Maybe its you, not them? Kidding.
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The penis gets hard when its arteries open up to let more ******* to flow in the chambers called the corpora cavernosa; at the same time, the veins close up. Once ******* is in the penis, pressure traps it within. Men with massive cocks may need a litre of ******* to get fully hard, some porn actors never get a complete erection.
A male friend told me that casual sex produces him an anxiety similar to an exam at the college. Social norms consider that female duty is to be attractive and male duty is to lead the sexual intercourse. If something doesn't work, it is his fault. The huge expectations about black man's cock, created by myths and stereotypes, could fuel this stress.
In a hotwife-Bull-cuckold encounter the focus of attention tends to be the black penis, and being surrounded by strangers, in their home, and the lack of foreplay could make the problem even worse. I guess it takes a lot of self confidence to 'function' in these circumstances, it's not just a matter of cock inches. I like to have a ******* before sex to get to know each other and create an atmosphere of confidence and seduction. The Bull coming home after a phone call as a pizza delivery boy does not help eroticism.
A male friend told me that casual sex produces him an anxiety similar to an exam at the college. Social norms consider that female duty is to be attractive and male duty is to lead the sexual intercourse. If something doesn't work, it is his fault. The huge expectations about black man's cock, created by myths and stereotypes, could fuel this stress.
In a hotwife-Bull-cuckold encounter the focus of attention tends to be the black penis, and being surrounded by strangers, in their home, and the lack of foreplay could make the problem even worse. I guess it takes a lot of self confidence to 'function' in these circumstances, it's not just a matter of cock inches. I like to have a ******* before sex to get to know each other and create an atmosphere of confidence and seduction. The Bull coming home after a phone call as a pizza delivery boy does not help eroticism.
Condoms are the main issue. Putting on a condom needs focus so you are double thinking about getting hard enough to put the condom on. Then once you are hard you gotta put it on and if your dick is big that will take a few seconds. Then you have the issue that you have a plastic bag over your dick that cuts sensation in half.
Also we are human not robots. Biology is not perfect. If you see us go soft try to give us head and suck the balls
Also we are human not robots. Biology is not perfect. If you see us go soft try to give us head and suck the balls
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StevieGirl, no, don't apologize. Your comment is very logical. If the majority of the men she is with have an issue with their erections, it only makes sense to look at any and every aspect of the love making process. In the long run, it specifically helps that individual with a problem that he/she is not aware of, right? In fact, its only fair that each mate have their physical self assessed by their mates ... fat guts, dirty teeth, poor hygiene, etc ... if it affects the other mate, its your responsibility to try to fix what is a distraction to your mate. Always check everything off ... so, ASK your mate how you can improve your appearance; it benefits everyone.
When she started fucking other men she didn’t want me to watch
I wanted to but the more important thing was that she was doing it not that I watched
After a while she had a guy she got with pretty regularly and I ended up watching them fuck ... I loved it. But the next day she told me that it’s just not the same for either of them with me watching, and she wasn’t going to ask him if I could watch again. That was 19 years ago, she’s had a steady BF for 5 years now and it’s only “special occasions” that I watch
But I do know her BF now stays hard a very very long time
I wanted to but the more important thing was that she was doing it not that I watched
After a while she had a guy she got with pretty regularly and I ended up watching them fuck ... I loved it. But the next day she told me that it’s just not the same for either of them with me watching, and she wasn’t going to ask him if I could watch again. That was 19 years ago, she’s had a steady BF for 5 years now and it’s only “special occasions” that I watch
But I do know her BF now stays hard a very very long time
That's because you can't beat anything that lays on its back to fight you ... think about it!
Silly question: how close does your husband stand to you and your bulls? Is he like fixating his sight on the guy? As long as he doesn't act like a cheerleader it doesn't matter how tall he is.
Also, I don't understand what you mean by 'not staying hard'. Do they get hard and fail before penetration? Or out of exhaustion?
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Also, a little encouragement, or ego-stroking, can go a long way. My wife is very loving, whispers to them, asks them what they want or like, nibbles playfully on their ears, but also before penetration, seriously warms them up with some intense oral lovemaking. Some women think they can just lay down and have something amazing happen to them. It’s a team effort.
