo. Soon the fantasy became an irresistible urge. After my first black cock I couldn’t resist getting the real thing
For us, it started with a conversation at dinner not too long after we started dating. Told her that I thought watching white women, especially white wives, having sex with black guys really turned me on. She admitted that she had never been with a black guy and never gave it much thought. But she started asking me questions about what I liked about it, why it turned me on, etc and she said it was pretty hot. The next day she went to an adult store downtown and bought a black dildo and an interracial movie. When I came over her house that night I found her on the couch fucking herself with the big black dildo while watching the porno she bought. It was so fucking hot and exciting. And everything has grown from there.
Wow, great story! You know she did all that cause she really cares for you!
Of course...that is the best part. I have an amazing wife. I had no idea that my fantasy, that I had been hiding for years, could be welcomed by her...and then it become her fantasy as well. We both share this experience and it is wonderfully fun and erotic and entertaining.
I think you answered your own question. There is no single answer.
Some women seek the real thing when the dildo is no longer enough to satisfy their curiosity. Other women use the dildo as a substitute when the real deal isn't available.
When we started in the lifestyle, my previous partners had been small or average sized. I used BBC dildos to prepare my pussy for big men. My husband and I still use them when we have sex because his dick can no longer give me much physical pleasure.
My wife never fucks herself with them, I use them with a strap on or without one, but it’s always me using it on her.
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