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Should i tell my girlfriend about my fantasies, toughts and ideas?


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Hello guys:)
I am new here so here is my question. I've been reading and watching international porn and stories a lot las years! I love it! The thing is my girlfriend has no idea about this, btw i am 22 and she is 23 years old, we are dating for 3 years now and everything is great, but i think that i am becoming addicted to this kind of porn and secretly i want her to try some black guy. She is just regular girl, 5'7 with really hot body. She is not a lot into experimenting etc, so i am afraid how to start a conversation about this. I had a plan to take her on some vacation (because of the the pandemy we stayed home this year) and tell her everything about this, even if we have chance i would ask her to try that. I am afraid that if somehow that happends i would freeze myself and my pulse would be 150 bpm.
I also imagine her in 100 ways doing that every night before i go to bed, it makes me so relaxed and helps me to fall asleep faster.
Please give me some advices and hints how to get her into this, so i could watch, read more freely even ask her to watch with me..
 
Better find out if she has any interest. There are many ways to do that. I'm sure you'll get a abundance of ideas good and bad. Don't push you could end up alone. While in the swinging lifestyle i learned many of the women were open to other options the biggest road block was worrying how the male would respond. You should know if your prone to jealousy if so I'd say keep it a fantasy.
 
We are from EU, but since 2019 work and travel we stayed in New York for 2 years now.
I wish i could find any intrest in her, but I'm pretty sure she has no idea that something like this exists. I barely made some jokes about some hot black guys at the beach last year but she wasn't impressed that much at all.
I don't think i would be jelous but i want to see her satisfied in that way, even more gangbang(2-3 bbcs). I am barely opsessed with her however it is but when i posted this question i couldn't stop thinking about her being part of this.
Please more advices and ideas...:)
 
EDIT: I broke the ice and i talked with her about everything. At first she was in shock about everything i said and my fantasies, but after around 20 minutes of talking and me sweating she told that that would be interesting and fun idea but only in our minds.. She told me that she is scared from bbc irl and she tought that she would be too tight for that. It was akward situation when i had no idea how to lead the conversation because i was so shy and we were a little *******, so that is how it started, otherwise i would never have balls to tell her that. I am suprised by her reaction on the first sign, i expected that she would be like: eww that is disgusting, but no. Idk, i want to make her at least masturbate on that thoughts or at least watch some ir porn..( she usually watches threesomes and regular porn). Idk guys, how should i lead the situation and make her like this stuff.
Btw, i told her about the photos and at first she was mad at me because i saved them from the chat, often when we send nudes we dont save them, but after that i became hard and she get my point and understood my situation with everything, so she said: okay, w/e anyway noone from the family or friends would ever see or find me here cause i think that noone has strange fantasies like you. So i opened this page and told her how much of us are here. Still she was shy but okay and here we are.
 
Always be honest with her. Good open communication is the key. But also don't rush! Watch IR porn together and talk while she's horney. Buy her a BBC dildo. Not the really big ones straight away though!
But She is definitely built for black and i wouldn't be the least bit surprised that soon you will have your wish granted. Good luck.
 
We are from EU, but since 2019 work and travel we stayed in New York for 2 years now.
I wish i could find any intrest in her, but I'm pretty sure she has no idea that something like this exists. I barely made some jokes about some hot black guys at the beach last year but she wasn't impressed that much at all.
I don't think i would be jelous but i want to see her satisfied in that way, even more gangbang(2-3 bbcs). I am barely opsessed with her however it is but when i posted this question i couldn't stop thinking about her being part of this.
Please more advices and ideas...:)
Ok come to my chat I know your girl need BBC i will.fuck it
 
You are on your way to becoming a cuckold I would say. Ask her to try a Black dildo and suggest that you both make this the object of deaure during sex for a set time. Suggest that your penis is Not part of the sex play and that you only wish to cum after seeing her cum from the dildo and your tongue. Make sure she enjoys it and make sex as often as possible until she craves that big thing inside her and she sees how little your own dick is required.
I think once shes enjoying this then a real man could be introduced fairly quickly.
Best of luck.
 
You are on your way to becoming a cuckold I would say. Ask her to try a Black dildo and suggest that you both make this the object of deaure during sex for a set time. Suggest that your penis is Not part of the sex play and that you only wish to cum after seeing her cum from the dildo and your tongue. Make sure she enjoys it and make sex as often as possible until she craves that big thing inside her and she sees how little your own dick is required.
I think once shes enjoying this then a real man could be introduced fairly quickly.
Best of luck.
Thanks for the honest idea, @BiSubCuck ! I love it, btw most of the time when we have sex she cum when i lick her pussy or when i finger her, because i ejaculate verry fast and after that my penis is soft and i can clearly see that she isnt even feeling good by her "fake" moans trying to make me hard again, so i continue with my tongue. We've been talking about bying a dildo but she is scared that she wont be able to handle them ( i am talking about normal dildo, not bbc, this was chat before this bbc thing) cause they might be a little big for her and she was not for it, the only thing that she impressed me and it was shocking was her brush that she was masturbating while videocalling me during the quarantine and she squirted. I ve never made her squirt, honestly i dont know what am i doing wrong but okay that aside. From that moment when we cannot have sex and she is horny she uses that as her toy and she finds it interesting and likely, 6-7 times till now in 1 year. The brush is not way big, around 5.6'', while my penis, in hardest moments is about 5.1 and lasts about 1-2 minutes because i cum pretty fast.
 
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UPDATE:
I promised her as new year gift some good tatoo she wanted, so she get it. While i am on work writing and reading the forum at some free time, it came to my mind to ask her for some photo and telling her that i want to post it here. She was like; oh again you and your dirty minds 🙄, but okay i will give it if that is necessary.

P.S For all those that was complaining about the face, here is one covered, guess u like it more like this 😒 😛

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I would start with role playing scenarios you find hot but also encourage her to be open with her thoughts and fantasies. Remember it’s something you do as a couple. You can also purchase a cock sleeve to see if it’s something you enjoy. We have used the one I’ve attached during the pandemic when we didn’t want to introduce anyone else. It will add length and girth to you. As well as give the visual of a BBC sliding in and out of her. You may find out that this is enough for both of you or you may discover that it opens the door for a bull.
 

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